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Showing posts with label Dandalin Ma'aurata (Couple's Corner). Show all posts
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ZAN ƘARA AURE... 01


*💑ZAN QARA AURE // 01🙆🏻🕺*

Aure a rayuwar malam Bahaushe na nufin wata rayuwa da ake kullawa tsakanin namiji da mace, wace ake sa rai da cewa mutuwa ce kadai za ta iya raba tsakaninsu, tare da sanin cewa in wani zarafi ya datso kowa na iya kama gabansa, ko dai shi maigidan ya sauwaqe mata, ko kuma ita ta kai shi inda za a shiga tsakaninsu. Da zarar an daura aure komai na amaryar ya tashi daga kan mariqinta ya koma kan maigida, hada da ci da sha, matsuguni da wasu abubuwan rayuwa da suka zama dole, ciki har da ilimi da addini.

A duk inda aka ji cewa ana daura aure za ka ji ala-san-barka ga ma'auratan guda biyu, koda kuwa mutum bai san daya daga cikinsu ba, ango da amarya da uwayensu da sauran tarsashin jama'a duk sukan yi ta murna, sashin ango na farin cikin cewa dansu ya zama babba, shi ma yanzu ya zama magidanci, uwayensa ko ba su fadi ba dai dayan abubuwa biyu ne ke bayya musu: Kodai yanzu zai taimaka musu a kan al'amuran rayuwa, ko kuma zai kama gabansa su ji da sauran qanninsa.

Duk da haka fahimta kan bambanta a lokacin da mutum ya ce zai qara aure:-

1) 'Yan boko wadanda ba qanin iya bare na baba, su ke fara tofin ala-tsine da kawo wa angon talauci kusa, wasu har da maganar karatun yaran da za a haifa da kama musu hayar dakin da za su riqa kwana da gazawa wurin tarbiyantar da su duk da cewa ko auren ba a daura ba bare ta sami ciki bare kuma a kai ga wadannan abubuwan da suke zayyanowa.

2) Wasu daga cikin yayyin angon, maza kenan, masamman ma wadanda suke da mace guda, su ma sun kasu kashi biyu, wasu suna kallon zarafin angon ne, da kuma irin qarfinsa na qara auren ko gazawa, wasu kuma sun kulle idanunsu kan cewa bai isa ya qara aure a wannan lokacin ba, koda kuwa ba su da wata kataimaimiyar hujja a hannunsu.

3) Sai yayyin angon wato mata, su ma sun kasu zuwa kashi biyu, wasu kamar mazan ne ta wurin lura da yadda mutum yake riqe da ta gida, in gazawarsa ta bayyana sai ka iske suna yin fito na fito da qarin auren, wasu kuwa shaquwarsu da matarsa take sawa su taya ta kishi, a irin wannan yanayi angon kan jima kafin ya shawo kansu, wani sa'in lamarin kan kai ga murje idanu don dai ya isa zuwa ga manufarsa.

4) Sai 'yan sa ido, wadanda ba wani abinda ya hada su da mutum, amma su shiga tsakiya su nemi bata komai, koda kuwa ba wata riba da za su ci.

5) Uwargida kuwa (sai daidai) samsam ba ta qaunar ta ji an ce za a yi mata kishiya, duk kuma wani bayani da za ka yi mata don ka gamsar da ita cewa auren zai iya zama alkhairi a gare su bata lokacinka kawai za ka yi, ko fahimtarka ba za ta yi ba, in ka ji mace ta tsani wani malami, ko ta kira shi munafuki, qila ya kwadaitar da maza ne kan qarin aure, qiyayyar mata da qarin auren ya kai ga yi wa uwargida jaje na masamman kamar ta rasa wani, a hankali ya bayyana a matattararsu cewa qarin aure ko yin kishiya tamfar wata fitina ce wace ba yadda za a yi da ita.

