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Wednesday, 23 January 2019

39 Ancient Wisdom Tips For Singles And Married

​39 ANCIENT WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED​


1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime .
2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
3. Silence can never be misquoted.
4. If you want what no one has had, you must do what no one has done.
5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.
6. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.
7. Avoid a contentious woman.
8. 3 men to avoid:
              a. A hot tempered man.
              b. A womanizer.
              c. A drunkard.
9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
10. Never be yoked to anyone who will not be yoked to God.
11. 3 words that echo peace in a marriage:
            a. I love you .
            b. I am sorry .
            c. Thank you.
12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.
13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure .
14. Deal with anti-marriage dreams.
15. Masturbation is destruction.
16. ​Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.​
17. ​If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who​ ​will bury your destiny.​
18. ​A successful marriage is always a triangle : God, a man and a woman.​
19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.
20. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.
21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.
22. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a woman:
              a. Fear of God.
              b. Wisdom.
              c. Discretion (beauty is vanity).
24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show her love excessively - as a rule, women don't run away from where they're pampered.
25. ​Love is not blind;​
​infatuation and lust are blind.​
26. Love puts God first,
lust puts sex first.
27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if it is absent, God is not there.
28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
30. Desperation leads to frustration.
31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
32. ​Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.​
33. ​It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.​
34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.
35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
36. It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing in God to be single.
37. A broken courtship is better than a trailer marriage.
38. Do not marry money or property, marry a person.
39. Be presentable.

​REMEMBER, THE WORST PLACE AFTER HELL FIRE IS BAD MARRIAGE. THEREFORE, WATCH, THINK AND PRAY BEFORE GOING INTO IT.​

Do well to forward it to the single and married individuals on your contact list.

Matar Ka

Matarka

Idan tayi fushi jawota jikinka ka rarrasheta. Mata suna son rarrashi

Idan kaga tayi shiru tambayeta meye matsalarta cikin murya mai sanyi bawai da fada ba. al'adan mace ne ko anyi mata abu sai tace ba komai sbd ita komai sai tasa shagwaba kuma tana son mai rarrashinta

Idan tayi kwalliya ka yabawa kwalliyarta
Idan tayi girki kaci kana santi koda dadinsa baikai ayi santi ba.

Idan kukayi kwanciyar aure da ita ka nuna mata qololuwar jindadinka da ita haka kuma da rana ka dauko zance kana zuzuta ta kana yabawa da irin niimarta wannan shi zaisa ta qara qaimi wurin kula da kanta.

Kana yabon kyawawan halinta kuma kana tausayawa mata da yimata uzuri idan tayi ba daidai ba.


Duk sanda ka samu lokaci kana shiga kitchen kana tayata ayyukan gida ko ba yawa ne. mata suna son su gansu tareda mazajensu suna tayasu aiki kai koda zuwa kawai kayi ka zauna bakayi komai ba zataji dadi a ranka.

Idan tace zata matsa daga kusa da kai riqeta kace baka yarda ba

Idan kaga tana kuka sa bakinka ka tsotse hawayenta

Idan kaga tana kishinka kyaleta kar ka kyareta. So kesa ayi kishi wanda baya sonka bazaiyi kishinki ba.

Idan bata da lafiya ka fita damuwa da halin da take ciki.

Idan kayimata laifi ka nuna rashin jin dadinka da hakan kuma ka bata hakuri.

Duk sanda zaka fita ka sumbace ta agoshinta

Kana kasuwa ko office kirata ta waya kace kana kewarta.

Kada kalmar (ina sonki ta dinga yiwa harshenka nisa)


   Maza ku gane wani abu ba ci da sha da sutura ne kawai zakayi ka burge mace ba . Wata zakaga ba abinda ta rasa na nau'in jin dadi amma tana cike da damuwa me yasa? Saboda ta rasa abubuwanda na lissafo a sama. Wlh akwai wanda sunfi shekara nawa suna samun matsala da iyalinsa sai kaji yana tutiyar bai rageta da ci ko sha ba sutura ma yanayi kawai halinta ne. Ba halinta bane ta rasa muhimman abubuwane a rayuwarta. Sau da yawa anbar mazan hausawa a baya wurin kula da matansu kuma sune mafi dacewa da su kula da matansu idan mukayi duba da yanda Manzo SAW yake tafiyar da ryuwan iyalinsa. Mata basa buqatar wasu muhimman abubuwa domin samun farin ciki. Wallahi da duk namiji zai yi kokari yayi aiki da abubuwan nan dana lissafo to tabbas zaiga canji harma yasamin albarka.

