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MACE MAI MUMMUNAN HALI


🔥GOBARAR ZAMANI
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Wallafar:-- Mal. Aliyu Sa'id Gamawa

*Mace Mai Mummunan Hali*

Mace mai mummunan hali, ita ce mai waɗannan halaye: 

- Hauragiya, tsiwa (daga harshe ga mai gida) 

- Kwarmato, mita, gulma, qananan maganganu 

- Ɗora wa miji sai ya sayo abin da ya fi qarfin arzikinsa. 

- Rashin suturta jiki da ganin kai, da sha’awar munanan al’adu. 

- Qaryata mai gida, ko yi masa dariya yayin da ake hira. 

- Yawan yawo da qaurace wa mai gida a shimfiɗa

- Qin yin aikin ibada ko maganganun batsa. 

   Haka dai Malam Rumfa da uwar gidansa suka yi ta irin wannan tattaunawa har zuwa wani lokaci, daga qarshe dai Rahmatu ta ce, Allah ya kai ku lafiya ya dawo da ku lafiya, ya kuma ba ku sa’a. Malam Rumfa ya ce, amin. Don haka jibi da safe za mu tafi in Allah ya kai mu, tafiyar dai za ta ɗauke mu kwanaki goma (10), domin zuwa da dawowa kwana takwas ne (8). Sai dai an ce duk wanda ya yi tafiya ita take da shi, Ba shi ke da ita ba. Ma’ana sai an ga dawowarsa. Suna cikin hira sai Malam Rumfa ya hango wata takarda, ya tambayi Malama Ramatu, sai ta ce, “Jiya malamanmu suka raba mana a makaranta, wai tsaraba ce ta wani taro da suka halarta a can Duniyari a kan kula da lafiyar uwa da yara qanana, da halarcin yi musu rigakafi.” Malam rumfa ya ce, “ Ni a da ban yarda da duk surutun ’yan book da gwamnati a kan rigakafi ba, amma na saurari wani qwararre akan kiwon lafiya da sanin cututtuka, sai na gamsu cewa kusan ma wajibi ne mu kula da kanmu, iyalanmu da yaranmu wajen kiwon lafiya da yin rigakafi ga yara da manya. In muka ci gaba da kasancewa a cikin duhun kai da gujewa duk tsarin da ake kawo mana a kan kula da lafiyamu da ta iyalanmu, to haka za mu zauna har yaranmu su cutu.”

Zamu cigaba Insha Allah

✍️ Ibrahim Muhd Abu muhd

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DALILIN DA YASA MATAN HAUSAWA KE TSUFA DA ZARAR SUN YI AURE


*Dalilin da ya sanya matan Hausawa ke tsufa da zarar sunyi aure:*

Written by Jamil Usman

- Babbar matsalar mata a zamanin nan ita ce bakar kazanta da rashin kula da jikinsu matukar anyi aure.

- Wannan mummunar dabi'ar kazantar na sa mace ta tsufa tare da ba miji hanyar neman matan banza a waje.

- Dabi'ar kazanta na sa miji ya dinga kyamar matar shi ta yadda baya iya cin abincin da ta girka ballantana a kai ga kwanciyar aure.

Sau da yawa auri saki ya fi ta'azzara tare da yawa a kasar hausawa. Hakazalika ganin karamar yarinya ta tsufa cikin shekara daya ko biyu bayan aure ya zama gama-gari. Yarinya budurwa tana yin aure, haihuwa daya zuwa biyu take yi ta zama wata uwar mata. A lokacin da take tashen budurcinta kuwa, zaka ganta yarinya sharaf mai aji, kwalliya, tsafta ga iya kame jikinta.

Ba wani abu ke tsufar da matan ba da ya wuce kazanta. Mata da yawa bayan sunyi aure su kan yada makaman kwalliya, tsafta, gayu da kame jikinsu. Suna kuwa haihuwa daya, biyu zuwa uku suke tsufa kamar sun haifa mazan nasu. 

Sau da yawa sai ka ga mazan sun fara bibiyar 'yan mata masu tashe ko kuma karuwai a gari. Daga bisani idan ya ga dama sai ya kara aure ko kuma ya saki ta gidan saboda ba zai iya rike mata biyu ba.

Maza masu tarin yawa suna da kyankyami ta yadda basu iya cin abincin kazaman mata marasa gyara jikinsu. 

Namiji mai imani da son matar shi ne yake iya zaunar da mace ya sanar da ita matsalarta don ta gyara. Wani kuwa sai dai ya kyaleta shi kuwa ya nema wa kan shi mafita.

Idan kazantar mace ta kai ta kawo, gashin kanta, fatarta da dukkan jikinta babu mai iya rabarta. 

Mijinta baya iya zuwa kusa da ita ballantana a kai ga auratayya tsakaninsu. Amma abinda zai ba mutane mamaki shine yadda matan ke cin gayu tare da gyara jikinsu matukar zasu fita anguwa.
Wadannan matsalolin na sa mace ta tsufa cikin lokaci kankani kuma yana kashe aure. 

Abin mamakin kuwa shine yadda suke komawa mata masu kula da jikinsu bayan sun koma gidan iyayensu. Daga nan wani ya dauka ya aura bai san matsalar kazanta ba ce ta hana ta zaman gidan mijin.

Gareku mata,a dage da gyara jiki da tsafta komai yawan yara. Tsakanin kazanta da tsafta mintoci kadan ne ko sa'o'in kadan. Sa'a uku kacal zasu isa mace ta gyara jikinta da dakinta tare da yaranta. Kuiya da lalaci kuwa basu barin wasu matan, kamar yadda jaridar Leadership Hausa ta ruwaito.
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YADDA AKE HAƊIN RUWAN RAKE DOMIN ƘARIN NI'IMA


*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_Yadda Ake Hadin Ruwan Rake Don Samun Ni'ima Da Nishadi Lokacin Saduwa_*

Zaki nemi kayan hadin kamar haka;
* Ruwan rake
* Kankana
* Garin kanunfari
* Zuma
*Bayani;* Zaki samu ruwan rakenki mai kyau sai ki kawo yankakken kananarki sai ki sa a blenda ki zuba ruwan raken nan a cikin blenda ki markada sai ki zuba garin kanunfari idan ya jiku sai ki tace ki zuba zuma ki dunga sha.


WabillahinTaufiq.

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TO THOSE WITH ONE WIFE



TO THOSE WITH ONE WIFE.

Assāhib bn Ubbād said:

"I met the Muslim biographers saying, "If a Muslim man dies and leaves two or more wives they will say he passed away and left UNDER him his wives. But if he had just one wife, they will say, he passed away and left ABOVE him his wife.".This is because one wife will be on top of him whether he realizes it or not.

Ibn Sīnā said: 

"The one with one wife suffers ailments in his body and soul. His body grows older than his actual age. He suffers pains in his backbones, knees and joints. He suffers severe haplessness and hopelessness. His face loses the real brightness and his nagging and whining becomes extreme."