6) Uwayen uwargida kan tsaya a gefen diyarsu ne, shahararriyar hujjarsu ita ce ba a san abinda amaryar za ta shigo da shi ba, koda kuwa yarinya ce qarama wace ba ta ma gama sanin duniya ba, ko wata saliha da maqwabta suka shede ta kan zama lafiya, wasu uwaye mata ba sa maganar cewa amaryar za ta kore su, matsalolin gida ne suke fitowa da su, masamman inda mijin diyarsu ya gaza, in ba a yi sa'a ba nan za su rada wa diyarsu yadda za ta bata auren ta wajen fadin gaskiya da qarya a kan maigidan don dai su bata sabon auren, in shedan ya sanya wa aikinta albarka sai ka ga sun ci nasara.

7) Akwai halin da mutum kan yi jinkirin qara aure har 'ya'yan da suka haifa tare da uwargidan su girma, a irin wannan hali in lamarin ya zo da matsala sai yaran su goya wa uwarsu baya a yi ta kwasan rigima, ita da yaranta a hannu guda, maigidan kuma a daya hannun, yaran kan tsaya kai da fata kan cewa uban bai isa ya kawo wata matar cikin gidansu ba, na taba ganin wadanda suka saka masa sharadin sai dai ya auro sa'ar mahaifiyarsu, wasu kuma suka turje kan cewa ba za a yi wa mahaifiyarsu kishiya ba, a kan ci nasara wani lokaci, amma ba kullum ake kwana a gado ba, galibi idan namiji ya yi niyyar qara aure zai yi abinsa, koda kuwa zai yi fito na fito da kowa.

A cikin wannan dan littafi da za mu bi, muna so ne mu ga wasu dalilai da suke sanyawa mutum ya yi sha'awar qara aure, tare da sanin cewa abubuwan da yawa matuqa, duk yadda ka lissafa wa mutum dalilan qara aure in ba ka yi sa'a ba sai ya ambato maka wani abin daban wanda bai da alaqa da abubuwan da aka lissafa, mu dai za mu lissafo su, amma mun sani cewa namiji in ya rasa dalilin da zai ce dominsa ne zai qara aure hakan ma wani dalili ne mai qarfi da zai yi din, a taqaice komai ma na iya zama dalilin da zai sa namiji ya qara aure, kenan wannan rubutu zai taimaki mata sosai ta wurin sanin yadda za su kare gidansu.
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MAGANIN JIN ZAFIN JIMA'I


MAGANIN JIN ZAFIN JIMAI

-Hiltit ko 
-Mustaka.
 Zaki rika turare dashi, kina tsugunawa akai, ma'ana kina turara farjinsu dashi hayakin ya rika ratsa kofar farjinki sosai.
Sannan kuma ki rika yin Matsi da Man Sazabu ko na Albabunaj akai akai.
Insha Allahu zaki dena jin zafin. Allahu aalam..
ALLAH YA SAUWAKE 

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WHAT MAKES MARRIAGE VALID IN ISLAM


WHAT MAKES A MARRIAGE VALID IN ISLAM

 BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem. 

The difference between an Islamic marriage and an un-Islamic marriage is that the Islamic marriage fulfils the conditions and pillars of a correct religious marriage, the most important of which are: 

*_The consent of the bride’s guardian_*.
*_The presence of two witnesses_*.
*_A MAHAR OR DOWRY (bridal money given by the groom to the bride)_*.

Therefore, if a man proposes to marry a woman and she agrees and he marries her, then their marriage is void even if he gives her a dowry because it did not fulfill two major conditions: the consent of the guardian and the presence of two witnesses. The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, said: “There is no marriage except with a guardian and two trustworthy witnesses.” [At-Tirmithi and Abu Daawood]. The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, also said: "Any woman who marries without the consent of her guardian, her marriage is void, her marriage is void, her marriage is void." [At-Tirmithi and Abu Daawood].

Even though Imam Abu Haneefah is of the view that marriage without consent of the sister's guardian or parent is still valid, this opinion is subject to the fact that the woman is elderly and had married before and remarrying and has no family arround her. Even so, the local imam is recommended to act as her guardian to ensure the marriage is organised through shari'ah compliance. Allah knows best. *_May ALLAH keep guiding us all_*. Aameen.
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ME KIKE NEMA BAYAN SO A WAJEN MAI GIDA?


 MEKIKE NEMA BAYAN SO WAJEN MAIGIDA???   

 Yar'uwata kigwada wannan Wallahi wallahi zakisha mamaki indai NI'IMA ne saidai kifadama wani.                  