  A turawa yan uwa maza domin suma su qaru su gyara mu'amalansu da matansu. Allah yasa mu dace ameen.

Sunday, 20 January 2019

GASKIYAR ZANCE 02

*GASKIYAR ZANCE 002 👌*


Cikin daruruwa da dubunnan matan da ake da su a gari, ga su nan birjik iya ganinka, mai yiyuwa ma a gidansu akwai 'yan mata wadanda babu abin da kika fi su, ga classmates dinshi nan birjik wadanda suka yi karatu tare, amma duk da haka ya ketare wadannan matan ya za6o ki domin ki zamo abokiyar rayuwarsa, ya yarda ki zamo uwar 'ya'yansa, ya aje ki a gidansa be gudun ki san dukkan sirrinsa, ya ke fita cikin rana ya yi zufa don ya nemo abin da za ku ci, duk wata fafutuka domin ki ne. To don me ba za ki kasance mai biyayya a gare shi ba.


Mijinki shi ne komai naki, ki kasance mai hakuri da gazawarsa, abin da ya kawo ki amsa ki yi godiya tare da yi masa addu'a da fatan alkhairi, kada ki bai wa kowa damar shiga gidansa sai da izininsa, ki san dukkan abin da yake so, sannan ki san abubuwan da ba ya so don ki kiyaye. Mijinki yana da girman hakki a wajenki fiye da kowa, don haka ki yi kokari ki samu aljannarki ta sanadiyarsa.


Mijinki aljannarki 'yar uwa! Ki nemi ilimin rike abinki, kada ki bari wasu can a waje su rude shi. Sannan ki dinga bibiyan yadda matan Annabi (ﷺ) suka mu'amalance shi.
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Ya Allah Ka hada mu da mata nagari 👏🏼



*✍🏿Ayyub Musa Giwa.*
*(Abul Husnain).*


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GASKIYAR ZANCE 01

*GASKIYAR ZANCE 👌*


Zaune take a gidan iyayenta cikin walwala, lumana da kwanciyar hankali, ba rashin ci babu rashin sha, ba rashin sutura ballantana matsuguni. A koda yaushe tana kallon iyayenta tana kara samun sakewa, tana ganin 'yan uwanta tana samun nishadi, ba ta rasa komai ba na daga kulawa daga wajen iyaye da 'yan uwa, sun ilimantar da ita, sun ba ta tarbiyyar da ya dace gwargwadon iyawarsu. Tun tasowarta ta taso ne a cikin iyayenta da 'yan uwanta, idan ta shiga damuwa za su share mata hawayenta. A lokaci daya ka zo ka kwallafa ranka a kan sai ka aure ta, iyayenta suka yarda suka ba ka ita ba don sun gaji da ita ko don sun rasa abin da za su ci gaba da yi mata hidima ba, ita ma ta amince ta bi ka gidanka ta ci gaba da rayuwa da kai, ta sadaukar da debe kewar iyayenta da 'yan uwanta don saboda ta rayu da kai, ta amince ta zama uwar 'ya'yanka, ta yarda ka san inda babu wanda ya sani a jikinta, ta yarda ta kare rayuwarta a gidanka, ta yarda ta zamo mai hidima a gare ka. Shin wadda ta yi irin wannan sadaukantakar ta cancanci kulawa ne ko wulakanci?!
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Dan uwa wannan wani description ne na matarka, a koda yaushe ka dinga tunawa da irin halarcin da ta yi maka kafin ka hakaito wani aibinta. Matarka na tsananin bukatar kulawarka, tana son ka, sai dai kuma tana da rauni a wasu wajajen, to me zai hana ka mu'amalance ta da kyautatawa, tausayawa tare da tausasawa? Meyasa za ka yi mata tsawa ko ka zage ta, meyasa iyayenta suka zama abin zagi a wajenka bayan jajircewa da suka yi na rabuwa da wani bangare na jikinsu? Meyasa za ka muzanta mata ta hanyar danne mata wasu hakkokinta? Meyasa ka rabo ta da iyayenta idan ba ka shirya sauraron matsalolinta ba?

Ya kai dan uwa mai daraja! Ka sani, *hakuri* wani laqani ne na cin ma dukkan wata bukata wanda ba a ta6a jaraba shi aka samu faduwa ba. Haquri babban jigo ne na kyautata mu'amala da assasa zaman lafiya, walwala da nishadi tsakanin ma'aurata.

