• This is default featured slide 1 title

    Go to Blogger edit html and find these sentences.Now replace these sentences with your own descriptions.This theme is Bloggerized by NewBloggerThemes.com.

  • This is default featured slide 2 title

    Go to Blogger edit html and find these sentences.Now replace these sentences with your own descriptions.This theme is Bloggerized by NewBloggerThemes.com.

  • This is default featured slide 3 title

    Go to Blogger edit html and find these sentences.Now replace these sentences with your own descriptions.This theme is Bloggerized by NewBloggerThemes.com.

  • This is default featured slide 4 title

    Go to Blogger edit html and find these sentences.Now replace these sentences with your own descriptions.This theme is Bloggerized by NewBloggerThemes.com.

  • This is default featured slide 5 title

    Go to Blogger edit html and find these sentences.Now replace these sentences with your own descriptions.This theme is Bloggerized by NewBloggerThemes.com.

Showing posts with label Dandalin Ma'aurata (Couple's Corner). Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dandalin Ma'aurata (Couple's Corner). Show all posts

ITA MACE TAURIN KAI, KAI KUMA NAMIJI GIRMAN KAI

*ITA MACE TAURIN KAI, KAI KUMA NAMIJI GIRMAN KAI*

🍂 Dole ne sai Mace ta ajiye taurin kan ta, kai kuma namiji ka ajiye girman kan ka, a lokacin da sabani yashiga tsakaninku, tukunna afara samun zaman lafiya .

🍂 Wasu lokutan idan mace tana yimaka magana, to kasani fa daga zuciyarta maganar nan take. Kuma sai kaga ta doge akan hakan, saboda ita zuciyar mace idan har tana bukatar abu, to fa sai ahankali. 

🍂 Kamata yayi kai kuma karika yimata magana da hankalinka, domin gudun biye mata sai abu kuma yazama tashin hankali. Kanuna mata kai namiji ne, kana da zuciyar da zata iya daukar hakurin nauyin bacin rai.

_Allah yakara tabbatar da zaman lafiya atskanin ma'auratanmu._


✍🏻 *Idris M Rismawy*
Rismawy86@gmail.com

Share:

ZAN ƘARA AURE... 06


*_💑ZAN QARA AURE // 06🙆🏼🕺🏼_*
.
*_ME KIKE TSORO?_*

Zancen qarin aure tsakanin miji da mata in ka so ka kira shi da sunan rikici ko wani qulli mai wuyar warwara, amma ya danganta daga mutum zuwa wani, ko a matattararmu ta maza in mutum ya ce zai qara aure na kusa da shi kan tambaye shi "Shin ka gaya mata?" Ba wai shawara suke ba shi don ya gaya mata ba, ba kuma so suke su ji ya fadin ko bai fadi ba, babban abinda suke tunani shi ne: Gaya mata cewa zai qara aure ita ce babbar matsalar da za ta iya rikirkita masa gida, wani daganan ne zai tabbatar in zai iya qarawar ko sai ya sallami ta ciki kafin ta waje ta shigo.
.
A 'yan labarurrukan da muka tattara:-
a) Akwai wanda ya yi wa dakin uwargidan fenti ya sake mata komai don dai ya danne qirjinta.
b) Wani ya saya mata mota ga kudin kashewa.
c) Wani ya sake mata kayan daki gaba daya.
d) Wani tafiya da ita ya yi aka sayo kayan nata da na amaryar komai iri daya don dai a zauna lafiya.
e) Mun sami labarin wanda ya tura ta haji kafin ta dawo an yi komai.
f) Wani sakin ta cikin gidan ya yi sai da ya yi amaryar sannan ya dawo da ita, ya ce ba wata hanya ta zaman lafiya in ba wannan ba.
e) Wani ranar bikin ne ma uwargidan ta ga 'yan uwansa take tambayar ko lafiya aka ce mata aure mijinta yake yi.
Wasu abubuwan fa namiji kan yi ne gwargwadon yadda ya ga matarsa take, wata tana da zafin kishi, akan gane haka a maganganunta.
.
Wata kuwa ba'a kawai take yi, mai lura dai shi yake iya gane dingishin kwado, amma a wannan shirin wata ta yi min kashedin farko na cewa za ta kulle qofa da ni a waje don ma ta daina ganin tashin hankali, abin tambaya anan me take tsoro ne? Me amaryar za ta yi wanda ita ba za ta iya ba? Ladabi ko aiki don jin dadin maigida? Me amaryar take da shi wace ita Allah bai ba ta ba? Tarkon dake kama namiji ba wata wahalar danawa ce da shi ba, lura kuma za ki fahimta, "Shin me yake so?" Karuwan dake dauke hankalin mazanku me mazan ke buqata a wurinsu? Mazan kan yi musu maganganun qauna kala-kala.
.
Sukan kashe maqudan kudi a kan karuwai, su saya musu mota, su ba su aiki, wata a gina mata gida, a yi mata duk abinda take so, shin ita kuma me take ba namijin? Abu guda ne kawai ba ragi ba qari, da za ka ce masa "Wane irin kudin da kake kashe wa wance ka aure ta mana ka huta!" Wallahi cewa zai yi "Allah ya kyauta, wance zan maishe ta uwar 'ya'yana?!" Ashe duk kudin da yake ba ta da yawon da yake yi da ita da maganganun da yake fada mata duk na qarya ne, abu guda kawai yake so a wurinta ke ma kina da shi, bai qaunar ta zama matarsa ke kuma kina ma da yara tare da shi, riqe yaranki kawai Allah ya kawo ta lafiya.
.
Ba abinda wata mace take da shi wanda ba ki da shi, kuma ba abinda za ta yi wanda ba ki iya ba, kowa ta iya allonta ta wanke, in kika ji namiji ya ce zai qara aure, kuma da bakinsa ya fada, tabbas wace yake so zai auro, in kika matsa sai kin yaqe ta dayan abu biyu zai faru, kodai ki ci nasara ki hana aurenta, ko ita ta ci ta kashe naki, wanda hakan ya sha faruwa a wurare da yawa, kuma damar da take da ita na cin nasara a kanki tana da yawa, masamman yadda shi alqalin wasan yana qaunar wace kike fada da ita, ga miyar unguwa da zaqin tsiya, in ba ki yi sa'a ba wallahi wantsalar dake za ta yi, anyi an gama, sai wani jiqon wai akuya ta zubar da tsamiyar kura, koda kin ci nasara auren ya gagara, yanzu mijin naki zai fahimci da shi kike yi, kina bata masa neman aure don haka zai nemo inda ba ki isa ba.
.
Wannan a unguwarmu ya faru, uwargidan ke bin wace za a auro har inda ta ci mata mutunci a qarshe auren ya gagara, don akwai inda take gaya wa yarinyar ko uwayenta cewa matuqar yarinyar ta shigo gidanta sai ta kashe ta, sai uwayen ko yarinyar su ji tsoro su canja ra'ayi, wannan ya sa ya ce "Ta ga ina nemo mai sauqi-sauqi ne" aka ce ya nemo wata wace tun ba a je ko'ina ba ta nakada wa matar ciki dukan tsiya a dalilin ta bi ta har gidansu kamar yadda ta saba, qarshe dai ta dawo wurin maigidan ta ce ta yarda ya auro koma waye amma banda wannan matar, shi kuma ya yi kunnin uwar shegu da ita, amaryar dai ta iza qeyar uwargidan, ta kuma gaya mata qiri-qiri cewa wallahi ta fi qarfin mijinta, amma za ta aure shi don kawai ta kore ta ne a gidan, kuma za ta riqe shi tamau don kar ta dawo masa daga baya, qila da gaske take yi, don ta kure ta din, kuma ana fadin irin ladabin da take masa.
.
 A ganina ba wani abin tsoro a ciki, in ma ke ce dalilin qara auren nasa yi qoqari kawai ki san me kike yi wanda ba ya so ki dena, an wuce wurin, in kuma dama akwai abinda ba ki yi ne ki koya, na ga wani dan bidiyo da ake yawo da shi wanda wata budurwar Basakkwaciya ta yi, a cikinsa ta nuna cewa an kawo mata amarya wace take wanka sau biyar a wuni, nan da nan ta dauke hankalin maigidan, don haka ita ma ta koya, da zarar amaryar ta dawo bayi ita ma sai ta sabi bokiti ta ruga makewayi ta watsa ruwa, dariya za a yi, amma darasin dake ciki yana da yawa, na kusa-kusa shi ne tana tura saqo ga mata cewa matuqar mace za ta zama qazama to kuwa amaryarta za ta qwace mata miji, na biyu ta yi qoqari ta gano me ya sa hankakin nasa ya karkata wajen amaryarta, shi ya sa ta kwafa.
Share:

ZAN ƘARA AURE... 05


*_💑ZAN QARA AURE // 05🙆🏼🕺🏼_*
.

*_WANNE YA FI?_*

Na yi qoqorin jefa wata tambaya a tsakanin dalibaina mata masu neman diploma a harshen Larabci da addinin muslunci, wanda yawansu ya kai 35-40, kuma ba na tsammanin akwai wata budurwa a cikinsu, duk matan aure ne, galibin shekarunsu daga 30-45, na ce: "Wai maigidanki ya yi laifi idan ya nemi aure, aka ba shi, har lokacin daura auren ya yi kafin ya gaya miki?" Wallahi mace daya ce rak, matar aure da shekarunta na qimanta da talatin da wani abu ta ce "Haqqinsa ne in so ya fadi, in ya ga dama ya boye" na so na san dalilinta a farko tukun kafin na saurari na sauran matan.
.
Sai ta ce "To ai ba wani haqqi nawa a wuyarsa da za a ce sai ya gaya min kafin ya yi, hasali ma na fi ganin ya bar wa cikinsa in ta so in lokacin ya yi ya gaya min, don in ni mai kishi ce abin zai yi ta damuna na tsawon lokacin har sai an daura tukun, na san ba fasawa zai yi ba, wata ma dalilin da za ta san shiga bokaye kenan ta rasa duniya da lahira" nan take wata dake gabanta ta ce "Allah ya sa a yi miki kishiyar!" Maganar ta yi mata zafi har ta yi addu'ar da take ganin mummuna ce ba ta sani ba, na gamsu da hujjarta, ban sani ba qila ko don ni namiji ji ne, amma duk da haka na ce bari na saurari sauran matan, nan wata ta ce: Wallahi ko kwana daya ba za ta qara a gidan ba don bai dauke ta abokiyar zamansa ba, don me tana tare da shi zai boye mata cewa zai yi aure kawai sai ta tsinci cewa saura 'yan kwanaki qalilan a daura?
.
Wata ta ce: "Ai munafurci ne da rashin gaskiya, in ba munafurci ba an taba boye abin arziki ne? Wallahi ko a muslunce ba inda aka ce namiji ya boye wa mace zai qara aure?" Haka na yi shiru ina jin hujjojinsu, qarshe maganar ta koma tsakanin wannan dalibar da sauran daliban kan dole sai ya gaya wa matarsa ta ciki ko ba sai ya gaya mata ba, a qarshe na yi qoqarin shiga tsakiya don na gamsar da su illar tsayawa a kan sai ya gaya musu din, sun karba amma a fuskokinsu na fahimci cewa ba su yarda ba, na kuma tattauna da wasu mazan a gefe a kan wannan mas'alar, sai na ga mafi yawa suna ganin a gaya mata tunda ana zaune da ita a matsayin rabin gidan gaba daya, kuma kishiyannan kamar ita za a yi wa.
.
Duk da haka wani abokina, Dr ne ma, ya ce: Ba kuskure kamar ka gaya wa mace za ka qara aure tun nesa da qofa, kuma da gaske din ne har ka shiga neman, ya kawo hujjojinsa kuma na gamsu da su, sai a qarshe nake ganin kamar zai yi wahala ka yi wa mata kudin goro; wace kake ganin ko an gaya mata ba matsala sai ka gaya mata, in kuma ka ga gaya mata din zai mai da gidan filin yaqin badar sai ka boye abinka, wannan shi ne mafita, amma na ga matan da suka shiga bokaye da yawa a kan mijinsu ya ce zai qara aure, wata tana qasar waje ta fasa aiwatar da abinda ya kai ta ta dawo tsoron kar rade-radin da ake yi ya zama gaskiya, mace ba ta wasa da maganar kishiya.
.
Na ga wace take mummunar bata mijinta da cewa da yunwa suke kwana, don dai kar ya qara aure, ga wata A'isha da na ga rubutunta yau 20/10/2019 a fesbuk tana cewa: "Da a ce maganar Nanono da gaske ne ana ci a qoshi a Naira 30, da ka ga qarin aure wurin maza, Allah mun yi ma godiya, a tafi a haka" wata malama da na sani mijinta ya ce "Allah kawo kudi mu qara mata" ta ce "Allah ka bar mu haka kar ka ba shi" a gabansa ta fada qiri-qiri, na taba jin wata tana cewa da Allah ya ba mijinki kudi ya qaro auro gwara ya bar ku cikin talauci, mazan yanzu wallahi da sun yi kudi aure za su qara, wata da mijinta ya sami aiki cewa ta yi "Wallahi ban so ya sami aikinnan ba, gwara Allah ya bar mu da talaucinnan, yana fara samun kudi za ki ji ya ce zai qara aure!"
.
Mata kam ransu bai natsu da qarin aurennan ba, duk da cewa ba dukansu ne ba, amma na ga wace ta yi wa mijinta cinne don ya ce zai qara aure, haka aka yi masa ritaya, na ga wace ta zazzagi mijinta ta uwa ta uba a gaban 'ya'yansa, ta tottana wasu asiransa a dalilin qarin auren, ka ga irin wadannan matan gaskiya boye musu shi ne zama lafiyar mutum, na ji wace ta dauko wuqa kuma ta rantse da Allah in har mijinta ya runtsa a wannan gidan sai ta farke shi, shi ma dai haka ya wawuro tasa suka kwana ido bude kowa da wuqa a hannu, auren ma ya baci, ya auri wace ya ce zai aura.
Share:

ZAN ƘARA AURE... 04

*_💑ZAN QARA AURE // 04🙆🏼🕺🏼_*
.
*_WA AKA TAIMAKA MASA?_*

A zahiri in mutum ya ce yana son ya yi aure kuma aka ba shi to shi aka taimaka mawa, wannan aka sani kowa a kan haka ya tafi, shi ya sa muke ganin cewa in mace ta fara ce wa tana son mutum kamar ta tallata kanta ne, wasu ma suna ganin zubar da qima ne, sai dai akwai wata falsafa ta daban, misali namiji don ya makara bai dawo gida ba da wahala ka ga an rikice, sai dai tsoron abubuwan dake faru a yau na garkuwa da sauransu, amma mace dole a san ina za ta? Me za ta yi? Yaushe za ta dawo? Ina ta tsaya? Da wa ta fita? 
.
Duk wata uwa da take rainon yara mata ba ta da kwanciyar hankali, akwai wace ko gida ba ta iya fita saboda tsaro, an kai lokacin da uwa take qoqarin tsare 'ya'yanta mata daga 'yan uwansu a cikin gida don kar su la'anta mata su, na taba jin wata na cewa hatta uban ba abin yarda ba ne a wannan zamanin da muke ciki, abu ya kai abu kenan, to in aka sami wasu za su dauke miki wannan zullumin da rashin barcin dare saboda wa'azi da jan kunnen da kike yi wa aka taimaka mawa kenan? Ana auren biyu, uku, hudu har yanzu ga matannan, to in kuma kowani namiji mace daya kacal zai aura ya za a yi kenan? Ko su 'yan bokon da suka qi auren mata biyu sun fara dari-dari da ra'ayin cewa 'ya'yansu sai mai mata daya, don in suka tsaya kan haka qarshe a bar musu 'ya'yansu.
.
Wani abin dariya da na taba kawowa a wani dan shiri nawa mai taken "KA JI MUNA FUKI" wannan gani na yi, yadda uwa ta saka diyarta a gaba tana zagi don diyar tata ta ce ba za ta zauna ba, wai maigidanta ya dage sai ya qara aure, uwar ta zage ta kab, inda ta shiga ba tanan take fitowa ba, a qarshe diyar ta nuna mata cewa babanta yana neman qawarta, nan take lamarin ya canja, uwar ta bar fadan ta koma zagin maigidanta wato uban yarinyar, duk da cewa da tana gaya mata mahimmancin auren mata biyu ne ko fiye.
.
Ban sani ba in namiji yana da karatun da zai iya gamsar da mace kan cewa auren mata fiye da daya yana da amfani a zaman-takewa ko zai iya amfanar da ita, galibi qetar da suke magana a kai in ka dubi hujjojinsu za ka fahimci cewa suna nufin namiji yana cikin talauci da rashin kudi mace na ta haquri tana tafiya da shi a haka, lokacin da ya sami sarari a maimakon ta huta cikin arziqinsa sai kuma ya je ya dauko mata kishiyar da in ba ta dage ba za ta kore ta, qetar namiji kenan, akwai wata mata da na ga zaman lafiyan da take yi da kishiyarta na tambaye ta ta fada min cewa ita ta ba wa mijin shawarar ya aure ta, don qawarta ce, da dai na matsa sai na ji dalili sai ta ce to ai ita ma tana da yara mata a gabanta, kuma tana da kyakkyawar sha'awar ta ga ta aurar da su, in kowani namiji zai auri mace guda ta ina yaranta za su sami shiga? 
.
Gaskiya tana da hankali, don ba duka aka zama daya ba, yau dinnan muka yi wa wata yarinya fada, kamar yadda babarta ta nema, uwayenta su hudu ne a wajen ubanta, amma ma'aunin da take auna kowane namiji da shi shi ne ba za ta auri mai mata ba, kuma dole a yi sharadi da mijin kan cewa in ta aure shi ba zai sake auro wata ba, ko ada lokacin da matan suke qaranci wannan alqawarin yana da matuqar wahala, bare yanzu da matan suka ninka mazan ko dai wajen haihuwa ko yawan mace-mace dake aukawa a matattarar mazan gaba daya, Larabawa masu hankali a cikinsu sun koma auren zumunci, yadda uwayen za su tattauna a tsakankaninsu sannan su hada yaran don dai a sami sauqi.
.
Abin takaici mu yanzu sai muka fara fahimtar qalu-balen a kaikaice, muna ganin auren shi ne matsala, mai mata ba dole ne ba ya qara, qarin ma rashin hankali ne ko rashin adalci, sauqaqa sadaki yadda za a yi auren kuma zubar da qimar mace ne, auren hadaka da kwamitin Hisba a Kano suka faro ba komai ba ne illa saukar da darajar 'ya mace, yadda za a hada su kamar tumaki a rana guda a tura su, idan ka lura da mai wannan maganar sai ka ga kodai mace ce da auren ya yi mata hijira ta komo yaqinsa, ko wace take zaune lafiya da mijinta ba ta son wata macen ta sami irin abinda take samu, duka dai kuskure ne, yaushe za ki tara yara a gabanki kuma ki ce kar maza su qara aure?


Share:

ZAN ƘARA AURE... 03


*_💑ZAN QARA AURE // 03🙆🏼🕺🏼_*
.
*_ME YA KAMATA SU GANE?_*

Gaskiya ko shago mutum ya samu yana sayar da kaya shi kadai in wani ya ce zai bude kusa da shi dole ya ji wani iri, don komai yanzu za a raba 2, dole ya fara qoqarin kawo duk abinda ake nema, ya iyakance farashin kayan, ya sami wani salo na magana da masu sayensu, ya gyara ma'amallarsa da kowa, in ma ba ya jawo hankalin mutane kusa da shi dole ya fara, in aka dauki gidan aure a matsayin wurin samun abubuwan more rayuwa ko mallake namiji to mace ba za ta so kishiya ba don za su fara sanya gasa a tsakaninsu, in ta so wace ta fi iya abinda ake so ta riqe gida, idan kuwa mutum ya zama mai taimakon jama'a ta wurin hidimar da yake yi musu, kuma bai neman komai a hannunsu, tabbas zai buqaci mai taimako a lokacin da aka ce za a kawo masa wani.
.
A bisa wannan fahimtar in mace ta fahimci aure a matsayin ibada, tana neman dacewa a wurin Allah ba ta damu da wani abu na duniya ba tunaninta zai koma can wajen ladar ne, mace ba ka raba ta da kishi, matan Annabi SAW sun yi kishi, amma ba don zai auro wata ba, ko don qwace wa wata gida, kowa so take ta sami ladar hahira, wannan kuwa dabi'a ce, sai dai in wata ta tsaya kan ba za a auro mata kishiya ba, kuma ta ce matan Annabi SAW ma sun yi kishi gaskiya ba su yi adalci ba, don ba a kan haka suka yi ba.
.
Wanda ya zauna a qasashen Larabawa ya zo kuma ya ga 'yammatammu a Nigeria wadanda suke neman miji zai ce Alhamdu lillah, abu ne da ba sai an gaya maka ba, mata sun yi yawa yanzu a duniya, makarantu, kasuwanni, motocin sufuri da sauran wurare duk mata ne, ga kashe-kashen da muke fama da su na maza, yaqoqi, bama-bamai, ko a tara su ma a bindige, hatta hatsarin mota yanzu maza sun fi mutuwa a ciki, kenan banda qaruwar hayayyafar mata, akwai mutuwar maza, yawan mata na rubanya ta maza in har ba za a ci gaba da auren mata biyu zuwa hudu ba, wasu matan za a haramta musu aure har abada, ba wai ba sa son yi ba ne, saboda mazan ne ba sa son su aure su.
.
Na taba miqo tambayata inda na ce macen da ta wuce shekara 35 ba miji meye sunanta? Gaskiya babu wani suna sananne wanda mutane suka saba aiki da shi, da wannan za a ce babu jinkirin aure har zuwa rabin rayuwa a al'adarmu, in ma akwai to yanzu ne yake faruwa, dole masana su natsu su samar da sunan macen da ta tsufa ba ta sami miji ba, a hirar da muka yi da wata Balarabiya ta tambaye ni sunan macen da mijinta ya mutu, da wace aka sake ta, na ce sunansu Bazawara , tana ta jin dadi, ta ce "Kun yi sa'a" su a wajensu in dai aka saki mace qila sai dai a nemo wani dan uwa a hada ta da shi, amma samun miji na wahala.
.
Na taba jin wani dan ajimmu yana magana da wata Balarabiya tana gaya masa cewa damar da ta samu kenan na aure, matar ta shafe shekara 45 ba miji, tana roqonsa da cewa in dai ya tsaya a kan wani mutuminsa har aka yi auren za ta ba shi wani kaso mai yawan gaske daga cikin sadakinta, ni kaina lokacin da nake da shekar 35 wani likita ya taba cewa zai tsaya min na auri wata 'yar shekara 45, ya kuranta cewa yarinya ce qarama kuma ko auren fari ba ta taba yi ba, kai har an kai ga cewa a yi auren ni ina Nigeria ita kuma tana qasarta, in na sami kudi na kawo mata ziyara, ita ma in ta samu ta zo ta yi 'yan shekaru ta koma, duk da wannan matsalar ta wahalar samun miji mata sun kasa fahimtar cewa su suke haifar wa kansu da matsalar, mace na da 'ya'ya mata har 6 a gabanta amma tana cewa ba shegiyar da ita isa ta aure mata miji.
Share:

ZAN ƘARA AURE... 02


💑 *_ZAN QARA AURE // 02_* 🙆🏼🕺🏼
.
*_ME YA SA SUKE QIN AUREN_*
.
Wani sa'in in ka nemi ku tattauna da mata kan dalilin da ya sa ba sa qaunar su ji mutum ya ce zai qara aure hujjoji biyu za su ba ka, ta farko dai za su ce maka "Kana cikin zaman-zamanka da mijinka da 'ya'yanka lafiya wata shegiya daga waje za ta zo ta bata maka gida" wato dai akwai tsoron cewa ta wajen in ta shigo ba abinda za ta yi sai qoqarin korar ta ciki, shi ya sa ma za ka ji suna cewa "Sai ki qara da haquri don yanzu za ki ga abubuwa" wannan maganar za a yi ta ne koda kuwa mai yin ba ta taba ganin amaryar ba ba ta ma san ta ba.
.
1) Na biyu kuma za a fara fadin cewa "Wanda bai iya daukar nauyin mace guda ba ma wai shi ne yake neman wani auren?" Ko matar da kanta ta fado irin dawainiyar da take yi da karatun yaranta ko abin ma da za su ci, wanda maigidan ba abinda ya dame shi da gidan, ba wannan ne babban abinda yake damun mata ba gaskiya, koda yake sun fadi ne a babin cewa bai iya riqe daya ba ta yaya zai ce zai qaro wata? Kamar dai suna taimakon wace za ta shigo ne don kar ta sami kanta a cikin matsala, amma a zahiri wani qoqari ne na barin uwargidan ita kadai a cikin gida, in ma wahalar ce ta kashe ta, mata ba sa son kishiya, wata za ta gaya maka baro-baro duk abinda kake so za ta yi maka amma kar ka kawo maganar kishiya, shekara 3 kenan da suka wuce inda wata 'yar boko take ce wa maigidanta bai da dalilin da zai qara aure, in kuma don ta tsufa ne ai yana yara, ko qaramar za ta yi masa duk abinda yake so bare sauran.
.
Idan uwar 'ya'ya za ta yi akuyanci da 'ya'yan cikinta a kan qara aure, to kuwa abin ya kai yadda ya kai, wannan dabbanci ne babu ko tantama, koda yake dan boko zalla ga addinin amma bai da rabo ko na sisin kwabo, ina Sudan wani abokina ya ce zai yi aure, yayyinsa mata suka yi masa ca! Har wata take cewa zai tsofar da kansa a banza, ta qara da cewa in matan ne suke tsole masa ido ga sunan bar jak a gari kamar jamfa a jos, dole ne sai ya yi aure? Kar ka yi mamakin irin wadannan matan, kusan wallahi gwara su da wadanda za su dauki wuqa su burma wa namiji don ya ce zai qara aure, galibi ko kaza mace ba ta iya yankawa, in za ta yi kisan kai don qin kishiya, kuma wanda take tutiyar qaunarsa saman kowa a duniya lallai qiyayyarta da hakan ta shahara.
.
Lamarin qarin aure abu ne da mutum zai duba zarafinsa ya yi bitar kansa sannan ya yanke hukuncin ci gaba ko dakatawa, a jiya 17/10/2019 nake tattauna irin wannan matsalar da abokan aikina, suke cewa zama da mace daya kashe namiji yake yi, domin ba zai sami cikakkiyar damar da zai nuna mazantakarsa ta fuskar dabi'a ba, kowa ya fadi hujjarsa da dalilinsa wanda za mu tattauna wannan a hankali in Allah ya yarda, amma abin tambaya anan: Me ya sa mata ke canjawa gaba-dayansu a lokacin da namiji ya sake sabon aure?
Share:

ZAN ƘARA AURE... 01


*💑ZAN QARA AURE // 01🙆🏻🕺*

Aure a rayuwar malam Bahaushe na nufin wata rayuwa da ake kullawa tsakanin namiji da mace, wace ake sa rai da cewa mutuwa ce kadai za ta iya raba tsakaninsu, tare da sanin cewa in wani zarafi ya datso kowa na iya kama gabansa, ko dai shi maigidan ya sauwaqe mata, ko kuma ita ta kai shi inda za a shiga tsakaninsu. Da zarar an daura aure komai na amaryar ya tashi daga kan mariqinta ya koma kan maigida, hada da ci da sha, matsuguni da wasu abubuwan rayuwa da suka zama dole, ciki har da ilimi da addini.

A duk inda aka ji cewa ana daura aure za ka ji ala-san-barka ga ma'auratan guda biyu, koda kuwa mutum bai san daya daga cikinsu ba, ango da amarya da uwayensu da sauran tarsashin jama'a duk sukan yi ta murna, sashin ango na farin cikin cewa dansu ya zama babba, shi ma yanzu ya zama magidanci, uwayensa ko ba su fadi ba dai dayan abubuwa biyu ne ke bayya musu: Kodai yanzu zai taimaka musu a kan al'amuran rayuwa, ko kuma zai kama gabansa su ji da sauran qanninsa.

Duk da haka fahimta kan bambanta a lokacin da mutum ya ce zai qara aure:-

1) 'Yan boko wadanda ba qanin iya bare na baba, su ke fara tofin ala-tsine da kawo wa angon talauci kusa, wasu har da maganar karatun yaran da za a haifa da kama musu hayar dakin da za su riqa kwana da gazawa wurin tarbiyantar da su duk da cewa ko auren ba a daura ba bare ta sami ciki bare kuma a kai ga wadannan abubuwan da suke zayyanowa.

2) Wasu daga cikin yayyin angon, maza kenan, masamman ma wadanda suke da mace guda, su ma sun kasu kashi biyu, wasu suna kallon zarafin angon ne, da kuma irin qarfinsa na qara auren ko gazawa, wasu kuma sun kulle idanunsu kan cewa bai isa ya qara aure a wannan lokacin ba, koda kuwa ba su da wata kataimaimiyar hujja a hannunsu.

3) Sai yayyin angon wato mata, su ma sun kasu zuwa kashi biyu, wasu kamar mazan ne ta wurin lura da yadda mutum yake riqe da ta gida, in gazawarsa ta bayyana sai ka iske suna yin fito na fito da qarin auren, wasu kuwa shaquwarsu da matarsa take sawa su taya ta kishi, a irin wannan yanayi angon kan jima kafin ya shawo kansu, wani sa'in lamarin kan kai ga murje idanu don dai ya isa zuwa ga manufarsa.

4) Sai 'yan sa ido, wadanda ba wani abinda ya hada su da mutum, amma su shiga tsakiya su nemi bata komai, koda kuwa ba wata riba da za su ci.

5) Uwargida kuwa (sai daidai) samsam ba ta qaunar ta ji an ce za a yi mata kishiya, duk kuma wani bayani da za ka yi mata don ka gamsar da ita cewa auren zai iya zama alkhairi a gare su bata lokacinka kawai za ka yi, ko fahimtarka ba za ta yi ba, in ka ji mace ta tsani wani malami, ko ta kira shi munafuki, qila ya kwadaitar da maza ne kan qarin aure, qiyayyar mata da qarin auren ya kai ga yi wa uwargida jaje na masamman kamar ta rasa wani, a hankali ya bayyana a matattararsu cewa qarin aure ko yin kishiya tamfar wata fitina ce wace ba yadda za a yi da ita.

6) Uwayen uwargida kan tsaya a gefen diyarsu ne, shahararriyar hujjarsu ita ce ba a san abinda amaryar za ta shigo da shi ba, koda kuwa yarinya ce qarama wace ba ta ma gama sanin duniya ba, ko wata saliha da maqwabta suka shede ta kan zama lafiya, wasu uwaye mata ba sa maganar cewa amaryar za ta kore su, matsalolin gida ne suke fitowa da su, masamman inda mijin diyarsu ya gaza, in ba a yi sa'a ba nan za su rada wa diyarsu yadda za ta bata auren ta wajen fadin gaskiya da qarya a kan maigidan don dai su bata sabon auren, in shedan ya sanya wa aikinta albarka sai ka ga sun ci nasara.

7) Akwai halin da mutum kan yi jinkirin qara aure har 'ya'yan da suka haifa tare da uwargidan su girma, a irin wannan hali in lamarin ya zo da matsala sai yaran su goya wa uwarsu baya a yi ta kwasan rigima, ita da yaranta a hannu guda, maigidan kuma a daya hannun, yaran kan tsaya kai da fata kan cewa uban bai isa ya kawo wata matar cikin gidansu ba, na taba ganin wadanda suka saka masa sharadin sai dai ya auro sa'ar mahaifiyarsu, wasu kuma suka turje kan cewa ba za a yi wa mahaifiyarsu kishiya ba, a kan ci nasara wani lokaci, amma ba kullum ake kwana a gado ba, galibi idan namiji ya yi niyyar qara aure zai yi abinsa, koda kuwa zai yi fito na fito da kowa.

A cikin wannan dan littafi da za mu bi, muna so ne mu ga wasu dalilai da suke sanyawa mutum ya yi sha'awar qara aure, tare da sanin cewa abubuwan da yawa matuqa, duk yadda ka lissafa wa mutum dalilan qara aure in ba ka yi sa'a ba sai ya ambato maka wani abin daban wanda bai da alaqa da abubuwan da aka lissafa, mu dai za mu lissafo su, amma mun sani cewa namiji in ya rasa dalilin da zai ce dominsa ne zai qara aure hakan ma wani dalili ne mai qarfi da zai yi din, a taqaice komai ma na iya zama dalilin da zai sa namiji ya qara aure, kenan wannan rubutu zai taimaki mata sosai ta wurin sanin yadda za su kare gidansu.
Share:

MAGANIN JIN ZAFIN JIMA'I


MAGANIN JIN ZAFIN JIMAI

-Hiltit ko 
-Mustaka.
 Zaki rika turare dashi, kina tsugunawa akai, ma'ana kina turara farjinsu dashi hayakin ya rika ratsa kofar farjinki sosai.
Sannan kuma ki rika yin Matsi da Man Sazabu ko na Albabunaj akai akai.
Insha Allahu zaki dena jin zafin. Allahu aalam..
ALLAH YA SAUWAKE 

DAGA ZAUREN WHATSAPP NA >>(LAFIYA UWAR JIKI)>>>07037452745
Share:

WHAT MAKES MARRIAGE VALID IN ISLAM


WHAT MAKES A MARRIAGE VALID IN ISLAM

 BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem. 

The difference between an Islamic marriage and an un-Islamic marriage is that the Islamic marriage fulfils the conditions and pillars of a correct religious marriage, the most important of which are: 

*_The consent of the bride’s guardian_*.
*_The presence of two witnesses_*.
*_A MAHAR OR DOWRY (bridal money given by the groom to the bride)_*.

Therefore, if a man proposes to marry a woman and she agrees and he marries her, then their marriage is void even if he gives her a dowry because it did not fulfill two major conditions: the consent of the guardian and the presence of two witnesses. The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, said: “There is no marriage except with a guardian and two trustworthy witnesses.” [At-Tirmithi and Abu Daawood]. The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, also said: "Any woman who marries without the consent of her guardian, her marriage is void, her marriage is void, her marriage is void." [At-Tirmithi and Abu Daawood].

Even though Imam Abu Haneefah is of the view that marriage without consent of the sister's guardian or parent is still valid, this opinion is subject to the fact that the woman is elderly and had married before and remarrying and has no family arround her. Even so, the local imam is recommended to act as her guardian to ensure the marriage is organised through shari'ah compliance. Allah knows best. *_May ALLAH keep guiding us all_*. Aameen.
Share:

ME KIKE NEMA BAYAN SO A WAJEN MAI GIDA?


 MEKIKE NEMA BAYAN SO WAJEN MAIGIDA???   