Al-Qādī bn Abī Mas'ūd said:

"He who has just one wife is NOT fit for the post of a judge or settling dispute among people." (This is because he cannot settle disputes between two wifes).

Ibn Hayyān at-Tawhīdī said:

"I met a people who would never allow anyone with just one wife to sit in the same circle with them. They consider him to be among the minors."

Ibn Khaldūn said:

"I looked critically at (the history of) the destroyed nations and I realized that they were used to being married to just one wife."

Al-'Ābid bn Mīsār said:

"A man shall not be firm in his religiosity if he has just one wife."

It was said to Ma'mūn bn Hārūn ar-Rashīd:

"There are people in Basrah, each of whom is married to just one wife. He said, they are NOT men. Their wives are the real men. They violate nature and Sunnah."

It was said to Abū Ma'rūf al-Karakhī:

"What's the ruling of a people who claim ascetism and chose to marry only one wife? He said, they are blind. No matter how ascetic they are, they never can reach ⅒ of the level of Abūbakr, or Umar or Uthmān or Alī who had wives.

"Ibn Fayyād was asked concerning men with only one wife. He said, they are not real men living but men eating, drinking and breathing."

"When ibn Is'hāq an-Naysābūrī was appointed as governor of AlKirk, he stopped payment of donations to those with just one wife. When he was queried for his decision, he said, this is the wealth of Allāh and we shall not give it to the selfish...."

"Ibn 'Atā-Allāh said concerning people with just one wife, "Whoever does not insist on establishing the Sunnah of the elders of the ummah that is also the Sunnah of Prophet and sahabas we count him to be among the UNSERIOUS."

"When Taqiyyuddīn al-Muzanī traveled to Samarkand as a jurist, the people said, each man among so and so tribe is married to just one wife. He replied, and they are Muslims? (He doubted the strength of their faith). So he admonished them so much so that before the next moon, about three thousands of them conducted another marriage to the extent that all women, singles or previously married (but widowed or divorced) became married." 

Imām al-Husarī said:

"When Allāh mentioned marriage, He started with two, three and four, leaving one for the last. This is because fear diminishes the perfection of a man.(That is, why would a man fear injustice among multiple wives and rather opt for just one, if truly he's a man?)"

The population of women this days is much, sister's fear Allah and allow your husband's get married to those sister's. Just imagine 5 brothers can marry 20 sister's. Men fear Allah and stop being afraid of your wife like your forefathers. Let's reduce the population of unmarried sister's, for they are not finding it easy, it is better to be a second to third wive then to remain single. Pray for Allah's direction and do the needful, no time to check time.

May Allah guide our paths and affairs. From
DIYYAH COUNSELLING
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NEMAN RA'AYIN BAZAWARA KAFIN A AURAR DA ITA


*NEMAN RA'AYIN BAZAWARA KAFIN A AURAR DA ITA.*
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Sheikh Solih bin Fauzan Al-Fauzan ya faďi a cikin littafinsa na
تنبيهات على أحكام تختص بالمؤمنات:

Bazawara kuwa ba a aurar da ita sai da izininta, kuma izininta shi ne ta fada da bakinta, sa6anin budurwa da aka sanya shirunta ya zama izininta. Ibnu Kudamah ya ce a cikin Al-Mugni (6/493):

Ba mu san wani sabani ba tsakanin malamai cewa izinin bazawara shi ne magana da bakinta, saboda hadisin da ya zo; kuma saboda harshe shi ne mai fadar abin da ke cikin zuciya, kuma da shi ake lura a ko ina aka ce a nemi izini.
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Shaikhul Islam Ibnu Taimiyya, Allah Ya ji kansa, ya ce a cikin Majmu'ul Fatawa (32/39-40):

Mace bai kamata wani ya aurar da ita ba ba tare da izininta ba, kamar yadda Annabi (ﷺ) ya yi umarni. Idan ta qi, to ba za a tilasta ta ta yi aure ba, sai dai yarinya karama (da ba ta kai munzalin balaga ba); ita ubanta yana da damar ya aurar da ita. Ita babu izini a gare ta. Amma bazawara wadda ta balaga, be halatta a aurar da ita ba tare da izininta ba; bai halatta ba ga uba, ko ga waninsa. Wannan kuwa ijma'in musulmi ne. Hakanan budurwa da ta balaga bai halatta ga wani in ba uba ko kaka ba, ya aurar da ita ba da izininta ba. Shi ma wannan ijma'in musulmi ne. Amma uba da kaka, su ya kamata gare su su nemi izininta. Kuma malamai sun yi sabani shin neman izinin nata gare su wajibi ne, ko Mustahabbi ne? Ingantacciyar magana ita ce cewa wajibi ne. Kuma wajibi ne ga waliyin mace ya ji tsoron Allah wajen wanda zai aurar da ita gare shi. Kuma lallai ya duba mijin shin ya dace da matsayinta ko bai dace ba; domin an sa shi ne ya aurar da ita don maslaharta, ba don maslahar kansa ba.
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Wannan shi ne matsayar shari'a game da aurar da mace bazawara. Allah Ya sa mu dace.
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*📚Irshadul Ummah.*
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HOW SHOULD A MUSLIM HUSBAND TREAT HIS WIFE?


🌴Praise be to Allah Almighty.
      
*How Should a Muslim* 
*Husband Treat His Wife*
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      ```Very Important```

*The woman is recognized by Islam as the full and equal partner of the man in the procreation of humankind. He is the father, she is the mother, and both are essential for life. Her role is not less vital than his.*

*By this partnership, she has an equal share in every aspect. She is entitled to equal rights, she undertakes equal responsibilities, and she has as many qualities and as much humanity as her partner.*

*Moreover, the relations between the spouses in Islam should be based on tranquility, love and mercy.*

*Allah says, “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.: (Ar-Rum 30:21)*

*And He says, “Permitted to you, on the night of the fasts, is the approach to your wives. They are your garments and ye are their garments….” (Al-Baqarah 2:187)*

*Commentators on the Qur’an understand this to mean that husbands and wives are for mutual support, mutual comfort, and mutual protection.*

*Tranquility, love, and mercy summarize the ideals of Islamic marriage. It is the duty of the husband and wife to see that they are a source of comfort and tranquility for each other.*

*They should do everything physically, emotionally and spiritually to make each other feel happy and comfortable. They must care for each other. They should not harm or injure each other, either physically or verbally.*

*In order to increase the tranquility and comfort in their relations and in their home, they should love each other and be merciful and kind to each other.*

*In fact, Islam has honored woman and granted her an equal status with man. Moreover, a woman can excel a man by obeying Allah, drawing near to Him, and perfectly fulfilling her religious duties.*

*Here, it is worth mentioning that the first one to believe in the message of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (may Allah be pleased with her).*

*Fatimah, the daughter of Allah’s Prophet, is the best of all women on earth (in all generations).*

*Moreover, many women have made great contributions to Islam and Islamic history has witnessed many of women’s honorable stances.*