Ka dauki aure ibada, Sannan ka nemi sanin yadda za ka kyautata zamantakewa da iyalinka.

Mace abar tausasawa ce, domin ta kasance wani bangare na jikinmu. Ka yi hakuri da da'ifancinta, ka nuna mata soyayya, ka Qaunace ta kamar a ranar da ka fara ganinta, ka so ta saboda Allah don neman yardarsa....
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Ya Allah Ka hada mu da abokan zama masu addini da kyawawan dabi'u 👏🏼


Qaninku a har kullum:
*✍🏿Ayyub Musa Giwa.*
*(Abul Husnain).*

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BEING MARRIED

Being married is not about just eating together, sleeping and waking side by side, strolling to the beach or river together, doing the lovey-dovey, pillow fights or doing chores together. These are only the extra-curricular activities; the main thing that needs to be done together is Ibadah, and this is where many couples fall short today. We were created for the worship of Allâh ﷻ and couples can very much help each other achieve this.
Below are some few ways couples can achieve this;

*Husband: My dear, its Jumu‘ah, let's recite Suratul Kahf together.

*Wife: Hey dear, wake up and let's pray, its time for Tahajud, our LORD is in the first heaven calling on to us.

*Husband : Hey baby, even if you are off-salat, have you done your evening adhkaar? Let's do it together.

*Wife: Ya sheikh, now that we have observed Isha, its time for our daily family halqah, won't you give us a Naseeha or teach us some fiqh?

*Husband: My Queen , let's quickly recite Surah Mulk before sleeping so that it will save us from the punishment of the grave.

*Wife: My King , tomorrow is Monday, what would you like me to prepare so we can fast tomorrow to please our Lord.

Allâh cautions us in the Qur’an;
"O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded."
(66:6)

The Rasulullah ﷺ praised the man who gets up at night to pray, and wakes his wife, and when she refuses to get up, he sprinkles water on her face; and he praised the woman who gets up at night to pray, and wakes her husband, and when he refuses to get up, she sprinkles water on his face.
(Reported by Imaam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 2/250; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 3494).
How beautiful is this Hadith!

This is how couples should help in fulfilling 50% of each other's deen and protect each other from the Hell fire. Therefore marry a person who will help you in the worldly affairs as well as the matters of your Hereafter.

Many people say: "I want a spouse who will hold my hands to Jannah."
I hate to break it to you but the bridge of Siraat is not an easy bridge that requires just a hand to help you cross it, everyone that day is for himself, so Jannah is not earned by only dua, we need to work for it.

*MAY ALLAH GRANT US SPOUSES WHO WILL BE THE COOLNESS OF OUR EYES AND UNITE US AGAIN IN JANNAH AS WELL*

    -@ ###"Aameen"

Wednesday, 16 January 2019

DOMIN IYALI




DOMIN IYALI 

Aksarin ma'aurata a Arewacin Nigeria sun dauka cewa, aure ba komai ba ne face jima'i da tara zuri'a. Hakan ne ma ya sa:

1. Yana da wuya ka ga ma'aurata suna sumbatar juna a goshi koh a kumatu, kuma idan ka ga sun rungume juna, toh labari mai dadi ne ya samu. 

2. Yana da wuya ka ga miji yana baiwa matarsa abinci a baki, Idan ka ga hakan kuwa toh ka tabbata matar ce bata da lafiya.

3. ldan ba a drama ba, zai yi wuya ka ga miji ya bude wa matarsa kofar mota.

4. Abu guda daya da yake sanya magidanci a Arewa ya taba wuyan matarsa shine lokacin da take korafin zazzabi yana damun ta, ba zai kuma kara tabawa ba sai wani sabon zazzabin ya zo. 

5. Lokaci daya ne za ka ga miji ya dauko matarsa a hannu, lokacin kuwa shine idan ta fara labour (nakuda) zai kai ta asibiti.

6. ldan ka ga ma'aurata na zaune a waje da daddare, kada ka dauka tsabar soyayya ce, fiya-fiya suka watsa a dakin suna jira warin ya ragu.

7. Yawancin mata idan ka ga sun sayawa mazajensu wani abu kyauta, toh ka tabbatar an kwantar da mazajen ne a gadon asibiti, sannan ne mai tausayi za ka ga ta sayi lemo da ayaba.

8. ldan ka ga ma'aurata suna tsere-tsere, toh ka tabbata abin tsoro suka gani kowa yana ta kansa.

9. ldan ka ga ma'aurata tare sun fito da yammaci suna tafiya, ba wai shawagi suka fito ba, yawanci togacciya za su kai na wani da ya duki ɗan su. 