 Yar'uwata kigwada wannan Wallahi wallahi zakisha mamaki indai NI'IMA ne saidai kifadama wani.                  

   ►1.Ki nemi Dabino wanda ba busasshe ba (lubiya) da Kankana mai yashi. kici dabinon sosai sai ki sha kankana daga baya.ki aikata haka kamar bayan La'asar ►2. Kisami man Hulba da pure madara kota shanu ko peak ta ruwa sai ki hada ki aje yayi 1hr kafin ki kwanta.Idan zaki kwanta sai kisha sai ki tsaya kamar 3mins saiki kwanta. ►3. Kisami lalle 1cup kisa a ruwa ki dafa sai kijuye kisa a baho kizauna Wallahi kam zaki matse. ko kinsan tsarki da Sabulu na iya causing cancer agabanki? Musamman detol dominshi yana kashe kwayoyine agaban macce damasu amfani da marar amfani..kisami KALTUFA(brown venigar) kirinka tsarki dashi. Kiyi sharing ma yan'uwa mata kema kisami Lada. Sadakatujjariya

 ‪ ABUBUWAN DAKESA MACE TAFITA DAGA ZUCIYAR MIJINTA
          1.RIKO
Riko shine idan an aikatamata wani laifi kabar abin aranka batare da kayafe ba.
Uwargida kada kizamo mai riko domin hakan ba karamin jamaki matsala ba zaiyi musamman idan mijinki nada saurin fushi . Saboda haka idan abu yafaru mudinga hakuri domin mata ansanmu da hakuri da juriya idan akai abu to dazaran ya wuce to amaida komi ba komi bane domin aljannarmu tana karkashin su sai sun daga zamu samu mata mudinga hakuri aduk lamuran mu👍 sai muga mundace

        2. YAWON MITA
Yar'uwa kar zizamto cikin mata masu yawan mita a gurin maji
Abu baya wucewa ayita dawo da magana baya wanan zai haddasamaki matsala domin zaki fita ranshi. Idan abu yawuce to ayi hakuri abarshi adaina tuna baya 

         3. FUSHI
Uwargida kar kamto mai yawan fushi ko nunama miji kincika fushi 
Karkimanta Allah da kansa "yace yanatare da masu hakuri"shin bakison Allah yazamto yana tare dake kowane lokaci
Yar'uwa kisama ranki hakuri fushi banaki bane domin karkashin wani kike kowayace zomu zauna zomu sabane  
Hakuri shine ribarmu

          4.RASHIN IYA GIRKI
   
Da anxo maganar girki sai naji tsoro tare da jin kunya 
Haba yar'uwa yakamata ace iyayen mu nakoyamana girki 
Wlh wallahi wlh samun yar aiki ba gata bane
Ina gatan yake kina can kwance yar aiki na saye zuciyar mijinki da dadan abinci
yar'uwa/uwargida mutashi tsaye mukoyi girki kodan saye zuciyar miji
Domin namiji nason matar da ta iya girki  
Zakiga namiji na gayyato abokanai zuwa gidan shi don suci abinci saboda yasan bazata bashi kunya
amma idan baki iyaba fa zai fara tunanin kara aure wato yayi maki KISHIYA
Hmmm mata mu gyara

       5.KAZANTA
Uwargida ayi tsafta kodon lfyr jikinkin 
karki manta tsafta nadaga cikin addini
Yar'uwa idan ba tsaftar yazakiyi ibada
Sanan kisani tsafta nasa miji yasoki sanan yaji bayada kamarki zakiga kowane lokaci yana manne dake yana shakar kamshinki
Idan kuwa bakida rsafta da yabaki kudin cefane bakikara ganin shi sai dare domin koyadawo ba abinda zaigani sai bacin rai har kiginga cewa yadainasonki aa badaina sonkiyayiba kazantarki tajawo maki
Sanan kisani kazanta tama mabudin kara aure ce wato yayimaki kishiya
 Pls kozakiyi chatting yazamto kin gyara ko ina sanan yazamto kema kingyara jikinki da na yaranki kuma idan mai 🏩 yadawo abashi kulawa abar cht
Nidai sholy baruwana 
Lokacinda zai karowata baninan ni sholy nafada nafita
 
         6.KULA DA SHINFIDAR MIJI

Mata muna sakaci wajen bawa miji hakkinsa kinaso amma kitsaya gulma wai jan aji ina ajin yake bayan yagama saninki lungu lungu ba inda baisaniba ajikinki
To wallahi ki gyara ki dinga bashi hakkin shi yadda yakamata wanan shi zaisa mijinki yasoki kuma ki mallakeshi FROM ADMINS TATTALIN MIJI Afnan wurma (09026337325)
6ter safiya (08027480246)
6[truncated by WhatsApp]
Share:

DEAR MARRIED LADY

DEAR MARRIED LADY💦

1. Dear Married Lady, Holy wives don't just speak in tongues. They cook super meals, they raise godly kids, wear hot dresses(for their husbands), they have mind blowing sex & still make Heaven.

2. Dear Married Lady, Forget about changing your husband. Just be an upgraded version of you with more value and sweetness.

3. Dear Married Lady, Look at your Husband with the lenses of righteousness in Islam. He may have some wrong doings but do not focus on the wrong doings but rather focus on the Islam in him. In other words, focus on his positives and not the negatives. Do this in wisdom!

4. Dear Married Lady, Familiarity has the tendency of taking things for granted: our family and especially our husbands
Replace nagging with appreciation!

5. Dear Married Lady, Be the number one FAN of your husband. Support him in all his interest. Ensure you decree greatness in all his endeavours. Don't allow other ladies to do this for you. Be the first and best at this.

6. Dear Married Lady, As Allah is Love so are you. As Allah is forgiveness so are you. Do not punish your Husband with tight jeans. Let him give you some massage or buy you something nice. You are not a fool! You care for your marriage.

7. Dear Married Lady, Decide that loving is intentional and intentionally love your partner. Find out what love means to your partner and give it. Don't assume a common definition of love. What is love to you may not be for him
Portray the love he yearns.

8. Dear Married Lady, In this age where technology is supposed to break homes, use this same technology to build your home. Text your husband some hot messages as a shadow of the things awaiting him at home.

9. Dear Married lady, Don't focus on the competition outside the home and get bitter. You are not the only Lady who Loves your husband. Focus on your Husband and
give him the best of treatment always; especially when you think he doesn't deserve it.

10. Dear Married Ladies, Don't become a prison for your husband. When it gets to the point where he needs space grant it to Him. There is freedom in true love. Over protective love is false and destructive. Use those periods to better yourself. Get the most sexiest look. Be your sweetest self when he returns home. You are always the winner.

11. Dear Married Woman, Be the curious and Creative type.
Don't be shy to initiate lovemaking. Wear sexy lingeries does not mean you are spoilt or demon possessed. Join in the creativity, make your marriage fun. Afterwards blow in tongues together!

12. Dear Married Lady, Challenges may come in your marriage. Instead of letting it tatter you, you decide to make the best, look your best, love your best in the face of challenges. Guess what the Islam in you is the best. So you can't be any less.

13. Dear Married Lady, the fact that you have four kids does not mean let your body look 20 years older. You can start small. Discipline yourself. Check your weight. Don't eat junk food. Take brisk walks! Exercise your body and be in Lady,

14. Dear Married Lady, Islam is not the end of descent hot fashion. Islam is not tagged with old ladyship. That you wear a Long gown does not mean you are holy. Dress well. Be neat. Look presentable. Let the young ladies check you up for the latest descent trend!

15. Dear Married Lady, even when you're tired, be sensitive to your man's bedly needs. You can do all things through Allah who strengthens you. Don't lazy yourself in front of him. It's a bad signal. Be in readiness to satisfy Him at all times. Don't give him reasons to look elsewhere.

16. A woman of Grace who can find? She has a heart of gold. Gives her best even in the worst. She Loves like no Love other even at the most undeserving times.

17. She is love. She is forgiveness. She is support. She is prayer. She is wisdom. She is your dream lover. She mothers the world. She is......, so precious. She is loyal and strongly soaked in the word. She Rightly fits everywhere.

You will not fail in marriage inshaAllahu

Keep on sharing!

Author unknown


Share:

SOYAYYAR DA BATA MUTUWA BAYAN AURE

SOYAYYAR DA BATA MUTUWA BAYAN AURE

💏💏💏💏💏💏💏💏💏💏
✍🏻wasu masana nace dazarar andaura aure shikenan ankai soyayya maqabarta, domin matsalolin yauda gobe nahana soyayya cigabada yaduwa awasu ma'auratan,
Amma akwai nau'in soyayyarda bata samun naqsu bayan aure duk rintsi soyayyar zata tsaya dakafarta domin kuwa soyayya ce mai jijiya gangariya ba kumfa bace dake bin iska tun awatannin angwanci.
★حب التعود
Nau'i nafarko kenan daga irin soyayyarda dawahala asami akasin rabuwa bayan aure, soyayyace tashakuwa da fahimtarda daya kanshiga damuwa inba daya, takaika anzama tamkar y'an uwan juna kowa najin daya kamar wanene jigon rayuwarsa, irin wannan sabo dajunan wanda akarayu amatsayin kowa najin kowa atsakar jikinsa to dawahala asami akasin rabuwa dajuna bayan aure.
★الحب الذي ينموا
Wannan irin so kadan ne ke tsintar kansu acikinsa soyayya ce dake daduwa akowace rana akwai matsalar da'ake cewa 
البرودالعاطفي
Wato ginsar juna tayadda wasu lokutan masoya ko ma'aurata zasuji sungaji da juna ko sunaneman mafita dajuna
To ita wannan soyayya ta 2 akasin haka ce akullum dada karuwa take bata raguwa ,irin wannan soyayya dawahala asami akasinta bayan aure.
Kukasance da group din
MATSALOLIN MA'AURATA
Dansamun cigaba samun abubuwa masu fa'ida arayuwarku.
08080678100

Share:

MATSALAR GAMSAR DA JUNA

/matsalolin-gamsar-da-juna
 sirrin rike miji
WhatsApp: ☏+2348037538596

Wani mutumin ba ruwansa; da zarar ya sami gamsuwa da matarsa koda a iya wasan da su ke yi ne, to fa shi ya gama, ba ruwansa da ita. Shi ba abinsa ya yi ma sa zafi. Kun ga wannan shi ne karshen rashin adalci. Wata matar kuma ta na da doguwar sha’awa, saboda haka, idan mijinta bai yi wasa da ita ba, sannnn bai jira ta samu gamsuwa daga gare shi ba, to maniyyin da ya ke jikinta ba zai sauko ya hadu da nasa ba, sai dai ya tsaya ma ta a mararta. Daga nan kuma sai ciwon mara, sai ciwon ciki, sai ciwon kai, sai warin gaba. Daga nan sai mace ta dinga tsintar kanta da rashun kuzari da rashin walwala. Ta rasa abin da ya ke yi ma ta dadi, kuma wannan ke sa mace ta dinga jin haushin mijin da tsanar mijin. Sai ka ga mace ba ta girmama miji yadda ya kamata. A rasa dalili. Nan kuwa rashin ba ta hakkinta a shimfida ne ya jawo ma sa.

Sannan ya kamata mu sani cewar mata kala-kala ne kamar yadda maza su ke kala-kala. Akwai mai karfin sha’awa, wacce idan ba ta sami daidai ita ba, akwai damuwa. Sai dai ka ga auren ya na kai kawo. Karshe dai sai an rabu hankalinta zai kwanta. Ba yin ta ba ne; haka Allah Ya yi ta. 

Haka su ma mazan, wani idan ya sami wata matar, da kanta za ta gudu. A-yi-a-yi ta dawo, ba za ta dawo ba, amma wata ta na kokari ta sanar da ’yan gidansu cewar ya fi karfinta.