*It is not permissible for the husband or any other person to treat women except in a good and kind manner. They cannot say to them anything but only good and kind words.*

*A husband who treats his wife in the manner stated in the question is contradicting Islamic teachings. Islam enjoins husbands to treat their wives kindly.*

*The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “Treat women nicely…” and “The best amongst you, are the best for their wives, and I am the best of you for my wives.”*

*The Prophet (peace be upon him) used to seek the counsel and advice of his wives, play with them, travel with them, listen to their opinions, and fulfill all their rights.*

*Here, we can review the well-known stance of Umm Salamah, the Mother of the Believers, when the Muslims concluded the Hudaybiyyah Peace Treaty with the polytheists of Makkah.*

*The Prophet (peace be upon him) ordered his Companions to slaughter their sacrificial animals, but they were too depressed to do that.*

*The Prophet (peace be upon him) gave instructions in this regard three times but with negative response. He told his wife Umm Salamah about this attitude of his Companions. She advised him to take the initiative, slaughter his animal and have his head shaved. Seeing that, the Muslims started to slaughter their animals and shave their heads. The advice of the Mother of the Believers in this situation was very good and highly appreciated.*

*A Muslim should treat his wife with extreme gentleness and love and seek her advice in all his affairs, as this enables one to lead a happy and well-organized life.*

*Almighty Allah says, “And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them in kindness…” (Al-Baqaraqh 2:228)*
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YADDA AKE RIKITA MAI GIDA


*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_YADDA AKE RIKITA MAIGIDA YAYIN KWANCIYA_*
ki makale maigida sosai yayin daya rungomoki tare da goga masa dukiyar kirjinki a kirjinsa zuwa saman fuskarsa sannan ki tura masa daya a bakinsa ki rufe masa bakin dashi yaddah zai kama ya dinga tsotsa kamar karamin yaro...

2) Hura masa kunne tare da zura masa harshenki a kunnansa kina yi masa wasa dashi...take maigida zai hau gantsarewa tare dayin nishin dadi...

3) Tsotsan kan nonansa a hankali tare da lailaya saman bananarsa da hannunki daya,kina wasa da ita kamar kina yi masa tafiyar tsutsa take zai fara kuka kuka ko gurnanin shidewa...

4) Lasar wuyansa zuwa habarsa da haka har ki dire bakinsa,ki rufe bakinki da nasa kiyi ta wasa da halshenki cikin bakinsa daya hannun kuma kin tallafo bayansa kina yi masa susa a keuarsa zuwa kasan wuyansa...sa mai gida tsalle kenan idan bakiyi sa'aba a hakama sai yayi releasing don dadi...

5) Dora mai gida akan kirjinki ki bashi nono yana tsotsa ta baya kuma ki dinga yi masa tafiyar tsutsu a kwarmin bayansa daganan ki dire har matse matsin duwawunsa...ba shakka mai gida in mai saurin kukane take zai fara yi miki kukan dadi...

6) Sallama masa kanki tare da cire komai na jikinki...ki bararraje sosai yayin daya fara kusantarki...hadi dayi masa 'yan koke koke da sumbatun dadi koda kuwa ba dadin kike jiba..1annan ma na kara narkar da maigida...yasa ya kara sallama miki kansa da komai nasa,bazaiji kyashin mallaka miki komai nasa ba, ki zama Star agurinsa ba tare da kinje gurin boka ko mallam ba.


Wabillahi Taufiq.

Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

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RAYUWAR AURE


*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_Rayuwar Aure_*
Akwai abubuwan da suke da matukar amfani wajen gyara zamantakewar kuma suna daga cikin abubuwan da rayuwa take bukata, wadannan abubuwan sune kamar haka:
1. Girki
2. Abinci
3. Tsafta
4. Zamantakewa
5. Kiwon Lafiya

Yar uwa ki sani kulawa da wadannan abubuwan yana sa mace ta samu rayuwar aure mai kyau domin kowane magidanci yana son ya ga matansa tana kulawa da wa'inan abubuwan.

*_Girki_*
Abinci ya zama dole a rayuwa, kulawa da shi yana gyara zamantakewa, rashin kulwa da shi kuma yana bata zamantakewa, dadin dadawa kuma Allah da ya haliccmu ya umarcemu da muci daga abubuwa masu dadi, Manzon Allah SAW ya tarbiyyantar damu a wurare da dama akan cin abinci, misalin hakan shine fadin Allah SWT:
“Yaku wadanda sukai imani kuci daga abubuwa masu dadi na abinda muka azurtaku dashi” (Baqara: 172)
Saboda haka ina fatan wannan taqaitaccen jawabi da zan gabatar zai zamarwa Uwargida ‘ci a hankali’ ko ‘ci ki qoshi kuma baki na marmari’ ko ‘hana mai gida fita’.



Wabillahi Taufiq.


Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

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WAYE MIJI?

Ina mai rokon matan Aure, Zaurawa , yanmata da duk wata mace da ta iya karatu ta Taimaka ta karanta har karshe dan kuwa zai Amfane ki.