10. Lokaci daya ne suke wanka tare, ldan zasu fita aiki ya zamana duk sun yi latti.

11. Lokaci daya ne mace ke kallon idon mijinta dab da dab, lokacin da ya nemi taimakon ta don wani abu da ya faɗa cikin idanun sa.

MAFI BAN HAUSHI KUMA SHINE:

Idan aka yi sa'a miji ya zama mai bawa iyalin sa kulawa, sai ka ji jama'a suna cewa : Ai mijin Hajiya ne, Bawan Dudu, koh kuma ta gama dashi, ƙarshe ma ka ji ana kiran sa da "Mijin tace".

Baki daya an dauki aure tamkar azaba, abin da ake yin sa domin jin dadi. Allah ya ganar da gidadawan ma'aurata, Amin.

Sunday, 13 January 2019

MATSALAR ƘANƘANCEWAR

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🇪🇬 *MATSALA QANQANCEWAR ZAKARI* 
    
📕 Ita dai wannan matsala ta qanqancewar zakari ta na shafuwar wasu maza.

inda suke fuskantar zuqewar zakari kamar na qananin yara.

kaga mutum baligi amma zakarinsa kamar na yaron da bai balaga ba.

A binciken dana gudanar a wata cibiyar kiwon lafiya dake a Cairo ta
kasar Egypt na tabbatarda cewa kamin Namiji ya iya gamsarda matarshi a lokacin saduwa to ana bukatar a kalla zakarinsa yakai tsawon inci 5 kOh 6 (6 ince long)

domin idan bai kai ba to da wahala zakarin ya iya kaiwa ga wani wuri da
ake kira da 'G-spot' wanda shine ke matukar samarda jin dadi ga mace harda kai ga samun biyan bukata.

Akwai zakarinda saboda qanqantarsa mace bata jin ko alamun ana saduwa da ita.

Sai kaga ana soyaýya kamar mace ta hade mijinta amma dazaran andaura aure sai kaga matsala na ta faruwa.

domin ita mace zata iya jurewa da namiji talaka matukar tana samun gamsuwa da kyau da kyau ga mijinta.

amma bata juriyar zama da mai arzikin dake fama da matsala a lokacin jima'i.

🇪🇬 *TO ME KE JANYO QANQANCEWAR ZAKARI ?*

📕 Akwai halitta wanda bamai iya canzata kuma ba wani magani da ake sha Amma kuma akwai shawarwarin da ake basuwa da zai sa kaje daidai da irin mai tsarin
girman jikinka.

♦ Akwai ciwon basir (choronic dysentery).

♦ Akwai ciwon sanyi.

♦ Akwai ciwon raunin jiyojin mazakuta.

♦ Akwai matsalar karamcin sha'awa.

♦ Akwai erectile dysfunction

♦ Urinary tract infection. 

📕 Dole kamin ka sha magani to sai an tattauna dakai, domin mu san kai saurayine ko mai aure? tun yaushe matsalar take tare da kai, kowane da irin matsalar da ta janyo mai qanqancewar zakari.

Magani kuma ba abinci bane dan haka dole ayi taka tsam-tsam.

🛑 *MUNA SAIDA KAYAN MATA KAMAR HAKA*

⭕ *Maganin girman nono*

⭕ *Maganin tsayuwar nono*

⭕ *maganin cikowar nono*

wasu mata sunyi magunguna har sun gaji amma basu dace вa, ιnѕнa allaн хaĸυ ѕaмυ вιyan вυĸaтa

⭕ *Girman duwawu*

⭕ *Maganin Infection*
            *ciwon sanyi*
            *kaikayi gaba*
              *kuraje gaba*
             *fitar farin ruwa*

⭕ *MALLAKA*
            *mallakar miji*
          *mallaka saurayi*
                *farin jini*

⭕ *maganin saka kiba*

⭕ *Maganin rage qiba*
             *Rage tunbi*

⭕ *maganin family planning na gargajiya*

⭕ *Maganin karin ne'ima*
  kiji ruwa a jikin ki sosai 

⭕ *saka mai gida kukan dadi*

⭕ *dandano ma'aurata*

⭕ *ingantaccen matsi* 

*wanda zaisa gabanki ya matse sosai kamar baki taba sanin namiji ba a rayuwarki*

⭕ *Maganin karfin maza* 
             *rashin saurin release* 
          *karfin azzakari*

⭕ *matan da basa sha'awar saduwa sannan sunajin zafi lokacin jima'i*

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