   ►1.Ki nemi Dabino wanda ba busasshe ba (lubiya) da Kankana mai yashi. kici dabinon sosai sai ki sha kankana daga baya.ki aikata haka kamar bayan La'asar ►2. Kisami man Hulba da pure madara kota shanu ko peak ta ruwa sai ki hada ki aje yayi 1hr kafin ki kwanta.Idan zaki kwanta sai kisha sai ki tsaya kamar 3mins saiki kwanta. ►3. Kisami lalle 1cup kisa a ruwa ki dafa sai kijuye kisa a baho kizauna Wallahi kam zaki matse. ko kinsan tsarki da Sabulu na iya causing cancer agabanki? Musamman detol dominshi yana kashe kwayoyine agaban macce damasu amfani da marar amfani..kisami KALTUFA(brown venigar) kirinka tsarki dashi. Kiyi sharing ma yan'uwa mata kema kisami Lada. Sadakatujjariya

 ‪ ABUBUWAN DAKESA MACE TAFITA DAGA ZUCIYAR MIJINTA
          1.RIKO
Riko shine idan an aikatamata wani laifi kabar abin aranka batare da kayafe ba.
Uwargida kada kizamo mai riko domin hakan ba karamin jamaki matsala ba zaiyi musamman idan mijinki nada saurin fushi . Saboda haka idan abu yafaru mudinga hakuri domin mata ansanmu da hakuri da juriya idan akai abu to dazaran ya wuce to amaida komi ba komi bane domin aljannarmu tana karkashin su sai sun daga zamu samu mata mudinga hakuri aduk lamuran mu👍 sai muga mundace

        2. YAWON MITA
Yar'uwa kar zizamto cikin mata masu yawan mita a gurin maji
Abu baya wucewa ayita dawo da magana baya wanan zai haddasamaki matsala domin zaki fita ranshi. Idan abu yawuce to ayi hakuri abarshi adaina tuna baya 

         3. FUSHI
Uwargida kar kamto mai yawan fushi ko nunama miji kincika fushi 
Karkimanta Allah da kansa "yace yanatare da masu hakuri"shin bakison Allah yazamto yana tare dake kowane lokaci
Yar'uwa kisama ranki hakuri fushi banaki bane domin karkashin wani kike kowayace zomu zauna zomu sabane  
Hakuri shine ribarmu

          4.RASHIN IYA GIRKI
   
Da anxo maganar girki sai naji tsoro tare da jin kunya 
Haba yar'uwa yakamata ace iyayen mu nakoyamana girki 
Wlh wallahi wlh samun yar aiki ba gata bane
Ina gatan yake kina can kwance yar aiki na saye zuciyar mijinki da dadan abinci
yar'uwa/uwargida mutashi tsaye mukoyi girki kodan saye zuciyar miji
Domin namiji nason matar da ta iya girki  
Zakiga namiji na gayyato abokanai zuwa gidan shi don suci abinci saboda yasan bazata bashi kunya
amma idan baki iyaba fa zai fara tunanin kara aure wato yayi maki KISHIYA
Hmmm mata mu gyara

       5.KAZANTA
Uwargida ayi tsafta kodon lfyr jikinkin 
karki manta tsafta nadaga cikin addini
Yar'uwa idan ba tsaftar yazakiyi ibada
Sanan kisani tsafta nasa miji yasoki sanan yaji bayada kamarki zakiga kowane lokaci yana manne dake yana shakar kamshinki
Idan kuwa bakida rsafta da yabaki kudin cefane bakikara ganin shi sai dare domin koyadawo ba abinda zaigani sai bacin rai har kiginga cewa yadainasonki aa badaina sonkiyayiba kazantarki tajawo maki
Sanan kisani kazanta tama mabudin kara aure ce wato yayimaki kishiya
 Pls kozakiyi chatting yazamto kin gyara ko ina sanan yazamto kema kingyara jikinki da na yaranki kuma idan mai 🏩 yadawo abashi kulawa abar cht
Nidai sholy baruwana 
Lokacinda zai karowata baninan ni sholy nafada nafita
 
         6.KULA DA SHINFIDAR MIJI

Mata muna sakaci wajen bawa miji hakkinsa kinaso amma kitsaya gulma wai jan aji ina ajin yake bayan yagama saninki lungu lungu ba inda baisaniba ajikinki
To wallahi ki gyara ki dinga bashi hakkin shi yadda yakamata wanan shi zaisa mijinki yasoki kuma ki mallakeshi FROM ADMINS TATTALIN MIJI Afnan wurma (09026337325)
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DEAR MARRIED LADY

DEAR MARRIED LADY💦

1. Dear Married Lady, Holy wives don't just speak in tongues. They cook super meals, they raise godly kids, wear hot dresses(for their husbands), they have mind blowing sex & still make Heaven.