WAYE MIJI* 

Salamu alaikum
Mata da yawa sun san ana cewa miji miji,kun san asalin kalmar?
Meyasa ake cemasa miji,does it make sense at all ace miji? Shi ba turanci ba ba larabci ba
The word miji ya samo asaline daga abinda hausawa ke cewa MIJIBINCIN LAMARI
Kunga ko daga sunan an nuna girmansa da kuma irin qimarsa
Miji komai lalacewar sa,komai talaucin sa,ko mai mugun halinsa sunansa mijinki indai da igiyar auransa a kanki
In har kina matsayin matarsa toh kuwa da haqqoqinsa akanki to dole sai kin sauke su,babu ruwan Allah da shi wane irin hali ne da shi me kyau ko mara kyau,in yana miki abinda bai dace ba wannan shi da Allah,amma ke fah dolen ki ki bishi kiyi masa biyayya a abinda bai sabawa Allah ba.
Kar ki yi gangancin cin zarafin mijinki ko yi masa maganganu marasa dadi dan wai shima yana yi miki,shi da yayi miki shi da Allah,ke kuma ladan hakurinkinna wurin Allah (me neman aljanna ina ruwansa da wani)
Ki cire a ranki cewa wai mutum kike wa biyayya,kisa a ranki Allah daya halicce ki shi kike yiwa,dan Allah ne yace kiyi aure kuma kibi mijinki shine hanyar aljannarki
Da yawa mata na making mistake wai suce su zasu qwatarwa kansu yanci da cin zarafin miji,da bijere masa da kin yi masa biyayya,to kin samu 'yanci kin rasa aljanna me kika yi kenan?
Ko kuma kaga mace tana cewa miji wai me ka ta bai mun? Toh wlh manzan Allah yace irin wannan matan ba zasu ji qanshin aljanna ba ma,haram ne mace tace miji ya sake ta ba tare da wani dalilie mai qarfi ba.
Babu wani dalili ko hujja da Allah zai karba daga wurinki duk randa kika tsaya a gabansa da laifin cin mutuncin miji,rashin biyayya,cin amanarsa da wulakanta shi
Miji yana da girman da sai da manzan Allah s.a.w yace da za'a umarci wani yayi wa wani sujjada toh da an umarci mace da tayi wa mijinta
Ku kalli fa,sujjadar da Allah kadai ake yiwa amma ace wai da za'a yi wa wani,ba'ace annabi ba,ba'a ce iyayenki ba,ba'a ce malaminki ba sai aka ce miji,kinga kuwa lallai ana so a nuna miki ne bayan Allah da manzonsa babu wanda ya chanchanci biyayyaa da total devotion irin mijinki
Mijinki yafi iyayenki,haka addinin musulunci yace,amma da an fada nasan zaka ga wasu suna kunfar baki,to ba haka mata masu ilimi suke ba
Daga randa akai miki aure iyayenki basu da wani katabus akanki sai abin da miji yace,girman da musulunci ya bawa miji ba kadan bane
Manzan Allah s.a.w yace da mace zata ringa yankar nononta tana gasawa tana bawa mijinta yana ci wlh da bata biyashi ba.
Kar ku ga ana ta zancen maza kullum basu da kirki basu da kaza basu da kaza,sunyi kaza sunyi kaza
Allah yana sane ya yi su a haka!
Ko an fada muku zaku samu aljanna a banza ne?
Hakurinku,da juriyarku Allah yake gwadawa,yana so yaga zaku yi masa biyayya akan abinda ya umarce ku
Amma mata basa ganewa,wata in ance tayiwa miji biyayya sai tace ay bashi da mutunci,yayi kaza yayi kaza
Wallahi duk hakurinki Allah yana kallo,kuma yana sane
Allah yace "inna ma yufassabireena ajreen bi ghairi hisaab"
Dukkan masu hakuri zasu shiga aljanna ba tare da hisabi ba
Me ya kai wannan dadi,ace duk zunubinki saboda kinyi hakuri zaki shiga aljanna bama tare da an bincika ki ba
Kuna shiga mala'i ku zasu tare ku suna muku oyoyo salamu alaikum bima sabartum,fani'ima uqbaddar!
Samun aljanna a bagas
In an mutu kenan ma
Kafin a mutu fah?
"Innallah ma'assabireen"
Allah yana tare da masu hakuri
Me ya kai wannan dadi,a cuce ki kiyi hakuri,wanda kika yi hakurin danshi kuma yace yana tare dake,in Allah yana tare dake yana kula da duk al'amuranki,yana cikin duk sha'aninki,yana kuma sane dake a komai
Me kike so bayan wannan
Allah yana sane da wanda zasu fara hakuri suce sun gaji,sai yace fasbir,kayi hakuri,sabaran jameela,hakuri kyakkyawa
Kunga kenan akwai hakurin da bai cika hakuri ba ko?
In kince hakurin ki ya qare kin dauki mataki toh me kenan kikayi? Wahalar da kikai a banza kenan ta tashi
Aljanna wani sai yayi yaqi an kashe shi zai samu,wani sai yayi shahada wani sai ya aiki na shekaru bila adadin,wani ma ba zai samu ba
Ke kuma sai aka ce miki aljanna tana qarqashin kafar mijinki
Da a ce miki je ki samo abu kaza a guri kaza da ace miki jeki samo kaza aduk inda zaki samu,it could be anywhere, kuma kafin ki dawo gida zai iya subucewa ya bata in har frm any where kika samo
Wanne zaki zaba? Ko wa zai ce zai je ya nemo a wurin da aka fada,komai wahalar daukar kuwa,tunda in ka dauka ka dauka kenan
Its not easy,Aljanna kike nema bayin allah suna zuwa suyi bautar shekara saba'in dan aljannar
Ke kuma fah?
In mijinki ya bata miki rai sai ki kalli ni'imar da allah yayi miki ta hanyar aure kafin ki fara nadamar aure,dan nadamar da yin wani hargagi ki wasu abubuwa da basu da ce ba yiwa Allah butulci ne
Komai ya same ki me dadi ko mara dadi ki godewa Allah
La'in shakartum la'azidanna kum,wa la in kafartum fa inna azabiy la shadeed
In kuka gode Min sai na qaramuku (ni'ima) in kuma kuka bijiremin/kafircemin(kuka qi gode min,kuka raina abunda nai muku)
Toh azabata me tsanani ce
Azabar Allah kika zaba ko biyayyar miji?
In kika duba ni'imar da rufun asirin da aure ya miki,tun daga ranar da aka daura aure an maida ke fa sabuwa kamar yau aka haife ki,an yaye miki zunubanki na baya da kika yi,saboda darajar aure
Kuma ko me kika yi a gidannan ladane,kiyi kwalliya lada,kiyi shara lada,kiyi girki lada,komai kika yi lada ne duk da amfanin kanki ne,in yaranki kike kula dasu lada ne
Allah yana sonmu yana so mu rabauta,komai ya tsara mana don dai mu tsira muji dadi
Amma me? Mata wlh sun bijirewa Allah ku fada min meyasa mata baza mufi yawa a wuta ba?
Komai Allah yayi manah mun bi son rai da zuciya mun watsar
Da kiyi sallah fah a masallaci gara kiyi sallah a dakinkin in akwai chan lungu a dakinma to yafi miki da kije wani wuri kiyi
Wai a nuna miki Allah ma yafi so ki bauta masa a cikin dakinki,dan ba inda yakai miki wannan dakin daraja.
Musulunci ya gatan ta mu,amma kuna bari maza muna bari maza suna mana wayo,suna mana rashin kirki muna ramawa muna biye musu,toh wlh biyu babu ne result din,kin zubar da kai a wurin miji kuma kije lahira kiji jiki,wa gari ya waya?
Rayuwar dai duk aljanna ake yi wa,ya zakai ka tsira? Dan nan dai ba shine madawwama ba,chan din shine gaskiya,to yaya zakiyi achan din ki samu guri me kyau? Abunda zaki kalla kenan
Kawai komai muyi tsakani da Allah,ba'a ce komai ki zauna a cuceki ba amma,there is a peacefull way to do everything
In kuma an cuceki din ko da kuwa ajalinki hakan yayi,baki fadi ba wlh
In kayi komai dan Allah wlh ko baka ga amfaninsa ba anan to ka jira babban rabo
Innallah la yukhliful mi'ad! Allah baya karya alqawari.
Tunda Yace zai yi zai yi,bazai barki ba.
Kar kice wai kina ta wahala amma shuru,kowa akwai irin yanda Allah ya tsara masa rayuwa,wasu anan zasu ji dadi,wasu achan,wasu kuma duka nan da chan din,kuma you can not question God yana da dalilin da yasa yayi hakan.
Mu tsaida imani,biyayyar miji acikin biyayyar Allah take,in kika ci mutuncin miji kema kin san wa kika yi wa
Dan idan babanki ya kawo me gadi yace ki bishi,ki yi mai biyayya in kin wulakanta me gadin nan hakan na nuna raina babanki kika yi kuma kin nuna bai isa ba
To uba ma kenan balle Allah da baza iya kwatanta shi da wannan abubuwan ba
Mu kiyaye iyakokin Allah! Dan wlh Allah abin tsoro ne ko ba dan wutarsa ba, Allah tun a duniya ba yadda ba zai yi da mutum ba.na tabbatar kowa tana da misalai.
Anan zamu tsaya Allah ya kaimu wani satin sai mu daura daga nan,har yanzu akan girman mijin fah muke,yet bamu ce komai ba..................




