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Thursday, 24 January 2019

Are There Two Prophet Muhammad?

*Are There Two prophet Muhammad ?

"Hassan your food is getting cold", Habeebah called, as her six year old son was glued to his Quran She snatched the Quran from him angrily.

"I've told you I'm late for work!" What are you looking for? For the past week you've been inseparable from this Quran,"Habeebah said as she helped her son to adjust his school uniform.

"Mom, I can't seem to find my answer , perhaps you can help me." Hassan said.
"Okay but eat first and we can talk in the car." she replied.

On the way to school he asked "Mum, may I ask my question now? "
"Of course ",Habeebah replied.
"Mum, are there two Muhammad ?"

"What did you say?"
"Are there two Muhammad ?", he repeated.
"Who taught you this heresy?", Habeebah asked angrily. Hassan knew his mum's temper and started shaking.

"Our new teacher taught us that... " Habeebah interrupted
"So, your new teacher has been feeding you this nonsense!, Hassan said, "No he said....." "Shut up!!" Habeebah interjected"

"I will go and see him myself! I'd rather go to work late than allow this heresy to continue."

When they got to the school, Habeebah walked straight to the headteacher's office and demanded that the teacher be sacked because the teacher was leading the children astray with heresies so the teacher was summoned to the office but he denied ever telling the children that there were two Prophet Muhammad

So Hassan now in tears, was summoned and asked:

"Why do you think there are two Prophet Muhammad "
 Still crying he said:

"Our teacher told us that Prophet Muhammad is our leader and his followers behave exactly like him. He said Prophet Muhammad does not steal, lie, fight or stay away from salat or prayers and his followers are the same."
"Okay, that's true but that is not enough reason for you to believe that there are two prophet Muhammad ", the headmistress said, wiping Hassan's face. Hassan continued:

"My mum says she is a Muslim ,she keeps singing: "I am a muslim and Islam is my choice"but mum still fights. I saw her take daddy's money last month and when daddy asked her, she lied about it. Also we have not been to mosque nor prayed for about five months. Just this morning, she fought with daddy and was very rude to him so I've been thinking that Mummy's Muhammad is a different Muhammad from my teacher's Muhammad; that's why I kept searching my Quran to see if I would find my mummy's Muhammad in there.......

By this time, Habeebah was in tears and both the headmistress and Hassan's teacher were looking down in embarrassment!

Abeebah was so ashamed that she could not look into her son's eyes........

Does your character and behaviour make people question whether you serve a different Allah

Are You an example of Prophet Muhammad ; SAW)
Think about this!

Have a great day

Wednesday, 23 January 2019

Faɗuwa Jarabawa A Makaranta Shima Jarabawa Ce


Ka sani ya kai Dan'uwa Musulmi mai Imani, Allah da ya halicci mutum ba haka kawai kara zube ya barshi ba, kuma ba a hakan kawai za'a barshi ba, ba tare da an jarabceshi ko ana jarabtarshi ba, dole ne sai Allah ya jarabemu ta inda bama tsammani. Allah yana cewa:

"أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَنْ يُتْرَكُوا أَنْ يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ"
"Ashe mutane sunyi zaton abarsu su ce: Munyi Imani, alhali kuwa ba za'a fitine su ba?" {Ankabut, 29:02}

Akwai lokutan da cin jarabawa ko faduwa bashi da alaqa da kokari ko rashin kokari, kamar yadda faduwar bata da alaqa da yin karatu da yawa ko rashin yi da yawa.

