PROHIBITION OF TREACHERY AND BREAKING ONE'S COVENANT


*Prohibition of Treachery and Breaking one's Covenant* 

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, "Allah, the Exalted, says: 'I will contend on the Day of Resurrection against three (types of) people: One who makes a covenant in My Name and then breaks it; one who sells a free man as a slave and devours his price; and one who hires a workman and having taken full work from him, does not pay him his wages.'''
[Al-Bukhari]. 

Commentary:  This Hadith highlights the importance of fulfillment of promise, the prohibition of the sale of a free person, and the payment of due wages to the labourers
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SHAH RUKH KHAN


SHAHRUKH KHAN 👊👊👊👊👊👊
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SWADES was the 1st Movie to be Shot in NASA. 

JAB TAK HAI JAAN was the 1st movie to be Shot in Discovery Channel Headquarters. 

FAN was the 1st movie to be Shot in Madame Tussauds. 

@iamsrk is the only actor whose movies were shot in these Places.

Only 2 Indian Movies were named in the '100 Best Films Of World Cinema' and DEVDAS in one of them.

MY NAME IS KHAN opened more than 20 Overseas Markets for Bollywood. 

Those Countries are:- 
Belgium
Ghana
England
Lebanon
Norway
Sri Lanka
Korea
Singapore
Beirut
Russia
New Zealand
Bahrain
Egypt
Hong Kong
Peru
Spain
Poland
Taiwan
Scotland
Turkey
Nigeria
Netherland

@iamsrk got World's Biggest Superstar tag by 
Forbes
CNN America
BBC America
BBC London
Google
Wikipedia
London Live
Time Magazine
La Times
Davos
Times Of London
Discovery Channel
Nat Geo
One News
Sky News
T&t World
Cgtn China
Global China

@iamsrk got named in the Book 51 Famous Indian People.
In South Africa, KUCH KUCH HOTA HAI made more money than Titanic at the time of its premiere.

 According to a survey conducted by India Today, 14% Indian Considers @iamsrk as the biggest Role Model, beating prime minister Narendra Modi and legendary cricketer sachin Teldunkar 

 According to an Old Survey, Indian youth thinks that SRK is the Best Indian Role Model

According to an Online Poll, @iamsrk is one of those 20 Most Admired Men in the World. 
 @iamsrk is one of the most Prominent People From India.

@iamsrk movies in overseas this decade :- 

MNIK- $23.5M
Ra. One- $10.8M
Don 2- $11.2M
JTHJ- $13.2M
Chennai Express- $19.3M
HNY- $16.7M
Dilwale- $26.6M
Fan- $10.3M
Raees- $14.5M
JHMS- $10.6M
Zero- $11.09M 

Only Actor to give Back to Back 11 movies which collected $10M+ in Ovs.

@iamsrk Won 

🔹Best Indian Citizen Award in 1997
🔹Padma Shri Award in 2005 
🔹Global Personality Award at FICCI in 2010 
🔹Greatest Global Living Legend in 2013

@iamsrk Interaction With Hollywood Singers - 

🔳Akon
🔳Akcent 
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TO ALL PARENTS


TO ALL PARENTS PLS !!! 🙏

There was a very brilliant boy, he always scored 100% in Science.
Got Selected for IIT Madras and scored excellent in IIT.
Went to the University of California for MBA.
Got a high paying job in America and settled there.
Married a Beautiful Tamil Girl.
Bought a 5 room big house and luxury cars.
He had everything that make him successful but a few years ago he committed suicide after shooting his wife and children.

*WHAT WENT WRONG?*

California Institute of Clinical Psychology Studied his case and found “what went wrong?”

The researcher met the boy's friends and family and found that he lost his job due to America’s economic crisis and he had to sit without a job for a long time. After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn't get any job. Then his house installment broke and he and his family lost the home. they survived a few months with less money and then he and his wife together decided to commit suicide. He first shot his wife and children and then shot himself.

The case concluded that the man was Programmed for success but he was not trained for handling failures.

Now let's come to the actual question, What are the habits of highly successful people?

First of all, there are many people who will tell you about success habits but today I want to tell you that even if you have achieved everything, yet there is a chance to lose everything, nobody knows when the next economic crisis will hit the world. The best success habit according to me is getting trained for handling failures.

I also request every parent, please not only program your child to be successful but teach them how to handle failures and also teach them proper lessons about life. Learning high-level science and maths will help them to clear competitive exams but a knowledge about life will help them to face every problem. Teach them about how money works instead of teaching them to work for money. Help them in finding their passion because these degrees will not help them in the next economic crisis and we don’t know when the next crisis will hit the world.

*"Success is a lousy teacher. Failure teaches you more."*
This POST worth READING & SHARING Pls !!! .🙏
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YADDA AKE SAI DA SAFE A SHIMFIƊA


YADDA AKE SAI DA SAFE A SHIMFIDA:

Shimfidar Ma'aurata wuri ne da za su kwanta har gari ya waye. Saboda haka akwai bukatar ya zama an gyara shi tsaf. Kuma ba hayaniya , ba haske . Ya zama za a samu natsuwa sosai.

 Mai gida zai dinga taimakawa matarsa. Wato kawo turaren daki harma da wanda za ta sa ajikinta. Zai kuma yi wanka ya sa turare kafin ya kwanta da yin asiwaki.