🖋📚Bilqeeau Abdullahi Al'ameen(mar'atussaliha)

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JAWO HANKALIN MAI GIDA


*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_DON JAWO HANKALI MAIGIDANKI_*

Zaki nemi wadannan abubuwan kamar haka;
= Madarar ruwa.
= Ayaba.
= Garin dabino 
= Garin aya.
*Bayani;* idan kika sami madara ta ruwa gwangwani daya, sai ki sami ayabarki kamar manya guda biyu ,sai ki yanyanka ta kananan a cikin madara ruwan , wacce kika sami kofinki kika juye, sannan sai ki kawo garin dabinonki cikin karamin cokali sai ki zuba a hadin madararki, sannan sai ki kawo garin ayarki shima sai ki hada ki gauraya shi sai ki shanye.


Wabillahi Taufiq.

Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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Ku je ku koyi ilimin aure kafin ku yi aure


*KUJE KU KOYI ILIMIN AURE KAFIN KUYI AURE👩‍❤️‍👨*

_(Wannan sakon yanada muhimmanci ga duk wanda ya faɗa a wayarsa ya karanta, kuma ya yadata don a samu a taimaka ilimi ya bunkasa)._
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*DAGA ZAUREN*
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مجلس السنة
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Yau 26/ 11/ 1441 wanda yayi dai-dai da 17/ 07/ 2020.
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_Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah, muna gode masa, muna neman taimakonsa, kuma muna neman tsarinsa daga sharrin kawunanmu da munanan ayyuakanmu. Hakika Wanda Allah ya shiryar Babu Mai 6atar dashi, Wanda ya 6atar Kuma Babu mai shiryar dashi. Kuma Ina Shaidawa babu abinda bautawa da Gaskiya sai Allah shi kadai, kuma ba shi da abokin tarayya. Kuma Ina Shaidawa Muhammad bawansa ne Kuma manzonsa ne._

_Bayan haka, jama'a wannan takaitaccen bayani ne ko kuma ince shawarwari ne da zan bayar ga masu neman aure. Domin ganin yadda za a magance rigimgimu da matsaloli akan aure da kuma karin aure. Babu shakka ana samu matsaloli da dama wanda mafi yawan wannan matsalolin rashin ilimin auren ne yake jawowa, musamman mazan mu na yanzu da basuda wannan ilimin, domin idan namiji yanada ilimin zamantakewar aure tho za a samu zaman lafiya, amma idan mace ce take da ilimin zamantakewar aure, alhalin shi namijin bashi da ilimin, tho fah babu zaman lafiya, domin shi namijin shine jagora. Amma samun cikakken zaman lafiya kuwa shine duk ku kasance masu ilimin zamantakewa. Ina fatar an fahimta??_

_Inaso wannan lekcar ku yadata yadda za a samu mutanen da za a hadu a taimaka ilimi ta bunkasa ta fannoni dayawa, a kafa makarantu na certificate, yadda duk wanda yake da niyyar yin aure, tho sai yaje wannan makarantar an koyar dashi ilimin zamantakewar aure, idan ya kammala karatun, tho sai a bashi certificate na tabbatar da cewa yanada ilimin zamantakewar aure. Hakama yar uwa kema sai kinje kin karanci ilimin zamantakewar aure, yadda idan kin kammala za a baki certificate na tabbatar da cewa kinada ilimin zamantakewar aure. Na rantse da Allah ina mai tabbatar muku cewa idan akayi haka, tho shikenan an kawo karshen rigimgimu da matsaloli a zamantakewar aure, saboda dukkaninsu sunsan hakkokin dake kansu, kuma dukkaninsu sun samu ilimin hakuri da juna. Tho kunga kenan an kashe hanyoyin da za a dinga samun matsaloli kenan ko? Wannan shawara ce na bayar kyauta, saboda haka wadanda suke da hali su dubi wannan da kyau, ku bada gudummawa ilimi ya bunkasa a kasar nan tamu ta Nigeria. Ya zama duk sadda kaje neman aure, tho bayan an tabbatar halayyarka Masha Allah, tho abu nagaba shine ina certificate dinka? Idan bakada certificate, tho shikenan sai kaje ka koya kuma ka iya sannan za a baka, wallahi tuni za a magance wadannan matsalolim da ake samu a zamantakewar yanzu._

_Tsakani da Allah kai me karatu da zakayi aure kasan hikimomin yin auren? Kasan hakkokin dake kanka kafin kayi auren? Kasan abinda shari'a ta tanadar ga masu aure? Hakama yar uwa kema kinsani?_ 

_Tho bakusani ba amma kuka sa rai za a samu zaman lafiya? Jama'a zaman lafiya bazai yiwu ba idan ba a san hakkokin juna ba, dolene ya zamana kunada ilimin zamantakewar aure, tho anan ne za ayi rayuwar aminci da soyayya. Saboda haka ina bada shawara ga gwamnati da masu hali da wadanda suke da rufin asiri su hadu su taimaka su bunkasa ilimin zamantakewar aure, su taimaka su bada gudummawa a kafa makarantaku, a kafa kungiyoyi a online wanda za a dinga karantar da yan uwanmu maza da mata wannan ilimin ta zamantakewar aure, a kafa kungiyoyin mata daban, kungiyoyin maza daban a kafafen sadarwa da makarantu. Jama'a mu taimaka mu raya sunnar Manzon Allah s.a.w, mai bada filin ginin makaranta ya bayar, mai siyan blow ya siya, mai bada kudi ya bayar, duk a hadu a taimakawa jama'a a fidda su daga jahilci zuwa haske, wannan aikin shima yana daga cikin *SADAKATUL JARIYAH* wato sadaka mai gudana. Ku tuna fah akwai lokacin da zai zo wanda zaka tsinci kanka/ki a kabari, wanda a wannan lokacin dukkanin ayyukanka sun yanke sai aikin da kayi me gudanarwa wato *SADAKATUL JARIYAH*. Tho saboda haka mu hadu mu raya sunnar Manzon Allah s.a.w mu yaki jahilci, domin zaman jahilci wasu sukeyi a zamantakewa. Gwamnati taji wannan da kyau, tunda gwamnati tana iya bada gudummawa wajan gina gidajen kallo da gidajen wasa, tho muna kira ga gwamnati Dan Allah ta gina mana makarantu, ta bunkasa ilimi._