Zai yiwu mutum na da kokari kuma yayi karatu da yawa, amma kuma ya fadi jarabawa, mene ne sababi mene ne dalili? Shi kanshi faduwa jarabawa wata jarabawar ce daga wurin Allah, domin zai iya yiwuwa babu alkhairy a cin jarabawar, faduwar a wannan lokacin sai ya zama shine mafi alkhairi ga mutum. Allah yana cewa:

"عَسَىٰ أَنْ تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكُمْ ۖ وَعَسَىٰ أَنْ تُحِبُّوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ"
"Akwai fatan cewa ku ki wani abu, alhali shine mafi alkhairi a gare ku, kuma akwai fatar cewa kuna son wani abu, alhali kuma shine mafi sharri a gareku, Kuma Allah ne yake sani, ku baku sani ba". {Bakara, 2:216}

Faduwa jarabawa, jarabawa ce, fitina ce kuma musifa ce, kuma dukansu daga Allah ne (duk da a wani lokacin akan samu laifin daga wurin mu ne), abinda ake bukata ga wanda ya samu kanshi a wannan halin shine yayi tawakkali, yayi hakuri yayi Istirjaa'i ya maida al'amarinshi ga Allah, idan yayi haka; Allah zai taimake shi, Kuma zai kasance cikin masu rabauta in sha Allahu. Allah yana cewa:

"وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ، الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ، أُولَٰئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِنْ رَبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ ۖ وَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ".

Allah muke roko ya jarabemu da abinda zamu iya dauka, ya kikaye mu tabewa da zarmiya, ya bamu ikon cin jarabawar duniya da ta lahira.

Wadi Hof,

Sunday, 20 January 2019


All parents need to read this.

I got married at the age of 24years to my husband who was a medical practitioner just like I was. We both focused on our carrier and of course we were both successful in all we did but not in the parenting of our own flesh and blood. 

We had two children, Kunle as the first and Tola the second. Kunle was a very inquisitive boy and asked questions on everything. He even had a nick name "the examiner". His father and I got tired of his questions that we started locking up the door to our bedroom once we came back from work. How I wish I knew better, how I wish I read those posts of yours then. 

By the time Kunle was four years old, he was much more intelligent than his colleagues and he was so lively, you would never have a dull moment with him. He loved his sister so much and we were always proud of him. His father and I were so sure Kunle was also going to become a medical doctor just like we were. 

We loved our children so much and had plans to give then the best of everything although we were always busy and were not always at home because of the nature of our job. This made us hire a nanny and we also had one of my brothers in-law with us. 

On day, I came back from work very tired and my son ran into my room with me and asked,  
"why do you always close your door anytime you and daddy are in the room?"

"Do you like kissing my daddy?"

"why don't you kiss me too?" 

I got so upset with him that I beat him severely and reported him to his teacher the next day. We believed some of his friends were already exposed and may be watched bad movies at home. By the end of that term, we withdrew Kunle and Tola from the school. 

We did not allow him and his sister watch the television at home and also stopped them from visiting their friends and neighbours. We did all this to preserve our children's sanity but hardly did we know what was happening right under our roof. 

Some two years later, I got home unusually early to pick up a document. I noticed the door was not shut and everywhere was quiet. I sneaked in to give my children a playful surprise when I realised that their uncle and nanny were in the sitting alongside with my children watching pornography. I hate remembering that day. Not only were they watching pornography, but they were all naked, practicing what they were watching. 

I drove out the nanny and my brother in-law but the seed was already planted. When I was crying, my six year old son came to me and said, mummy why are you crying, uncle and aunty are only teaching us how to be good mummy and daddy. I was shocked as I never even knew that this had been going on for over two years and my children had be indoctrinated into this messy life style at their tender ages. 

 We never realized the impact this had had on their lives until we caught both of them having sexual intercourse on uncountable occasions. Tola and Kunle did not only continue with this but became obsessed with each other.

Their father and I kept this as our "little secret" as we were well known in our carrier. We tried correcting them in love with tears streaming down our faces whenever we caught them in the act. They promised us they were going to change. We had had done two abortions for our daughter, since we could not face the stigma of incest.

On a fateful day, Tola walked up to her father and I and told us she was pregnant for Kunle again. Her father insisted on an abortion as usual but this time we lost our twenty year old daughter in the process. Kunle on learning Tola had died never spoke to neither his father nor I again. He eventually left home.  

Three months after he left home, we received a call from a hospital telling us our son was in a terrible state in their ICU. When we got there, Kunle was lying unconscious. He had poisoned himself.