2. Dear Married Lady, Forget about changing your husband. Just be an upgraded version of you with more value and sweetness.

3. Dear Married Lady, Look at your Husband with the lenses of righteousness in Islam. He may have some wrong doings but do not focus on the wrong doings but rather focus on the Islam in him. In other words, focus on his positives and not the negatives. Do this in wisdom!

4. Dear Married Lady, Familiarity has the tendency of taking things for granted: our family and especially our husbands
Replace nagging with appreciation!

5. Dear Married Lady, Be the number one FAN of your husband. Support him in all his interest. Ensure you decree greatness in all his endeavours. Don't allow other ladies to do this for you. Be the first and best at this.

6. Dear Married Lady, As Allah is Love so are you. As Allah is forgiveness so are you. Do not punish your Husband with tight jeans. Let him give you some massage or buy you something nice. You are not a fool! You care for your marriage.

7. Dear Married Lady, Decide that loving is intentional and intentionally love your partner. Find out what love means to your partner and give it. Don't assume a common definition of love. What is love to you may not be for him
Portray the love he yearns.

8. Dear Married Lady, In this age where technology is supposed to break homes, use this same technology to build your home. Text your husband some hot messages as a shadow of the things awaiting him at home.

9. Dear Married lady, Don't focus on the competition outside the home and get bitter. You are not the only Lady who Loves your husband. Focus on your Husband and
give him the best of treatment always; especially when you think he doesn't deserve it.

10. Dear Married Ladies, Don't become a prison for your husband. When it gets to the point where he needs space grant it to Him. There is freedom in true love. Over protective love is false and destructive. Use those periods to better yourself. Get the most sexiest look. Be your sweetest self when he returns home. You are always the winner.

11. Dear Married Woman, Be the curious and Creative type.
Don't be shy to initiate lovemaking. Wear sexy lingeries does not mean you are spoilt or demon possessed. Join in the creativity, make your marriage fun. Afterwards blow in tongues together!

12. Dear Married Lady, Challenges may come in your marriage. Instead of letting it tatter you, you decide to make the best, look your best, love your best in the face of challenges. Guess what the Islam in you is the best. So you can't be any less.

13. Dear Married Lady, the fact that you have four kids does not mean let your body look 20 years older. You can start small. Discipline yourself. Check your weight. Don't eat junk food. Take brisk walks! Exercise your body and be in Lady,

14. Dear Married Lady, Islam is not the end of descent hot fashion. Islam is not tagged with old ladyship. That you wear a Long gown does not mean you are holy. Dress well. Be neat. Look presentable. Let the young ladies check you up for the latest descent trend!

15. Dear Married Lady, even when you're tired, be sensitive to your man's bedly needs. You can do all things through Allah who strengthens you. Don't lazy yourself in front of him. It's a bad signal. Be in readiness to satisfy Him at all times. Don't give him reasons to look elsewhere.

16. A woman of Grace who can find? She has a heart of gold. Gives her best even in the worst. She Loves like no Love other even at the most undeserving times.

17. She is love. She is forgiveness. She is support. She is prayer. She is wisdom. She is your dream lover. She mothers the world. She is......, so precious. She is loyal and strongly soaked in the word. She Rightly fits everywhere.

You will not fail in marriage inshaAllahu

Keep on sharing!