Shawara ga mata da mazan da ba sa iya biya wa junan bukata; su sani ba sai ta kai su ga rabuwa ba. Idan ka san ba ka da juriyar da za ka iya biya wa matar ka bukata a shimfida ba, to ka dinga wasanni da ita sosai kafin ka shige ta, kuma ka tabbatar ka gane guraren da idan ka tattaba ma ta ta ke jin dadi sosai yadda kafin ku zo saduwa ka gama tayar ma ta da sha’awarta, ta fara jin dadi sosai. Ka ga ka na shigar ta, kafin ka biya bukatarka, ta gama jin dadinta. Za ka ji ta sharkaf; komai ya yi daidai. Shawara ta biyu; ka kasance mai neman maganin karin karfin mazakuta da darin kuzari yadda matar taka za ta ji ka gagau.

 sirrin rike miji
WhatsApp: ☏+2348141712330

Share:

HANYOYI 10 DA MACE ZATA BI DOMIN SAMUN LAMBAR YABO A WAJEN MIJINTA

*HANYOYIN GOMA {10} DA MACE ZATA BI DOMIN SAMUN LAMBAR YABO A WURIN MIJINTA*

*1-* Yin hakuri da shi a halin da akwai da halin rashi.
*2-* Girmama iyayensa da ƴan uwansa ta hanyar kyautata musu. 
*3-* Bin umurninsa da yi masa biyayya a duk abinda bai saɓawa Allah ba.
*4-* Faɗa masa kalamai masu kwantar da hankali da sanyaya zuciya.
*5-* Ki kasance mai ɓoye masa sirrinsa na gida dana waje.
*6-* Ki kasance a koda yaushe cikin tsabta, haka cikin gidanki. 
*7-* Ki zama mai lura a kowani yanayi, a wani ya fita gida da kuma halin da ya dawo. 
*8-* Idan ya yi niyyar ƙara aure karki hana shi.
*9-* In kuma har ya ƙara miki abokiyar zamar, ki zauna da ita lafiya domin faranta masa rai da neman aljannarki. 
*10-* Daga ƙarshe kuma ki kasance mai yawan addu'a da sauran ibadu, kamarsu; azumi, salla, sadaka, zumunta.

*Ɗan uwanku a Musulunci: ✍*
*Abu Ja'afar*
*Yusuf Lawal Yusuf*
24th Almuharram 1441H
{24/09/2019} .

Share:

ABUBUWA GUDA GOMA DA MATA ZA SU YI DOMIN FARANTAWA MAZAJEN SUY

*Abubuwa 10 da mata za su yi don faranta wa mijinsu*



*Ga wadannan abubuwa 10 kamar haka*

─━━━━━━░★░━━━━━━─

*1-Jima’i*
Hanya ta farko da mata za su faranta wa mijinsu ita ce, ta bangaren jima’i.
Sau da yawa mata babu ruwansu da nuna wa mijinsu suna bukatar jima’i, akwai abokina da ya fada mini ya shekara fiye da 10 da yin aure amma matarsa ba ta taba neman ya sadu da ita ba, kullum idan har suka yi jima’i to shi ne ya neme ta, hakan ya sanya ya daina jin dadin jima’in domin ba ya ganin matarsa tana shaukin jima’in, hakan ya sa ko ya sadu da matarsa ba ya jin gamsuwa.
Don haka idan mata tana son ta rika faranta wa mijinta, to ta rika nemansa, idan ba za ta iya kai tsaye ba, to ta kirkiro hanyar aika dan sako. Mace za ta iya aika dan sako ta hanyar sanya tufafin mai daukar hankali, mace za ta iya aika dan sako ta hanyar kissa da kwarkwasa da kuma kisisina. Motsa gabobi ga mace kan iya tura dan sako cikin kankanen lokaci. Mata su rika ba da kansu ga mijinsu a duk lokacin da ya bukaci hakan, kada su rika azabtar da shi don ya bata musu rai, su ce tun da ya yi musu abin da ba su so, to shi ma ba zai samu abin da yake so ba.
Mata su rika tarairayar mijinsu, ta hanyar nuna musu shi dan lelensu ne, hakan zai sanya shi farin ciki. Ga matan da suke aiki kada bayan sun dawo gida maimakon su lura da mijinsu sai su rika yin aikin ofis. Ko su rika korafin sun gaji. Kada su bari mijinsu ya je aiki ya dawo gida.


*2-Tsabta*
 Mata su kasance masu tsabta, tsabtar jiki da ta muhalli. Ku rika tsabtace gidanku, kada ku bari datti ya rika kaka-gida a gidanku. Ku share ko’ina, sannan ku sanya turaren kamshi. Ku mayar da gidanku wurin da mijinku zai rika tunaninsa ko da yana wurin aiki. Ya rika dokin dawowa gida, domin ya san zai samu kwanciyar hankali da natsuwa.


*3 Amincewa da bukatun miji*: 

Ku kasance kodayaushe masu amincewa da bukatun mijinku. Ku rika tunanin wane abu ne mijinku yake so wadanda ba ku yi ba, sannan ku rika tunanin abubuwan da idan kuka yi masa zai ji dadi. Kada ku hana shi bukatar saduwa, ko kin yi masa girki mai lagwada. Idan ransa ya baci har yana muku fada ku kaskantar da kanku, sannan ku samu hanya mafi hikima wajen sanar da shi abin da ya faru. Kada ku rika daga murya idan kuna magana da mijinku zai rika jin kun raina shi.
Idan har ya fahimci kuna biya masa dukkan bukatunsa to zai ji dadi a ransa.


*4-Yarda da miji a matsayin shugaba*

Mata su yarda mijinsu shi ne shugaba, sannan su rika ladabi da biyayya da kuma da’a ga miji, hakan zai sanya ya rika jin farin ciki a zuciyarsa. Kada mata su manta cewa, Manzon Allah (SAW) a cikin wani Hadisi ya ce “Da zan umarci wani ya yi wa wani sujuda da na umarci mata ta yi wa mijinta sujuda.” Don haka yi wa miji biyayya kodayaushe zai sanya ya rika samun farin ciki mai dorewa a rayuwar aure.

*5-Kwalliya da ado*

Kamar yadda tun a lokacin da ba ku yi aure ba, kuke rangada masa kwalliya da ado idan zai zo wurinku hira, Yi wa mijinku ado da kwalliya kafin ya dawo daga wurin aiki zai sanya shi farin ciki. Ku yi wanka, ku yi kwalliya, ku fesa turare mai kamshi, hakan zai sanya mijinku natsuwa da jin dadi da kuma farin ciki.


*6-Addu’a*
A duk lokacin da mijinku zai fita idan ya ji kun yi masa addu’a sai ya ji farin ciki ya kama shi, hakan kuma zai sa ya dage wajen nemo abin da za a ci a gidan, domin ya san kun san fitar da zai yi tana da muhimmanci a wurinku. Ku rika cewa: “Allah Ya kiyaye, “Allah Ya dawo da kai lafiya,” ko “Allah Ya sa a fita a sa’a,” ko kuma “Allah Ya sa a samo abin da aka je nema,” da sauransu.

*7- Godiya*
 Babu abin da namiji yake so face idan ya fita ya nemo wani abu ya kawo gida, walau ya sha wahala ko cikin sauki har idan ya kawo gida, ya ji matarsa ta yaba, sannan ta yi godiya. Yana da kyau mata su rika gode wa mijinsu, hakan zai rika sanya shi farin ciki. Wani lokaci ma matan za su iya kambama abin da ya samo, ta hanyar bayanin yadda al’amura suka yi tsanani, su rika nuna ba karamin kokari mijinsu ya yi ba. Su nuna sun yi sa’ar miji. Yin godiya ga miji zai sa ya ji farin ciki, sannan ya zage damtse wajen neman abinci don ya kawo gida. Kada mata su manta Manzon Allah (SAW) ya ce “Duk matar da ba ta gode wa kyautar mijinta ba, to Allah (SWT) ba Ya kallonta (da rahama).”

*8-Tausasa lafazi*
 Miji kan yi farin ciki a duk lokacin da matarsa take yi masa magana cikin tausassan lafazi. Domin ya fahimci akwai girmamawa daga matarsa. Ko da miji ya yi muku abin da ba ku so, to kada ku manta da yin bayani cikin lafazi mai taushi, kada ku ce kullum mijinku na maimaita abin bakin cikin da yake muku, su fahimci daga murya ba zai sanya ya daina ba, amma ta hanyar amfani da lafazi mai taushi sai ta sa zuciyar miji ta yi sanyi har ya yi nadamar abin da ya aikata, ya bada hakuri, sannan farin ciki ya wanzu a tsakanin ma’auratan.

*9-Tausayi*: 
Idan mata suka rika tausaya wa mijinsu musamman mijin da yake shan wahala wajen nemo cefane, to zai rika jin farin ciki. Kada ya fita ya samo abin da za a ci da kyar amma ku rika kushewa ko korafi a kai, ku rika cewa gidansu wance abinci sai an ture, ko kuma kowane wata sai ya yi mata dinki. Mata su fahimci kowa da karfinsa. Tausaya wa miji wani sinadari ne da zai sanya miji cikin farin ciki.


*10-Iya Girki*
Wata hanya mai matukar muhimmanci da mata za su faranta wa mijinsu ita ce, wajen iya girki. Akwai wani abokina ya ce dalilin da ya yake kara son matarsa shi ne, yadda ta kware wajen iya girki iri-iri. Idan mata suka iya girki za su samu wata daraja ta musamman a wurin mijinsu, zai kuma rika jin farin ciki, domin duk wahalar da ya sha wajen yin cafane ya san kwalliya za ta biya kudin sabulu. Idan mata ba su iya girki ba ya kamata su koya, kada su tsaya a salon girki iri daya kawai, hakan zai gunduri mijinsu, har ya rika korafi, inda maimakon samun farin ciki sai ya rika jin haushi.

A karshe ina fata mata za su bi wadannan hanyoyin don faranta wa mijinsu. 

Allah Ya taimake mu, amin.

Share:

KADA KI BIJIREWA MAI KYAUTATA MIKI

🍀 *KARKI BIJIREWA MAI KYUTATA MIKI* 🍀

🍀Idan kika samu MIJI mai kula da ke kuma yana cika miki haqqoqinki yadda yakamata, to ki godewa Allah,  kuma ki rikeshi kataman da hannu biyu. 
 
🍀Saboda idan har kika bijirewa kyuatatawar da yake miki, kikayi butulci, to fa kisani akwai 10 irinki a waje da kuma 40 wadanda suka fiki komai, duk  suna nan suna jiranshi yashigo da su dakinki. 

🍀Idan kinyi Sa'a ahadaku idan kuma akasin haka sai  kuma kiyi waje , abaki Red Card.  Allah yakiyaye.

🍀Kirika duba makomarsu mana, wasu fa irin yadda kikeyiwa mijinki haka sukayiwa nasu,  da tunanin cewa: ai idan ma sun fita akwai masu jiransu.

🍀Shaidan yayi musu alkawarin bogi,  kuma akarshe suka kare ahaka babu wanda ya shinshina su balle adaukesu, gararanbar dai kawai suke tayi,  da kuma yin bara a kufai. 

🍀Matukar kin godewa Allah, to Allah zai kara miki jim dadi doriya akan wanda kike kai, ku ma duk wanda bai godewa kadan ba ko anbashi mai yawa ma bazai gode ba.

🍀 Akarshe dai duk wanda bai godewa Mutane akan kyautatawar da Sukeyi masa ba, babu yadda za'ayi kuma yagodewa Allah. karshen butulci kenan,  mutum yaki godema Allah. 


*GANI GA WANE....*

*IDAN KUNNE YA JI....*

Allah yasa mudace kuma yakara gyara tsakanin ma'auratannmu. 