 Finally, he got conscious and we were so happy, he looked at us as we sat by he bedside and told us how much he hated us for killing his sister. We pleaded with him and apologized. 
We got to the hospital the next day to see his corpse, he had suffocated himself by removing his oxygen mask.

I am now 74 years old and a widow, my husband could not forgive himself and died of depression three years ago. I regret my years of ignorance everyday. I wish I could start afresh. 

I have never opened up my family "little secret" up till today. I don't know if my story can be of help to other parents, I am tired of carrying this burden without telling a soul. 

I am happy I finally surmounted the courage to open up to someone today. Oh, my life is a great mess. 

Kindly do me a favour of posting this on your page for parents to learn how expensive their actions today could be tomorrow. 

Thank you. Dear Ladies, Pls Kindly Share with your Networks & Contacts, We Never Know Who Might Be Helped by this.

Wednesday, 9 January 2019



Rayuwa tana gudana ne cikin ayoyi biyu da bawa yake zabarwa kanshi daya dan ya rayu a cikin ta. 

1- Aya ta farko Allah yana cewa:
فمن اتبع هداي فلا يضل ولا يشقى
"duk wanda yabi shiriya ta (inji Allah) ba zai bata ba kuma ba
 zai sha wahala ya tabe ba. 

2- aya ta biyu Allah yana cewa:
ومن أعرض عن ذكري فإن له معيشة ضنكا... 
"duk wanda ya juya baya ga barin ambato na, to Lallai yana da rayuwa mai 'kunci.... 

Don haka sai ko wane Dan Adam ya zabawa kanshi ayar da zai tafiyar da rayuwarshi akai. 

Ya Allah ka raya mu rayuwar marabauta, ka tashe cikin masu tsoron ka, ka amintar damu Jin kunyar duniya da lahira. 

✍🏼.... Dan uwanku a musulunci :
*Anas Assalafy Fagge*
02/Sha'aban/1439 A.H 



Emotional Story, that can really moves Hearts :