_Jama'a wasun mu na wasa da addininmu basu dauki addini da muhimmanci ba kamar yadda suka dauki neman duniya da muhimmanci. Duk sadda mutum zai siya mota tho sai yaje ya fara koya tukun sannan zai siya, ko kuma ya siya din ya ba wani ya koyamasa. Hakama duk sadda zaka fara business, tho sai kaje gurin wadanda suka san harkar su koya maka sannan zaka fara business din. Amma saboda ba a dauki addini da muhimmanci ba duk sadda mutum ya tashi neman aure, tho bazai je ya koyi ilimin zamantakewar aure ba, kawai indai yana da abin duniya shikenan ba abinda ya dameshi, ko ba haka bane? Shiyasa zakaga matanmu sun nace lallai-lallai sai mai kudi sai mai mota. Tsakani da Allah inda ace sunada ilimin zamantakewar auren zasu fadi haka? Amma na rantse da Allah inda sunada ilimin zamantakewar aure, tho wallahi ko mijin bashida ko sisi, sai ta yadda ta aureshi indai yanada hali me kyau, domin tasan irin daraja da lada mai yawan da zata dinga samu. Amma rashin ilimin ne yasa suka nace lallai-lallai sai mai kudi. Acikin 'ya'yan masu kudi kashi 85% acikinsu bazasu iya auri wadanda basuda babban gida da mota ba, saboda ta saba shiga mota, nan da nan idan zata a gidansu, tho da mota ake kayita, tho yaushe zaka aureta bakada machine? Yarinya ta saba da cin abu mai dadi iri-iri, kai kuma ka saba cin taliya me man gyada, tho wane zaman lafiya zaka samu da ita? Amma inda ace sunada ilimin zamantakewar aure, tho bazasu dubi abun duniya ba, falalar dake cikin zamantakewar auren zasu duba._

_Jama'a akwai bukatuwar a taimaka ilimi ya bunkasa a kasar nan tamu, abin mamaki zaka samu mace ta kware wajan iya soyayya da iya romantic love, amma idan ka aureta, tho sai ka nemi wannan romantic din ka rasa. Nasan yanzu mata zasu fara cewa ai maza ne suke haka ko? Tho kusani shi namiji idan yana son abu, tho duk hanyar da zai bi yaga ya samu wannan abin tho zaiyi, saboda haka kada kuyi mamaki idan kin rasa soyayyar da yake nuna miki kafin aure domin haka wasu mazan suke, zasuyi ta nuna miki soyayya amma da zarar anyi auren sai a nemi soyayar a rasa. Kuma abin takaici idan yaci sa'a ya samu mace wacce ta iya romantic love sai ya dinga wani kaf-kaf da kai kamar gaja ko wawa, shi gashi bai iya romantic love ba, amma ya samu wacce ta iya romantic love, amma baya jindadi. Kunga wannan matsala ne babba. Saboda haka jama'a kuje ku nemi ilimi. Kuna ganin yadda arna suke rayuwar su ta zamantakewar aure, idan mijin zai tafi office, tho matarsa sai ta rakashi bakin gate sannan ya sumbaceta kafin ya tafi, amma kai gaja ka kasa, amma sadda baka aureta ba ka cika ta maganganun karya da munafunci._

_Saboda haka Dan Allah jama'a mu taimaka mu raya sunnar Manzon Allah s.a.w, mu kafa makarantu mu kafa kungiyoyi a kafafen sadarwa. Allah Ubangiji yasa wannan sakon ya isa gun wadanda suke da ikon taimakawa jama'a, wadanda suke da ikon kafa makarantu da kafa kungiyoyin da za a dinga karantar da yan uwanmu a online. Allah Ubangiji ya taimake mu, ya bamu ikon taimakawa yayi mana albarka, yasa mudace._
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_Dan uwanku a musulunci_
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*_✍Abdulrasheed Ibn Musa Abms_*
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Allah ta'ala yasa mudace
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ﺳﺒﺤﺎﻧﻚ ﺍﻟﻠﻬﻢ ﻭﺑﺤﻤﺪﻙ, ﺃﺷﻬﺪ ﺃﻥ ﻻ ﺇﻟﻪ ﺇﻻ ﺃﻧﺖ، ﺃﺳﺘﻐﻔﺮﻙ ﻭﺃﺗﻮﺏ ﺇﻟﻴﻚ.
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HANYOYIN KYAUTATA ZAMANTAKEWAR AURE

*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_Hanyoyin Kyautata Zamantakewar Aure Ga Maigida_*

*1 and 2:*  Hakika su mata suna son tausaswa da ja ajiki kuma suna son a dinga cewa ana sonsu ana kaunarsu. Don haka kada ka dinga yi musu rowar fadar haka, idan kuwa ka yi rowar to ka sanya hijabi tsakaninka da ita na samun Karancin soyayya da kauna.

*3:* Ka sani cewa su mata ba sa son mutum mai tsanani mai mugun takurawa, idan ka fahimce su, suna yiwa mutum rarrauna hidima. Don haka kowacce sifa ka ajiye ta a gurin data dace domin hakan shi zai fi jawo kauna da nutsuwa a tsakaninku.

*4:* Hakika su ma mata suna son irin abinda namiji ya ke so daga gurin mace, kamar daddadan kanshi, magana mai dadi, kyak-kyawar Shiga, tashin kanshi da dai sauransu. To don haka ka sifantu da dukkan wadannan halaye a dukkan yanayinka

*5:* Ka sani cewa Gida wata masarauta ce ta mace wadda take jin cikakken iko a cikinta kuma take jin cewa itace shugaba a cikinsa. To ina Jan kunnenka da Kada ka kuskura ka rusa wannan masarauta, kana mai Nuna mata cewa ita ba kowa bace ko kuma gidanka ne sai yadda ka so sai abinda ka so, idan kayi haka to ka tumbuke ta daga kan sarautarta, kuma mai mulki bashi da wani abokin gaba a Duniya fiye da Wanda ya sauke shi daga kan mulkinsa

*6:* Dukkan mace tana son ta yiwa mijinta hidima amma kuma bata son ta rabu da 'Yan uwanta, to kada kayi kokarin raba ta da danginta ta hanyar bats zabin ko kai ko danginta, domin idan ta Zabe ka akan danginta to babu shakka zaka dawwama cikin bakin ciki da Bacin rai da za ka dinga samu daga gare su

*_NA BAKWAI:_* Hakika ita mace an halicce ta ne daga kashin hakarkarin namiji karkatacce, wannan kuma ba aibu bane a gareta shi ne ma kuma sirrin kyawunta da kuma Jan hankali.

Wabillahi Taufiq.


Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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YADDA ZA KA KYAUTATAWA MATARKA


*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_Hikimomi Da Dabarun Da Maigida Zai Bi Ya Kyautata Wa Matarsa_*

Babu macen da ba ta son mijinta ya rika ji da ita, yana nuna mata soyayya da girmamawa. Yin haka na kara wa mace jin ta fi kowace mace ko jin ta a saman duniya, sannan duk yarintar mace ko tsufanta tana son mijinta ya rika daukarta a matsayin ’yar karamar yarinya, wadda na taba bayani a kan hakan. Ma’ana ya rika kula da ita kamar yadda zai kula da karamar yarinya, ya rika tunawa da kuruciyarta da ya sani a da kafin ya aure ta.