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SOYAYYAR DA BATA MUTUWA BAYAN AURE

SOYAYYAR DA BATA MUTUWA BAYAN AURE

💏💏💏💏💏💏💏💏💏💏
✍🏻wasu masana nace dazarar andaura aure shikenan ankai soyayya maqabarta, domin matsalolin yauda gobe nahana soyayya cigabada yaduwa awasu ma'auratan,
Amma akwai nau'in soyayyarda bata samun naqsu bayan aure duk rintsi soyayyar zata tsaya dakafarta domin kuwa soyayya ce mai jijiya gangariya ba kumfa bace dake bin iska tun awatannin angwanci.
★حب التعود
Nau'i nafarko kenan daga irin soyayyarda dawahala asami akasin rabuwa bayan aure, soyayyace tashakuwa da fahimtarda daya kanshiga damuwa inba daya, takaika anzama tamkar y'an uwan juna kowa najin daya kamar wanene jigon rayuwarsa, irin wannan sabo dajunan wanda akarayu amatsayin kowa najin kowa atsakar jikinsa to dawahala asami akasin rabuwa dajuna bayan aure.
★الحب الذي ينموا
Wannan irin so kadan ne ke tsintar kansu acikinsa soyayya ce dake daduwa akowace rana akwai matsalar da'ake cewa 
البرودالعاطفي
Wato ginsar juna tayadda wasu lokutan masoya ko ma'aurata zasuji sungaji da juna ko sunaneman mafita dajuna
To ita wannan soyayya ta 2 akasin haka ce akullum dada karuwa take bata raguwa ,irin wannan soyayya dawahala asami akasinta bayan aure.
Kukasance da group din
MATSALOLIN MA'AURATA
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MATSALAR GAMSAR DA JUNA

/matsalolin-gamsar-da-juna
 sirrin rike miji
WhatsApp: ☏+2348037538596

Wani mutumin ba ruwansa; da zarar ya sami gamsuwa da matarsa koda a iya wasan da su ke yi ne, to fa shi ya gama, ba ruwansa da ita. Shi ba abinsa ya yi ma sa zafi. Kun ga wannan shi ne karshen rashin adalci. Wata matar kuma ta na da doguwar sha’awa, saboda haka, idan mijinta bai yi wasa da ita ba, sannnn bai jira ta samu gamsuwa daga gare shi ba, to maniyyin da ya ke jikinta ba zai sauko ya hadu da nasa ba, sai dai ya tsaya ma ta a mararta. Daga nan kuma sai ciwon mara, sai ciwon ciki, sai ciwon kai, sai warin gaba. Daga nan sai mace ta dinga tsintar kanta da rashun kuzari da rashin walwala. Ta rasa abin da ya ke yi ma ta dadi, kuma wannan ke sa mace ta dinga jin haushin mijin da tsanar mijin. Sai ka ga mace ba ta girmama miji yadda ya kamata. A rasa dalili. Nan kuwa rashin ba ta hakkinta a shimfida ne ya jawo ma sa.

Sannan ya kamata mu sani cewar mata kala-kala ne kamar yadda maza su ke kala-kala. Akwai mai karfin sha’awa, wacce idan ba ta sami daidai ita ba, akwai damuwa. Sai dai ka ga auren ya na kai kawo. Karshe dai sai an rabu hankalinta zai kwanta. Ba yin ta ba ne; haka Allah Ya yi ta. 

Haka su ma mazan, wani idan ya sami wata matar, da kanta za ta gudu. A-yi-a-yi ta dawo, ba za ta dawo ba, amma wata ta na kokari ta sanar da ’yan gidansu cewar ya fi karfinta.

Shawara ga mata da mazan da ba sa iya biya wa junan bukata; su sani ba sai ta kai su ga rabuwa ba. Idan ka san ba ka da juriyar da za ka iya biya wa matar ka bukata a shimfida ba, to ka dinga wasanni da ita sosai kafin ka shige ta, kuma ka tabbatar ka gane guraren da idan ka tattaba ma ta ta ke jin dadi sosai yadda kafin ku zo saduwa ka gama tayar ma ta da sha’awarta, ta fara jin dadi sosai. Ka ga ka na shigar ta, kafin ka biya bukatarka, ta gama jin dadinta. Za ka ji ta sharkaf; komai ya yi daidai. Shawara ta biyu; ka kasance mai neman maganin karin karfin mazakuta da darin kuzari yadda matar taka za ta ji ka gagau.

 sirrin rike miji
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