The story is about a Man!,
 Who was poor, not only was he poor, he was a person who was very unattractive in fact, the Sahabas used to describe him as Hideous (Awful), If a person looks at him, just wants to look away.
 So this man Allah created him this way, poor, no status in society, and Hideous, and even his name was Ugly!
 His name was Julaybeeb (Ra)
 RasulAllah Sallallahu alayhi wassalam saw Julaybeeb one day and he had grown older in age, He said to him:
 How are you o Julaybeeb.
 That was such the case of RasulAllah (saw).
 How are you o Julaybeeb, and Julaybeeb said: Ya RasulAllah ﷺ do you think the only women I will get is in Jannah,
 Hoor-al-Ayn (Women of paradise) Insha’Allah?
 RasulAllahu ﷺ understood what he’s trying to say, that he is never going to be able to get married in this life.
 Is he just gonna die and just hope to meet Hoor-al-Ayn.
 RasulAllah ﷺ said: No, You are going to get a women from Dunyah Insha’Allah and also from the Akhira.
 So RasulAllah ﷺ said, O Julaybeeb go to so and so house and ask, they have a Daughter.
 He went and they rejected him, So RasulAllah ﷺ came to this man and said to him: “I want to ask for your Daughters hand.”
 He said: Allahu Akbar RasulAllah ﷺ ,what beautiful news this is that makes the eyes englighten the heart, SubhanAllah.
 RasulAllah ﷺ said, No, no it’s not for me.
 He said, Who for then?
 He ﷺ said, for Julaybeeb (Ra), and Suddenly his smile turned into a frown, and he said let me ask her mother, so he went home and said, RasulAllah ﷺ Has asked for our Daughter, She said Allahu Akbar! What great Honour! What brings comfort to the eyes and to the Heart.
 He said, No no not for RasulAllah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wassalam )! She asked him for who for? He said, for Julaybeeb and then the mother said, SubhanAllah we had better man than him coming and asking for our daughter and rejected him, we had greater families asking for her, and we refused them and now, The lowest of the low in society and the most hideous, we have to give our daughter to him?
 No no no please.
 There Daughter was in the background inside listening,
 So She came out said, What is this that I hear Mom and Dad?
 RasulAllah Sallallahu Alayhi Wassalam is on behalf of another man, Proposing that man to me, and you say No to RasulAllah ﷺ ?
 WALLAHI (by Allah) I will not refuse the request of RasulAllah Sallallahu Alayhi Wassalam and Julaybeeb is the only man I will marry!
 Allahu Akbar!
 When the news came to Julaybeeb, He was rejoiceful Masha’Allah and RasulAllah Sallallahu Alayhi Wassalam got the companions to look after him and donate so that he can get married.
 Time passed and there was one of the battles, then Julaybeeb was among the people who went into that Battle.
 RasulAllah ﷺ was there and the battle handled was victorious to the Muslims and then he went out as he usually does and looks amongst the Sahabahs,
 There were great Sahabahs who had died and He’s asking everybody’s asking, Where’s my uncle, where’s my brother, where’s my Son, where’s my so and so, but RasulAllah ﷺ was asking one Question.
 Where is my Julaybeeb? And everybody would say, we don’t know o RasulAllah ﷺ Nobody cares about Julaybeeb, only RasulAllah ﷺ cares about Julaybeeb.
 Where is my Julaybeeb? Everyone is saying, I don’t know o RasulAllah ﷺ and they will say o RasulAllah ﷺ have you seen my Uncle? He said, No, but have you seen my Julaybeeb? They say, No no we don’t know anything about him.
 So He went looking for Him, and a midst the Dead people He finally found Julaybeeb (Ra),
 Dead on the ground, and around him as a circle, there was seven of the enemies dead around him.
 And RasulAllah ﷺ when he saw this image, He stared at him and His beloved eyes flowed with Tears.
 He said.. He killed, seven of the enemies of Islam and then he was killed, Julaybeeb is of Me and I of Him, Julaybeeb is of Me, and He repeated it three times, Julaybeeb is of Me, He’s one of my Family and I am one of his Family.
 Then Julaybeeb had no other bed except the bed of the Palms of RasulAllah ﷺ .
 RasulAllah ﷺ carried Him on His own forearms, and He was Crying then suddenly his crying turned into a Smile and He looked away.
 He went,( RasulAllah ﷺ ) and buried Julaybeeb with His own Blessed hands, and They (Sahabahs) asked Him, O RasulAllah ﷺ why were you crying and then you were smiling and looked away?
 He said, I was Crying for the loss of my Dear family member Julaybeeb, no one cared about him but Me, and then Allah showed Me his place in Jannah, I saw His Soul in Jannah and there was one of His wives from the Hoor-al-Ayn running towards him (Julaybeeb), so I smiled that he finally got his wife which he wanted in Jannah and as she was running, the Heel of her leg showed, so I turned away I have no right to look at the wife of Julaybeeb.
 This Hadith is in Sahih Muslim and part of it is in also, At-Tirmidhi, which is completely authentic.

-) My dear sisters and brothers in Islam :

-Looking at people and comparing yourself with them will not make you better but bitter. 

-If you knew the sort of load the camel carries, you wouldn't ask why it takes those gentle strides.

So be thankful to Allah for what you have and enjoy it. You never know, someone may earnestly be praying for what you don't appreciate but take for granted.

-)Allah ( Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ) says :

'O you who believe! Seek help in patience and the prayer..'-(Qur’an 2:153)

...'Verily,with hardship there is relief'- (Qur’an 94:6) 

-) Allah Subhanahu WaTa’ala Also says :  
'And remind for indeed Reminder benefits the believers' (Qur'aan 51:55).
-) My dear sisters and brothers in Islam : 

"You must value those who advice you and call you towards goodness, they are the ones pushing you towards Jannah."
-)Learn More About islam via this Link below : :

Kindly do forward/share to all Muslims and Allah Will reward you In shaa'a Allah. Sharing of Knowledge is Sadaqatul-Jaariyah.