Saboda haka idan ba ka yin haka, to daga yau ka fara, don matarka ta rika jin ita ma ta kai mace, ta samu farin ciki da jin dadin zaman aure. Na tabbata yin hakan na bayar da kwanciyar hankali a cikin gida, sannan yana kara dankon soyayya sosai.

Ka rika kula da irin sabon kayan da take sa wa ko wani sabon abu da ta canja, kamar yin kitso, kunshi da kwalliya sai ka yaba da nuna burgewa a tare da kai. Duk wani sabon canji da ka gani yana da kyau ka san da shi, idan na yabawa ne, ka yaba, idan kuma na magana ne ka yi. Wannan shi ne zai kara tabbatar mata da cewa kana damuwa da ita.

Kalmar yarinta kada ta rabu da bakinka, kamar Bebita, ka rika sa wa tana jin a kullum ita ’yar karamar yarinya ce a wurinka. Wani lokacin ma ka kira ta da sunan da ka san babanta ko babarta suke kiran ta da shi a lokacin da take karamar yarinya, sannan ka fada mata kalaman yabawa masu dadi da cewa tana da kyan tsari.

Sai kira in ka fita ofis, ka kira matarka duk lokacin da ka kai ofis. Sai ka fada mata cewa: “Na kira ne don in tabbatar da jin lafiyarki.” Yin hakan na sa ta san cewa tana da muhimmancin gaske a wurinka sosai.

Wata rana ka ba ta hutun shiga kicin, kamar ranar da babu aiki, sai ka shiga ka dafa abincin da za ku ci ko in ba zai yiwu ba sai ka fitar da iyalinka wani wurin birgewar da za su dade suna tunawa. Zuwa sayayya tare ko zuwa wurin hutu da shakatawa, ka rika kulawa da ita kamar kwanan nan ka hadu da ita, wato kamar wata sabuwar budurwarka.

Kulawa ta musamman, idan tana son yin magana da kai, ka juya ka saurare ta da kyau. In kana karatun jarida ko kallon talabijin sai ka rufe. Haka in an bugo waya kuna cikin tattaunawa, kar ka dauka ko kuma ka kashe kafin ku fara tattaunawa. Ka saurare ta da kunnen basira kamar yadda kake yi da in ka je zance. Sannan ka rika nuna alamun kana ji da kyau ta alamun gyada kai, murmishi ko amsawa. Sauraren abin da mace ta fada na daya daga cikin abin da ke sa wa ta kara girmama ka.

Ka matso da ita kusa da kai balle ma lokacin da ka san ta tara gajiya ko lokacin da take fushi ko take cikin bacin rai, kwantar da ita a kirjinka na iya sa wa ta dan huce ko ta samu sauki. Ka sanya ta ji kamar ’yar yarinya karama a kirjinka. Ka bar ta har ta yi barci daga nan ne za ka gane irin baiwar da Allah Ya yi mata da kyanta da kai kanka baiwar da Allah Ya ba ka.

Zama a gida ranar da babu aiki don kawai ka kasance tare da ita, sannan ta san kana tare da ita ne ba don kamai ba sai dan kana son ka zauna da ita. Ka yi hira, wasanni, maganganun da za su sa ta ji dadin wannan kasancewar da ka yi da ita, tun da na sha ganin matan da ba su son mijinsu yana gida sai in lokacin da zai yi barci.

Yana da kyau wata rana ma ka kulle ta a daki, don kar yara su dame ta sannan kar ka bar su su shiga har na kamar tsawon awa shida, kawai don kana son ta yi barci ta huta. Sai kai ka kula da yara na dan wannan lokacin, ka fahimtar da su cewa innarsu na bukatar hutu, bari ita ma ta dan ji dadin rayuwarta. 

Sai ka yi girki ka kai mata daki ta ci gaba da hutawarta, babu abin da yake sa a ji dadin soyayya face irin wadannan abubuwan. Na san wani zai ce shi yaushe yake da lokacin hakan, ko ya ce in ya yi haka ai ya bayar da kansa ga matarsa, za ta raina shi. Wallahi babu maganar raini, tun da wanda aka yi duniyar ma dominsa na tabbata kowa ya sami labarin irin was an da yake da iyalinsa. Saboda haka ka zama miji nagari.

Ka matso da ita kusa da kai balle ma lokacin da ka san ta tara gajiya ko lokacin da take fushi ko take cikin bacin rai, kwantar da ita a kirjinka na iya sa wa ta dan huce ko ta samu sauki.

Wabillahi Taufiq.


Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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WASU DAGA HANYOYIN MALLAKE MIJI


*SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI*

*_Wasu Daga Hanyoyin Mallake Miji_*

1- ki zama mai tsaftar jikinki, gidanki, abincinki, da sauransu.

2 - Ki dinga girmama Iyayan mijinki da ‘yan uwansa da abokansa.

3 - Kada ki zama mai satar kayan mijinki.

4 - Kada ki zama mai satar fita unguwa.

5 - Ki guji Leke a gidan mijinki, dan yana daga cikin abinda yake raba Aure a tsakanin Hausawa.

6 - Ki dinga godewa mijinki a cikin abinda ya baki.

7 - ki kiyaye abinda mijinki ya fi so.

8 - ki kiyaye abinda mijinki ya fi sonci da safe, rana, dakuma dare.

9 - Ki dinga yabawa mijinki kwalliyarsa.

10 - Ki dinga yawan neman shawarar mijinki akan duk wani al’amari da zaki yi.

11 - Ki yi kwalliya ki tsane tsaf kafin dawowar mijinki.

12 - Ki dinga sanya turaren wuta a dakinki, kuma ki kasance mai sanya turare a jikinki a duk lokacin kwanciya.

13 - Lallai ki yi kokarin gama aikace-aikacenki kafin dawowar mijinki.

14 - Kada ki bari mijinki ya dawo ya sameki gaja-gaja, ki sani kazanta tana haifar da kiyayya.

15 - Ki zama mai yawan canza zanen kunshin kafarki da kuma zanen kitso.

16 - Kada ki ce mijinki sai ya saya miki abinda ba shida ikon saye.

17 - Lallai ki yi amfani da ilimi wajen yanke dukkan wani hukunci.

18 - Ki yi shiru a duk lokacin da mijinki yake yi miki fada ko Nasiha.

19 - Kada ki zama Al-mubazzara mara tattali.

20 - Kada ki tara kayan wanki da yawa a daki, naki ko na mijinki suna wari.

21 - Ki tanadi kayan kwalliyar gida bayan na zuwa unguwa.

22 - Ki kula da yanayin da zai nuna miki cewa mijinki yana cikin Nishadi ko Damuwa.

23 - Kada ki ringa baiwa kawayanki labarin sirrin dake tsakaninki da mijinki.