✍🏻 Rubutawa
*Idris M Rismawy*
Rismawy86@gmail.com

Share:

MAZA SUNA SUKA TARA

MAZA SUNA SUKA TARA
✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻
★Wani namijin abinda kesa bazai'iya gamsarda iyalinsa saboda yanada rauni adukkan gabobin jikiesa matsalarda masana kekiranta
الضعف الجنسي المخي.
Irin wannan namiji bazai'iya gamsarda iyali b.
★Wani namijin yanadasha'awar amma duk dahaka yakasa gamsarda iyali sbd rashin cikken dadin dayake rasawa watakil daga matar kokuma daga yanayin rashin sukuni atsakaninsu kamar rashin so ko tsafta ko rashin kulawa ko tanadin gurinda yakamata.
Irin wannan matsalar masana kecewa
الضعف اللذة الجنسية
Zata'iya yuyuwama yanada illar sanyi ko makamatansu kamar ciwon suga dakehana kuzari.
◆Wani namiji adalilin ciwon kashin baya na'iya jawomasa rashin kuzarinda zai gamsarda iyali irin wannan matsalar masana kecewa
الصعف الجنسي النخاعي
★Wani namijin kuma matsalar akan rashin mikewar gaba ce irin wannan matsala ake kirada 
ضعف أعضاء التناسلية
◆Wani namijin kuma sam rashin inzali yake fama da'ita duk yanda zaikusanci iyali bazaikawoba kuma sam ruwan maniyinsa kadan ne irin wannan matsala akecewa
الضعف الجنسي النطفي
✍🏻dan uwa kafara sanin matsalarka kafin kadauki matakin gyara kanka
lafiyaka itace jarinka ,yikokarin rayuwa da'iyalinka cikin nishadi da aminci domin akiraka da *JARUMIN MAZA*
ALLAH yaimana jagora amin,
Zakujimu dasauran bayanan akaro nagaba.
*BIRNIN MAGAJI ISLAMIC MEDICINE CENTER RIJIYAR ZAKI KANO
☏08080678100
*KITSEN KADA*
🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊
✍🏻Dadama daga tsofaffin littafai suna bayani akan akan cewa lallai wannan kitse nada amfani matuka wajen *FAMILY FLANING*
Matukar dai mace zatai insert dashi 30 minit b4 sex ciki bazai zauna b wannan agajine ga matanda ke daukar ciki kafin suyaye.
✍🏻Duk namijinda zaishafa wannan mai agabansa awa 2 kafin mu'amalar aure to hakika zai'iya duk abinda akeso domin yanakara power dahana saurin release kuma yanakara girma.
*BIRNIN MAGAJI ISLAMIC MEDICINE CENTER RIJIYAR ZAKI KANO*
☎08080678100

Share:

MANYAN MATSALOLIN DA KE HANA SAMUN MIJIN AURE


MANYAN MATSALOLINDA KE HANA SAMUN MIJIN AURE.
✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻
Wasu daga cikin y'an mata nahaduwa daqaddarar miyagun samari ko makiya tayanda zasuje sukullamiki tarkon sihirinda zaizama silar bawani dake sha'awar aurenki, domin anyimiki sihirinda ake kira سحرالتعطيل
Sihirene dazaki zauna bamaison zamadake amatsayin wai masoyiya ballantana kuma matarda za'a aura.
*KADAN DAGA ALAMOMIN WANNAN SIHIRI*
★Duk wanda keda niyyar aurenki zaidinga ganinki mummuna kawai masu niyyar lalata rayuwarkine zasu dinga ribibinki.
★Kema zakiji duk wandake niyyar aurenki baikwantamikiba zakidinga hango muni ko aibinsa.
★Haka kawai kedashi zakuji kuntsani juna in'antambayeku meye sila ba'amsa.
★Jinkasala ko gajiya ko damuwa aduk sadda yace zaizo gurinki.
★Zai'iyaganinki ahanya yaji yakamu dakaunarki amma dayazo gdanku saiyaji kinficemasa dagarai.
★Zaidinga waswasi dayawan zargin yandakike gudanarda rayuwarki.
*MANYAN ALAMOMINDAKE HANA AURE DAGA BANGAREN ALJANU*
★yawankunci
★Yawan fama ma tari
★yawan tinani barkatai.
★Ganin samari bawanda yakwanta miki ko bawandaya'isa yajuyaki
★Damuwa acikin bacci
★Yawan ciwon ciki
★Yawan ciwon baya.
Akwai hanyoyi dadama nawarware wannan matsala kuma y'anmata suguji yawan hulda damaza marasa mutunci sbd wani kina batamasa rai to komaifa zai'iya danyaga yalalata rayuwarki allah yasa mudace.
DAGA BIRNIN MAGAJI ISLAMIC CENTER RIJIYAR ZAKI KANO
☎→08080678100
 WACCE TADADE BATAI AURE BA
*******************************
y'ar uwa dakika dade ba'aure to ga mafita dayardar ubngji zakisami mafita.
Kirubuta wannan aya da tawadar midadul'ishq kiwanke da ma'ulhubbi kiwanke kanki daruwan kiyi alwala dashi sannan kisha ragowar zakiyi aure da'izinin mahaliccin sarki.
وبشرالذين آمنووعملوالصالحات أن لهم جنات تجري من تحتهاالأنهار كلمارزقوامنهامن ثمرةرزقاقالوهذالذي رزقنامن قبل وأتوبهامشابهاولهم فيهاأزواج مطهرةوهم فيها خالدون
 *IDAN KANASO KASAN MEKE DAMUN RAYUWARKA*
✍🏻sihirine ajikinka kokuma hasadar jama'ace ke bibiyar ka ko wani sharrine da bakasaniba.
Yi alwala kazauna kabude tafukan hannayenka kakaranta
سورة الفلق
Sau 70 kowace kafa katofa kashafi fuskarka harkagama kanagamawa indai akwai sihiri ko jifa ajikinka ko hasada to atake hamma zata dameka/ki 
Allah yatsaremu karmuyi kar aimana
 MATSALOLIN ALJANU DA YADDA ZA MAGANCE SU.
👹👹👺👺👹👹👺👺
Dukkan godiya da yabo su tabbta ga Allah madaukakin
sarki, tsira da aminci su tabbata ga Annabi Muhammad da
alayensa da sahabbansa da wadanda suka biyo bayan su
da kyautatawa har ya zuwa ranar tashin alkiyama.
Bayan haka wannan sako ne na musamman zuwa ga 'yan
uwa musulmai maza da mata dangane da matsalolin da
suka shafi matan aure da 'yan mata musulmai da samari
marasa aure da magidanta baki daya, dangane da
matsalar shafar Aljanu, da yadda suke shiga jikin mutum
dan Adam, da alamomin da dan Adam zai gane cewa
akwai Aljanin a jikinsa, sa'annan bayani game da matsalar
da ake kira (jinnul ashik) namijin dare ko (jinnu ashika)
macen dare.
Allah na ke roko ya mun dace wajen wannan rubutun
amen.
SU WAYE ALJANU KUMA DAGA INA ALLAH YA HALICCE
SU?.
Aljanu hailttu ne da Allah (SWA) ya yahalicce ya ajiye su a
duniya don su bauta masa.
Sa'annan ya halicce su ne daga harshen wuta, Allah (SWA)
yana cewa :
"KUMA YA HALICCI ALJANI DAGA WUTA (Harsashen
Wuta)".
Dan Abbas y ace lallai Aljanu an halicci su daga harshen
wuta.
Don haka sai muce Aljanu wasu halittu ne da Allah ya
halicce su daga harshen wuta, shi yasa ba a iya ganin su,
kuma ba a iya taba su ko jin mosinsu, saboda su ruhuine
kawai, bas u da tabbataccen gangan jiki irin na dan Adam,
shi yasa suke shiga surar irin jikin da suka ga dama,
kamar Kare, Maciji, Kyanwa (Mage), da sauransu.
NAU'IN HALITTUN ALJANU.
Allah (SWA) ya halicci Aljanu da nau'in halitti
mabanbanta.
An samo Hadisi daga Aba Sa'alabatal Kushaniy (RA) yace,
Manzon Allah (SAW) yace: "ALJANU NAU'I UKU NE (Wasu)
NAU'IN MASU FIKA FIKAINE, SUNA TASHI SAMA, DA
NAU'IN MASU ZAMA MACIZAI DA KUNAMAI DA MASU
ZAMA WURI DAYA SU KAURA" (Hakim ya fidda shi).
WURAREN DA ALJANU SUKE ZAMA
Sun kasance suna zama a cikin wadannan wuraren kamar
haka:-
1. Cikin Daji.
2. Cikin Ruwa.
3. Tsaunuka, da Koguna.
4. . Bayan Daki
5. Bola (Jibji).
6. Wajen Wanke – Wanke.
7. Wurin Makabarta.
Masu zama a cikin jama'a sun fi cutar da jama'a, saboda
suna zama a wuraren kazanta, shi yasa mafi yawan
cutarwar da Aljannu ke yi wa dan Adam su ne ke yi!! (Allah
ya tsare mu).
DALILIN DA YASA ALJANU KE SHAFAR DAN ADAM.
Yawancin Aljanu suna shafar dan Adam ne ta daya daga
cikin wadannan dalilai guda 4:-
1. Saboda zalunci da muguntar Aljanin.
2. Da sunan kauna ko son da Aljani ke yi wad an Adam,
kamar Aljani ya so mace mutum, ko Aljana ta so namiji
mutum.
A gaba za mu yi bayani akan wannan matsalar, kuma shi
ake kira da Jinnul Ashik (Namijin Dare) ko Jinnul Ashika
(Macen Dare) insha Allahu.
3. Saboda cutarwar dad an Adam ya yi wa Aljanun, kamar
ya zuba masa rowan zafi ko ya taka shi, sai ya zo daukar
fansa.
4. Ko Bokaye da matsafa su turo wa mutum Aljanin.
CUTARWAR DA ALJANI KE YI WA DAN ADAM.
Aljanu na cutar dad an Adam ta hanyoyi guda 2, kamar
haka:-
1. Ta hanyar shiga jikin dan Adam:- Shine Aljani ya shiga
jikin dan Adam gaba daya ko wata gaba, kamar hannu,
kafa, Baya, Kirji, Kai, Ido ko Kunne, sai yayi ta cutar da
marar lafiya yana wahalar das hi.
Wannan ya tabbata a cikin Hadisi, Manzon Allah (SAW)
yace:
"LALLAI SHAIDAN (ALJANI) YANA GUDANA A JIKIN DAN
ADAM AKAMAR YADDA JINI YAKE GUDANA".
Ma'ana: Yana iya shiga duk inda jinni zai shiga, saboda
bas hi da gangan jiki da zai hana shi hakan.
2. Ta hanyar Shafar jikin dan Adam:- Shine ya sanya ciwo
ko kuma ya lalata wata gaba daga cikin gabobin dan
Adam, kamar ya lalata ko shanye hanu, ya sanya ciwo ko
ya kurumtar da kunne, ko ya rike muryar mutum ko ya
sanya wa mace ciwo a mara ko mahaifa, ko ya taba mata
wata jijiya sai jinni ya yi ta zuba, da sauransu.
Irin wandannan Aljanun ba a samunsa a jikin marar lafiya,
sai dai ayi ta amfani da magani wadda musulunci yayi
umurnin amfani das hi, ta kuma hanyar mai kyau.
LOKOTAN DA ALJANI KE SHIGA JIKIN DAN ADAM.
1. Yayin da mutum yake cikin matsanancin bacin raid a
fushi.
2. Yayin da mutum ya tsorita.
3. Yayin da Mutum ya nitse cikin sabon Allah, kamar
kallace-kallacen fina-finan banza na batsa.
4. Yayin d mutum yaje cikin janaba, saboda babu garkuwa
na tsarki a jikinsa.
ALAMOMIN SAMUWAR ALJANI A JIKIN DAN ADAM.
a. Yawan mantuwa mai tsanani.
b. Mutuwar wani bangare na jiki, hannu ko kafa wanda
baya jin magani.
c. Yawan samun damuwa da kuncin rai.
d. Rashin nitsuwa a guri daya.
e. Yawan kokwanto.
f. Firgita a cikin barci.
g. Yawan mafarkin matattu.
h. Yawan mafarkin jinni ko ruwa.
i. Mafarkin maciji.
j.Jin motsi kamar ana binka a baya.
k. Cizon hakuri a cikin barci.
l. Yawan rashin bacci.
m. Yawan farkawa daga bacci.
n. Mafarkin Shanu.
o. Mafarkin saduwa ba bias ka'ida ba, kamar sau 3 fiye da
haka a sati.
p. Yawan zubar jinin haila wanda ya wuce misali.
q. Yawan zancen zuci.
r. Rashin amincewa da mutane.
s. Yawan faduwar gaba.
t. Tafiya ko tsayuwa a cikin bacci.
u. Yawan mafarkin abubuwan ban tsoro.
v. Yawan yawace yawace ba bias qa;ida ba.
w. Yawan jin tsoro haka kurum.
x. Yawan jituwa tsakanin miji da mata.
y. Jin sauti kamar ana kiranka.
z. Dadewa a bandaki ba tare da wani dalili ba.
aa. Zancen zuci a bandaki.
bb. Mafarkin kyanwa (mage). Da sauransu.
Da zaran dan Adam ya ji wannan alamomin a jikinsa, to
akwai alamar samuwar aljani a tattare das hi, sai ya fara
addu'a da yawan azkar, da yawaita karatun alku'ani.
Idan kuma ya fara jin ciwon kai, ciwon kirji, ciwon baya, ko
ciwon gabobi, bayan wadncan alamomi da suke sama, sai
ya ci gaba da addu'a tare da shan magani, in kuma abun
yayi tsanani, sai ya nemi Malamim Ruqiyya (Ahlus
Sunnah), su yi masa, karatun Alkurani. Allah ya tsare mu.
ABINDA AKE KIRA JINNUL ASHIK:-
Shi ne mace ta wayi gari tana yawan mafarki wani na
saduwa da ita cikin barci, wannan al'amarin ya kasance ya
yi yawa a tsakanin mata kuma har ya kai ga wasu
cututtuka suna faruwa ga mace ko namiji ko kuma
cututtukan da ba sa jin magani a yi ta wahala har a gaji.
DALILIN SAMUWAR JINNUL ASHIK:-
Malaman duniya sun bayar da fatawowi cikin Alqur'ani da
Sunnah, kamar cikin Majmu'ul fatawa na Shaikul Islam
ibnu Taimiyyah da littafin Ash-shifa'u bil qur'an minal jinnu
wash shayadini na Ridha Ash-sharkawi da littafin Minhajul
qur'an li'ilaj as-hir wal massi as-shaidani suka ce:
Wannan Aljani da ake kira jinnul Ashik yakan samu mace
ta hanyoyi hudu kamar haka:-
<1>: Wata shi yake kawo kansa saboda rashin kyautata
sutura da shigar banza na kayan zamani, wanda
musulunci ya hana.
. <2>: Wata kuma ita take kai kanta inda aljanun suke,
kamar zuwa wajen bokaye.
<3>: Wata kuma sihiri aka yi mata saboda ta hada nema
da wani maras tsoron Allah.
<4>: Wata kuma tana kyautata sutura, tana bin Allah,
amma Allah zai jarrabe ta da wannan shaidani.
A takaice dai wadannan hanyoyin da shi wannan shaidani
zai zo wajen ta sai ya mayar da abin ya koma zuwa
soyayya ya raba ta da kowa ya hanata yin aure ko ya
rabata da mijinta ko ya hanata zaman lafiya da shi, shi
kuma Aljanin ya ci gaba da zama da ita yana saduwa da
ita ya dauke ta kamar matarsa kuma ya hana mijinta
komai da ita, ya sa gaba da kiyayya a tsakani. Allah ya
kiyaye.
HANYOYIN DA YAKE BI YA ZO MATA A MATSAYIN MIJIN
DARE.
SUNE KAMAR HAKA:-
<1>: Yakan zo wa mace cikin barci ya dinga saduwa da ita
cikin mafarki, ta fuskar mijinta ko wani wadda take jin
kunya ko wadda bata sani ba ko dan uwanta ko ta siffar
mace 'yar uwarta.
<2>: Yakan zo mata a siffar mijinta yana saduwa da ita a
zahiri ba a mafarki ba, amma kuma shaidani ne ba mijinta
ba ne.
<3>: Yakan zo wa mace tana kwance ta ji kamar ana
saduwa da ita, ita ba mafarki ba, ita kuma ba idon ta biyu
ba.
<4>: Wata macen ta kan kwanta ta yi barci ba wadda ya
sadu da ita, amma idan ta farka ta wayi gari sai ta ga
kamar wani ya sadu da ita.
ALAMOMIN MIJIN DARE:-
Daga cikin alamomin da mace zata gane tana da wannan
matsalar shine:-
Shi wannan shaidanin zai dinga zuwa yana saduwa da ita
cikin barci, yawanci mata suna tsintar kansu cikin wannan
yanayin, amma sai su dauka shirmen mafarki ne kawai, to
a gaskiya ba haka bane. Duk mata ko budurwar da take
irin wannan mafarkin za ka same ta tana fama da
wadannan matsalolin, ko da za ka tambaye ta wadannan
matsalolin za tace maka tana fama da su. Daga ciki
akwai:-
<1>: Bacin rai ba a mata komai ba, ta ji tana jin haushin
kowa har ma da mijinta ko kuma ta ji kamar mijin ya sake
ta, ta gaji da auren, da za ka tambayeta laifin mijin ba
zata fadi laifinsa ba, wata rana ma ta ji tana tsanar
'yan'yanta.
<2>: Yawan ciwon kai daga lokaci zuwa lokaci kuma baya
jin magani.
<3>: Tsananin ciwon kirji da ciwon baya.
<4>: Tsananin ciwon mara lokacin al'ada da kuma zubar
wani ruwa daga farjin mace, shi ba al'ada ba ne, kuma ya
kasu kashi 2; mai yauki da maras yauki ko mai kauri
kamar koko tare da yawan kaikayi ko fitowar kuraje.
<5>: Ga yawan zubar ciki ko bari, ko kuma rashin samun
ciki, amma za ta iya kasancewa ta dauki alamomi na
masu ciki har ma ana zaton tana da ciki, amma ana
kwana 2 sai ta canza kamar ba ciki ba, ko ta rinka yawan
mafarki ta haihu.
<6>: Idan mijinta yana saduwa da ita tana jin zafi, ko kuma
yana saduwa da ita ba zafi, amma bata samun biyan
bukata.
<7>: Daf da magariba ta dinga jin zazzabi ko faduwar
gaba ko yawan tsorata, ko kasala da bacin rai.
<8>: Idan ta dauki Alku'ani za ta karanta sai ta dinga jin
kasala da hamma da hawaye da barci da zarar ta ajiye
kur'anin sai ta ji wartsake kamar ba ita take jin barci ba.
<9>: Sannan kuma ko ta kwanta tana son yin barci sai ta
kasa, ta yi ta juyi ta kasa barci, mijinta na zuwa kusa da
ita sai ta dinga samun firgita da tsoro.
<10>: Ko ta wayi gari gashin kanta ya dinga kadewa ko ya
yi ja, bakinta ya dinga bushewa ko yayi ja.
<11>: Yawan kaikayin ido da kaikayin kai na amosani,
amma ba amosani ba ne.
<12>: Yawan kaikayin kunne da yawan kaikayin hanci
kamar mura, amma ba mura bane, ko yawan kunburin
ciki.
<13>: Yawan zuban jini daba na al'ada ba, ko jini ya rika yi
mata wasa.
Sannan kuma har ma wacce bata da aure budurwa ko
bazawara za ta iya samun wannan matsalar, amma ita
bambancin da ke tsakanida ita wacce take da aure shine
kamar haka:-
<1>Ita marar aure za ta kasance duk lokacin da wani ya
zo wajen ta da maganar aure kamar za a yi sai abin ya
lalace daga wajen ta ko daga wajensa.
<2>Za ta dinga samun munanan mafarkai tare da ganin
wani namiji yana zuwa yana saduwa da ita cikin barci ta
fuskar da ta sani ko bakuwar fuska ko mace 'yar uwarta.
<3>Kuma za ta dinga yawan samun cututtuka masu wuyar
magani har ma da yawan zubar da jini ko ciwon mara
lokacin al'ada ko kasala lokacin karatun kur'ani, tana
farawa sai hamma da kasala ya kama ta ko kuma idan ana
sallama da ita, sai ta rinka jin faduwar gaba ko tsoro.
<4>Kuma za ta rinka yawan samun sabani da kiyayya
tsakaninta da iyayenta ko 'yan uwanta ko jama'a ko kuma
ta zama mai rashin kunya da rashin magana ga iyaye da
sauran dangi.
Allah ya kiyaye.
GAME DA NAMIJI:
Dukkan wadannan bayanai da aka yi game da 'yan uwa
mata, to sukan iya samun da namiji, amma bambanci
shine:-
Shi namiji macen Aljana ce za ta dinga zuwa wajensa ta
zama ta raba shi da kowa sai ita kadai, ta dauke shi
kamar mijinta, idan mai mata ne ta cire soyayya da
sha'awa tsakaninsa da matarsa, kuma ta hana shi komai
na ci gaban rayuwa ta mayar da shi marar kishin kansa
da rayuwarsa.
Idan saurayi ne takan hana shi karatu ko ya fara ba zai
gane ba, ko kuma inya gane ta hana shi karatun ko ta
dinga sa masa wasuwasi da kokwanto lokacin jarrabawa
ya fadi ko a kore shi a makarantar, in ya kama neman aure
ko a ki shi ko shi ya ki, in ya kama sana'a sai ya yi ta
samun matsala, kuma shi ba shan Giya, ko mata yake
nema ba, kuma tasa gaba da rashin yarda tsakaninsa da
iyayensa ko jama'a.
MAFITA:
Duk wadannan abubuwa da aka fada ba abubuwa ne
sabbi ko baki ba, ba kuma yau ko jiya aka fara samun
wannan matsalar ba, wannan matsalar an same ta tin
zamanin Annabi (SAW) game da Aljani ko Aljana ya shiga
jikin dan Adam namiji ko mace.
Imam Bukhari ya ruwaito hadisi zamanin Annabi (SAW) an
samu wata mace ta zogaban Annabi da matsalar cutar
Aljani ya kayar da ita, ta fadi, ta ce Annabi ya yi mata
magani.
Sai Annabi (SAW) y ace mata, da a bar barki dad a cutar ki
mutu ki shiga aljannah, da a yi miki addu'a ki warki, wane
ki ka fi so?! Ta cewa Annabi (SAW) idan wannan cutar za
ta zama sanadin shigata Aljannah, a barta da shi, amma
ayi mata addu'a idan ya kada ita, ta dai na tsiraici.
Don haka wannan al'amari ba bako bane ga musulmi ko
Ahlus Sunnah.
Komawa zuwa ga Allah (SWA) da kuma rike addu'o'in dad
a Manzon Allah (SAW) ya ba muna safe, yamma da na
shiga ban daki da fita, da na lokacin kwanciya, da na
sanya sutura da cirewa, da na cin abinci, duk wadannan
suna cikin littafin (HISNUL MUSLIM), sannan kuma sai
wadannan hanyoyin da Malami suka bayar guda 11, ga me
da mace ko namijin da suka samu kansu da namijin dare
ko macen dare:
1. Su kiyaye dokan Allah (SWA) da nisantar laifuka manya
da kanana.
2. Yawaita karatun Kur'ani a kawane hali a kuma kowane
lokaci.
3. Kyautata sutura (mace) hijabi, tin daga sama har kasa,
mai kauri kuma mai fadi bana adoba.
4. kiyaye cin halal wanda za a ci ko wanda za a nema.
5. Yin sallah akan lokaci tare da kiyaye ilmin sallah din tin
daga Annabi (SAW).
6. Yawan yin Alwala lokacin da za a kwanta bacci da
kowane lokaci.
7. Yawan karanta Ayatul Kursiyyu da Amanar Rasulu,
kulhuwa, Falaqi da Nasi lokacin kwanciya.
8. Yawan karanta Suratul Baqara a gida ko dakin da ake
kwana da cire hoto ko na waye.
9. Yawan Karanta:- LA'ILAHA ILLALLAHU WAHADAHU LA
SHARIKA LAHU, LAHUL MULKU WA HUWA ALA KULLI
SHAI'IN QADIR. Sau 100 da safe da yamma.
10. Karanta BISMILLAHIL LAZI LA YADHURRU MA'A
ISMIHI SHAI'UN FIL ARDHI WA LA FIS SAMA'I, WA
HUWAS SAMI'UL ALIM. Sau 3 da safe da yammaa.
11. Da Karanta: A'UZU BIKALIMATILLAHIT TAMMATI MIN
SHARRI MA KHALAK. Sau 3 safe da yamma.
HANYA TA BIYU.
Game da wadanda suka tsinci kansu cikin wannan
matsalar, ta jinnul Ashik, za ta samu tsabar habbatus
Sauda, sai ta karanta Suratul Baqara gaba daya a cikin
wannan tsabar, sai a dinga hayaki a dakin da take kwana,
kuma sai ta tsuguna kan hayakin ya dinga shiga jikinta, za
ta rinka yin haka da safe da lokacin da lokacin kwanciya.
Sai kuma amfani da magungunan Islama wadda
musulunci ya karantar ayi amfani das u
DAGA TASKAR DANDALIN AMINU YAHUZA
08080678100