Sunday, 6 January 2019



Ana qoqarin rufe gidanshi saboda bai samu kudin haya ya biya ba...Sai ya nemi bashin kudi a hannun manajan kamfanin da yake aiki bai samu ba... Ya tuntubi attajirin unguwarsu nan ma bai samu ba... Sannan ya kira yan uwanshi a waya nan din ma bai dace ba... 

Sai yayi post a facebook wall dinshi yana neman taimako, amma iyaka abin da ya samu shine: 2likes da kuma 0 comments ... 

Sai ya tura messages guda 120 zuwa ga abokanshi da suke contact list dinshi yana neman su rantamar dubu 50... Abin haushi mutane 10 ne kawai suka yi reply na message din... 6 daga cikin 10 suma suka ce basu da abin da zasu bashi.. Mutum daya daga cikin 4 ne kawai ya bashi dubu 5 amma sauran sai uzuri suke badawa qarshe ma suka daina daukar wayarshi... 

A hankali har lokaci yayi maigidan haya ya kulle gidan, Ya bar iyalinshi a kofar gidan tare da tarkacen kayansu... Ya shiga lungu da sako bai samu tallafi ba har dare yayi... Yana tafiya a cikin duhu yana neman mafita sai ga babbar mota ta bi ta kanshi nan take ya mutu... 

Washegari sai labarin ya cika gari da labarin mutuwar shi... Facebook friends dinshi mutane dubu 2220 su kayi posting a wall dinshi suna jimamin mutuwar shi tare da fadin kyawawan halayenshi... 

Maigidan hanyar da ya samu labari da gudu ya zo ya budewa iyalinshi gidan yace su shiga ciki domin amsar ta'aziyya... 

Attajirin unguwarsu wanda ya hanashi bashin kudi Shima ya kwaso kayan abinci da kudin cefene ya ba iyalin mamacin yace a dafa domin baqi masu zuwa... 

Daga bisani sai aka fara shirye-shiryen binneshi... Inda anan take kwamiti na abokanshi suka tara kudi har N1,200,000 ta hanyar karo-karo... Domin ciyar da bakin da zasu zo daga wajaje daban-daban... 

'Yan uwanshi na nesa da na kusa wadanda ya bugawa waya lokacin da yake neman taimako suma suka zo da nasu gudunmuwar ta kudi mai yawa... 

Abokan wajen aikinshi suma suka tara kudi har N300,000 domin kar6ar rumfuna da kujeru da kuma sauran abubuwa...

TO WAI DUK MENENE WANNAN DIN? Me yasa ba zaku taimaki mutum a lokacin da yake tsananin buqatar taimako ba har sai mai kasancewa ta kasance? Me yasa ba zaku taimaki mutum dan lada ba sai dan mutane su fito su yabeku?? 
Me yasa kuke son yabon mutane akan yabon Allah da mala'ikun rahma? Me yasa ba zaku yi maganin matsala ba tun kafin ta girma? 

Haka musulunci yace ko haka 'yan uwantaka da zaman tare suka ce? 

Saboda irin wannan mugun halin namu mutane har nawa suka rasa ransu? Mata nawa suka zama zawarawa...' Ya'ya nawa ne suka zama marayu? 'Yan mata nawa suka zama karuwai? Mutanen kirki nawa suka fada ga halaka? 
Matasa nawa suka zama barayi da masu fashi da makami? Mutane nawa suka zama mabarata? 



Saturday, 5 January 2019


🌴Praise be to Allah Almighty

              *BURNT TOAST*
              A Good Advice

“When I was a little Boy, I remember one day in particular when she had made breakfast. She must have been very tired. My mom placed a plate of eggs, and rather burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed. Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how was I ready for school. I don’t remember what I replied, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jam on that toast and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I’ll never forget what he said: ‘Baby, I love burned toast.’

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy and I asked him if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, ‘Your Momma works hard day after day and she’s real tired. And besides a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!’ You know, life is full of imperfect things…..and imperfect people. I’m not the best football player either.

What I’ve learned over the years is that learning to accept each other’s faults – and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences – is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

We should learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of Allah. Because in the end, He’s the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where burnt toast isn’t a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact – as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!!”