Wabillahi Taufiq.

Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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*_Wasanni Motsa Sha'awa Ga Ma'aurata Yayin Saduwar Aure_*

Wasu mazan sam basu da al'adar motsawa matansu sha'awarsu ta jima'i ta hanyar wasannin motsa sha'awa, yadda zai sa mace sha'awarta ya matsa sosai ta kuma ji ta kamu da bukatar mijinta.

Mata da dama suna kokawa ta yadda mazansu da sun tashi gudanar da jima'i dasu sai dai kawai su musu hawan kawara ba tare da motsa musu sha'awa ba, wanda hakan yasa mata da suke fuskantar irin wannan matsalar suke tsantar yin jima'i a lokuta da dama. Mata suna sha'awar ayi musu wasanni da dama kamin a soma gudanar da jima'i dasu, wanda wannan ne zai sa kowa daga cikin ma'auratan ya samu gamsuwa da dan uwansa.

Zama dole mazaje su dabi'antu da wannan wasannin don gyara zamantakewar aure.

Wasanni kafin saduwa yana sa saduwa ta kara inganci kuma suji suna kara shakuwa da juna.

Wabillahi Taufiq.


Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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NAU'O'IN GWAJE-GWAJEN LAFIYA KAFIN AURE


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*_NAU’O’IN GWAJE-GWAJEN LAFIYA KAFIN AURE_*

Masana sun bayyana cewa ana yin gwaje-gwajen lafiya ne kafin aure a kan nau’o’in cututtuka guda biyar:
1. Gwaji don tabbatar da ku6uta daga cututtukan da ke qetare mai shi zuwa waninsa a dalilin mu’amala ta jima’i (Sexually Transmittable Diseases – STDs), kamar:
HIV,
Hepatitis B,
Hepatitis C,
Gonorrhoea,
Syphilis.

2. Gwaji game da rukunin kwayoyin halitta (genes) don sanin Genotype din masu niyyar yin aure a matsayin “AA”, “AS”, ko “SS” don tabbatar da ku6uta daga cututtukan da ke bin hanyoyin jini wajen yin naso da shafar abokin zama ko ‘ya‘yan da za a haifa kamar cutar Anaemia (sickle cell disease).

3. Gwaji don gane rukunin jini: ‘A’, ‘B’, ‘0’ ko ‘AB’, da danginsa na Rhesus factor (positive, ‘+’ ko negative, ‘-‘). Kasancewar bincike ya nuna cewa macen da ke qarqashin dangin jini na Negative idan ta aure wanda ke qarqashin Positive, tana iya fuskantar hatsarin yawan zubewar ciki ko mutuwar dan da ke cikin mahaifa (intrauterine death). Gudanar da irin wannan gwajin na da muhimmanci.

4. Gwaji don tabbatar da rashin aibobin da ke sa a kai ga raba aure a tsakanin miji da mata, kamar cututtukan da ke iya jawo rashin haihuwa, da kuturta, da wasu nau’o’in cutar daji (cancer) masu hatsari, da cutar qoda.
5. Gwaji game da cututtukan da a ke gado, wadanda aka ce a yanzu adadinsu ya kai 8000. Irin wadannan cututtuka sun hada da ciwon hauka, da ciwon ido da ‘ya‘ya ke iya gado daga iyaye kamar glaucoma.


Wabillahi Taufiq.


Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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YADDA AKE HAƊIN MA'AURATA

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*_Yadda Ake Hadin Ma'aurata_*

Yar uwa wannan hadi ne zai taimaka muku yakamata ace kuna hada irin wannan hadin akai akai don nishadantar da junanku.

Yar uwa idan zaki hada wannan hadin zaki nemi kayan hadi kamar haka;

* Madara peak
* Jan Apple
* Zuma
*Bayani;* Zaki bare apple din sai ki cire kollon cikin apple din sai ki yanka kanana kanana, sai ki markada sai ki samu abu ki zuba a ciki sai ki dauko madararki da zuma sai ki zuba sai ki ta juyawa har ya hade sai ki dunga sha lokaci lokaci, in sha Allah zaki ga yadda zai muku aiki kuma hadin mata da mijine kowa nasha, anaso ku sha na tsawon kwanaki biyar zuwa sati daya.


Wabillahi Taufiq.


Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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YADDA AKE HAƊIN BISKIT

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*_Yadda Ake Hadin Bisikit_*

Wannan hadin mace da namiji duk suna iya amfani da shi domin karin ruwan gaba da sha'awa batare da gajiyarwaba.

Zaki nemi wadannan abubuwan kamar haka;
* Bisikit mai ya'ya 
* Madara ko nono
* Farin garin alabo
* Aya manya 
* Gyada 
* Alewar mata
* Garin dabino
*Bayani:* Zaki soya ayarki sam-sam, sai ki gyara gyada ki cire mata bawon sai ki hade su guri guda tare da sauran kayan hadin ki dake su, ko ki nika, sai ki rinka diba kina ko kana sh da madara ko nono. Da yardan Allah zaki bada labari.

Wabillahi Taufiq.

Rubutawa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*

Gabatarwa: *Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)*


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KALAMAI MASU DAƊI GA MIJI

SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI

Kalamai Masu Dadi Ga Miji

Yakamata ace mace tasan irin kalaman da zata rika furtawa a lokacin da take magana da mai gida.

Mata da yawa awajen iya magana da miji anbarsu abaya tayanda zakaga mace kafin ta auri miji ana soyayya sosai ko waya zatayi dashi saita nutsu bazata sake tayi shirmeba amma da zaran anyi aure an dan samu watanni sai kaga yanda zatayi magana da yayanta ko kaninta haka zatayiwa miji wanda azahirin gaskiya ba haka akeba ya kamata ya zama miji zance dashi na musamman ne kalamanki su zama na daban sautinki kasa kasa babu musu dashi ballantana ki karyatashi to baki iya zanceba tayaya zai zauna yayi hira dake?

Wabillahi Taufiq.

Rubutawa: Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)

Gabatarwa: Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)

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KALAMAI MASU DAƊI GA MIJI

SIRRIN MALLAKAN MIJINKI

Kalamai Masu Dadi Ga Miji

Yakamata ace mace tasan irin kalaman da zata rika furtawa a lokacin da take magana da mai gida.

Mata da yawa awajen iya magana da miji anbarsu abaya tayanda zakaga mace kafin ta auri miji ana soyayya sosai ko waya zatayi dashi saita nutsu bazata sake tayi shirmeba amma da zaran anyi aure an dan samu watanni sai kaga yanda zatayi magana da yayanta ko kaninta haka zatayiwa miji wanda azahirin gaskiya ba haka akeba ya kamata ya zama miji zance dashi na musamman ne kalamanki su zama na daban sautinki kasa kasa babu musu dashi ballantana ki karyatashi to baki iya zanceba tayaya zai zauna yayi hira dake?

Wabillahi Taufiq.

Rubutawa: Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)

Gabatarwa: Abu Imam (Auwal Abdullahi)

 Zauren Macen Kwarai

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