Share:

MATSALAR RASHIN YIN AURE DA WURI

MATSALAR RASHIN AURE DA WURI 

 IYAYE WANNA MATSALAR KUCE ?

Tana daga cikin abubuwan da suke ci ma al-ummar musulmai tuwo a kwarya a wannan zamanin
zakaga budurwa yar shekara 30 ko 40 da dai sauransu amma bata taba yin aure ba yawansu ba wai abisa son ransu bane a'a illa dai matsalar yanayin halin rayuwa ko dai matsalar jinnul ashiq dinnan wacce muke magana akai ko kuma matsalar iyaye muke magana a kai musamman ma iyaye maza zaka ga dattijo yarsa ta samu mijin aure amma sai yace wai ba zata yi aure yanzu ba sai ta gama UNIVERSITY.

UNIVERSITY zata iya jiran yarka amma AURE ba zai jirata ba
don haka ya kamata iyaye su rika sanya tsoron Allah a cikin wannan al'amari kuma su guji kallo abin duniya a matsayin shine kwanciyar hankalinsu.

✆ WhatsApp +2348141712330

IYAYE=tambaya ta gareku.

・ ita wanna yariya bata sha'awa.

・ shi wannan yaro baya sha'awa.

duk fa mutane ne kamar ku iyayena.

wanna yana jefa mata da yawa gaske =LESBIAN=madigo
=sex wannan yana jefa matasa da yawa SEX AMFANI DA HANNU iyaye ku duba wannan matsala ta matasa da idon basira.

NEMAN DUNIYA YA HANA IYAYE SAMUM LOKACIN TARBIYYA:

uba ya tafi kasuwa bai dawo ba sai bayan la'sar basu san kalan abokan da yaransu ke ma'amala dasu ba sun manta da hakkin tarbiya yar-yaro dake kansu.

・ wannan yasa yan'mata da yawa sun rasa budurci su.

・ RASHIN YIN AURE DA WURI: a shekarun baya an aurar da 20 duk da cewa akwai rashin karatu amma kuma akwai tarbiyya a shekarun baya ba'a samu cikin shege kuma gashi yan mata da samari sukan kwana daki 1 yanzu kuma saboda kokarin tafiya da zamani ba'a yiwa yarinya aure sai ta gama gajiya da zaman tuzuranci saboda karatu babu ruwan iyaye na irin halin da yariya zata shiga na bukatar miji yayin karatun damuwarsa kawai ta gama makarantar don ta samu aiki ita kuma kafin ta gama sai ta nemi hanyoyin biyan bukatarta ta kowane hali imma ta hanyar samun namiji a matsayin mai temakonta a karatu!!! Friend ko ta hanyar yan'uwanta mata a matsayin kawaye haka shima namiji anki masa aure har ya haura sama da shekara 30 amma yasan komai ta hanyan haramun kafin aure damuwar iyayensa ace masa DR,KO INJINIYA KO LAUYA DSS.

MATSALA GA IYAYE

BALAGA:don wanna lokaci ne wanda yaro ke canzawa a rayuwa ya fara ganin mutane duk basusan me sukeyi ba shine kadai mai wayo ita kuma.

'YA MACE a wannan lokacin ya kamata mahaifiyarta ta kusanceta kuma ta koya mata abubuwa da hukunce-hukunce da suka kebanci 'ya mace amma sai yariya ta kai minzalin aure iyayenta basu taba koya mata wankan janaba ba ko kuma hukunce-hukunce jinin haila.

MATSALOLI KAFIN AURE

wasu daga matsalolin da saurayi ko budurwa kan iya fuskanta kafin aure ko bayan aure-wani lokaci saurayi da budurwa suken fuskanci matsala ne kamar haka.

BURIN DA KOWANE BANGARE DA IYAYEN SAURAYI DA BUDURWA: 

ko su kansu saurayi da budurwa suke ci game da saurayi ko budurwa kamar daki da yake tunanin a kawo ta da shi da sauransu ko kuma shi kayana da take tunanin ya kai gidansu.

NAU'IN SADAKIN DA AKE AYYANAWA: 

ko kuma ince kayan mun gani muna so da lefe a al'adunmu da ake sanyawa a kan saurayi da idan suna da yawa yakan sanya jinkirin aurensa.

kudaden kashewa domin bikin aure.

tsanantawa wajen binciken laifufukan juna.

binciken matsayin dangin juna ta fuskacin wani MUKAMI KO DUKIYA UWARGIDA KIYAYE WANNA.

+KI RIKE MATSAYINKI
+KIYI HADIN GWUIWA
+KIYI MASA KYAKKYAWAN ZATO
+KI SO MIJINKI YADDA YAKE
+KI AMSA KIRANSA
+KI SAMU LOKACINSA
+KI KASANCE MAI JITUWA
+KI NEMI SHAWARA
+KADA KI HADA KANKI DA WATA
+KI FADA MASA GASKIYA
Sirrin rike miji

¤da fatan zamu gyara mata da miji

: sirrin rike miji
WhatsApp: ☏+2348141712330

Share:

INA SON AUREN USTAZIYA AMMA...

🧕🏻🧕🏻🧕🏻INA SON AUREN USTAZIYA, AMMA MATSALAR; SU BA SU IYA NUNA SOYAIYA DA KULAWA DA MIJI BA 🧕🏻🧕🏻🧕🏻!

_ Maza da dama suna fadin wannan maganar' magana ta gaskiya Inason Auren mace ustaziya amma matsala ta da su basu iya Soyayya ba sai kaje ka aure ta tayi ta sanya ma hijabi a cikin gida, ba ruwan ta da nuna Maka Soyayya ko tarairaya ka so kana bacci kana jin numfashin Matar ka a kusa da Kai Kaji ka kamar kana Aljannah ka samu nutsuwa da ni'ima ' amma ina sai ka juya sai kaganta can tana ta nafila da tasbihi alhali kai ma mijin ta hakkin ka na a kanta ko da ta sauke hakkin ubangijin ta matukar bata sauke naka ba to bata gama sauke hakkin ubangijin ta ba ! Ammä ina kana so ka samu nutsuwa Kaji ka kusa da ita ayi hira ayi dariya ayi bacci amma ina tana can tana ta nafila !

_Ka dawo gida ta kawo ma abinci tace ma Sannu da dawowa maimakon ta zauna kana ci tana taya ka zama ko ta baka koda loma biyu ne a baki ko uku' ko ma ta ciyar da Kai ' kokuwa ta zauna tayi kwalliya Mai fidda duk kyawun ta a fili kana kallon ta kana Cin abinci tana kara shiga maka rai' tayi kwalliya ta mulke jiki da Mai tayi ado ga Jan baki ga powder' kana kara jin tana shiga ranka kana kara sha'awar ta da son kasancewa da ita har abadan da marmarin ta tamkar ango da aka dawo da shi gida' Tana yima kallon soyayya da kyawawan idanuwan ta 'amma ina sai ta tashi ta fita waje ta kama wani aikin ko ta wuce daki taci gaba da karatu ko wani bincike baruwan ta ko taje ta kwanta shiru !

_Bayan kana da bukatar in ka dawo ayi maka Oyoyo da maganganun Soyayya masu dadi dasauran su' ko ma ba ayi maka Oyoyo ba a tare ka cikin fara'a da shagwaba a riki hannun ka ana yima fara'a ' amma baruwan ta ko da kuna da yara , yara yanzu basa hana Soyayya karfe biyu ka dawo yara sun tafi Islamiyya sai Kusha Soyayya ku amma baruwan ta sai kace rayuwar da bana aure ba !

_kana taba ta kuwa da wani maganar sai ta jawo maka aya ko hadisi, Kai kuma ka aure ta ne kana ganin irinta itace cikakkiyar mace tagari Aljannah duniya ga ta da karatun Al'qur ani gata da hadisi ga fiqhu gashi zata nuna ma Soyayya, amma ina sai tayi tama nuku nuku kazamo mai aure amma kamar Mara aure' sai kace baka da aure to Meye amfanin Auren in ba Soyayya da kulawa da tarairaya' ai in dai tuwo ne da ruwan zafi da Sannu da dawowa mama da qannen ka suna yi maka' ita ta hana ka jindadi ta hana kanta !

_Ya ke yar uwa ta mai daraja Kamila mumina ustaziya shin kin manta Annabi Muhammad (SAW) irin soyayyar da yake da matan sa, shin baki san cewa da zaki zamo kin sauke hakkin ubangijin ki gabadaya in har baki sauke namijin ki ba akwai kura a kanki baki gama sauke hakkin ubangijin ki ba ? Lallai in kina da irin halin da na ambata a saman rubutu na to lallai kiyi saurin canjawa ya ke ustaziya mace tagari Aljannah duniya !

_Shin Rasheedah Bintu Abeebakar ta Fadi gaskiya ?in akwai Mai niyyar bada Shawara Ku bada shawarwari ku !

_Mu hadu a rubutu na gabah ...............................!

✍Rasheedah Bintu Abeebakar Mubi (daughter of Islam)
Share:

Popular Posts

Total Pageviews

Featured post

MRJ INVESTMENTS

Kasancewar na taso a Karkara, nayi Matuƙar sabawa da abincinmu na gargajiya. Amma da yake a birni nake aiki, dole take sa nake Maneji da ...

Blog Archive

Recent Posts

Unordered List

  • Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetuer adipiscing elit.
  • Aliquam tincidunt mauris eu risus.
  • Vestibulum auctor dapibus neque.

Sample Text

Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipisicing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua.

Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation test link ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat.

Pages

Theme Support

Need our help to upload or customize this blogger template? Contact me with details about the theme customization you need.