Matarsa kuma za tabbata ta tsaftace duka Daki. Ta gyara shimfida, ta sa turare. Ta yi ado da bargo yadda zai ba da sha'awa.

Ta yi wanka da wanke ba ki, ta shafe jikinta da Humra mai dadin kamshi. Ta sa kaya masu jan hankali.

*HANYOYIN DA AKE SAI DA SAFE :*
1 - Ma'aurata za su kwanta ne manne da junansu. Mai gida ya rungumeta . Ko kuma ita ta kwanta kan kirjinsa, ko kan kafadarsa. Lalle ya zama jikinsu a hade ya ke.

2 - Idan kawai bacci za ku yi. Sai ki ja mayafi ki lullube ku duka. Ki sumba ce shi. Ki ce : Allah Ya tashe mu lafiya, Ina son ka . Ku yi adduoinku na kwanciya bacci.

3 - Mai gida ya sumbace ta sau uku idan ya na nufin gayyatarta...Ya sumbaci goshinta ya ce : Masoyiya ta. Ya sumbaci kumatunta ya ce : kina cikin raina. Ya sumbaci lebenta ya ce : Ina kaunarki sosai. Shikenan za ta mika wuya. Idan bai yi ba, ke sai ki yi gayyatar. 

A karshe dai , duk Ma'aurata da su ke haka in za su yi bacci. Za su kasance cikin kauna da Begen juna.

Duba rubutun yadda za ka Birge matarka ta zama masoyiyarka.
✍ *Amina Yusuf Gwamna*
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TARBAR OGA


*Tarbar oga daga zauren sirrin rike miji whatsapp group*

    *Admin sirrin rike miji*

        *+2348023795456*

Mu kula da kanmu kuma mu gyara jikinmu,mu nunawa mazajenmu
soyayya.Idan yadawo jeki
rungumeshi ki hada goshinki da nashi kice" u are welcome darling",seyaji har cikin
kwakwalwanshi.. ..ki kama hanunshi kije kicire mai kaya kirakashi bandaki inda halima kiyi mai wanka,ki rakoshi ki gogemai jiki da towel
sannan kisamai kaya marar nauyi....kijash
i kufito falo kinamai hira me dadi yanacin abinci
inyagama ki tattare plates kikai kitchen ko gun wanke wanke.kije
ki kara wanka kifeshe
jikin ki da turare me dadin kamshi kisa kaya marar nauyi kaman evenin show ko English gown marar nauyi...kizo kizauna akan cinyanshi kice "HI darling" zakiga
to salon ze sanja....mata suna yawan complain
wai mijinsu baya dawowa da wuri daga kasuwa
ko aiki,to yadawo an batamai rai dan me
gobe ze dawo dawuri akuma batamai rai din...in mijinki bedawowa da wuri kibarshi, kiyimai duk abunda na lissafa
asama in kin zauna a cinyannashi se ki riko
kanshi ki hada goshinshi da naki kidan ciji hancinshi ko kumatu zedanyi kara inyace
meyamiki,seki amsa cikin
shagawaba kice"to ba kaine kaki dawowa da wuriba yau,naita jiranka har nagaji.kwalliya n da
nama har ya goge" nitsuwa zeyi ya baki hakuri kuma gobe baze sake yakara dawowa ba
dawuriba.kinga yadda akeyi ba wai ki haushi da masifaba kamar kekika
haifeshi...maza kaman jarirai suke, lallabi sukeso da ladabi.kuma inkika
musu riban nakine.Domin ga lada agun ubangiji ga kuma soyayya agun miji...mata don ALLAH mu kula mu kwatan wa kanmu hakki.....munaj i muna kallo wata awaje da kwacemana miji... Da
wannan kalaman take
kwacemusu zuciya.In
kuna dan zaune kizama me kwanciya ajikin
mijinki ko kuma kimai kiss haka kawai inkuna zaune kidan taso
kaman meyin wani
abu ki zagayo tabayan kujera ta sama ki dago kanshi kisa bakinki anashi ki tsotsi abinki nakine,in son samu kisa
kankara bakinkin yadan jima kadan sekicire
kapinnan bakin naki yadau sanyi sekiwa Oga kiss...seyaji har cikin
kwakwalwanshi....kuma bawai dole se da dare
kuma adaki akan gado ake HARKA BA..A a ba
haka abun yakeba,darana da safe da yamma duk lokacin da kike bukata ba
sekinjira Oga kullum ace shi yake nemankiba...kem a wataran ki bushi iska kinemeshi,kiyi wanka
tsab ki wanke HQ a turarashi da turare me
dadin kamshi,ki shafa mai me santsi a nononki kisa sleepin dress dinki
musamman chest out kinadoso shi zeji tsikar
jikinshi ya tashi...kinazam a ki dale kansa kiciremai kaya inzeyi magana kisa
bakinki anashi kina murza kan nononshi da
hannunki...kark i sake kullum yazo yahau kanki yayi ta sukuwa kaman wata doki badole
seyasa banana a HQ bane kawai zeyi releasing,there are numerous ways kaman da tafin kapa ko tsakankanun nonuwanki ETc inkikaga gamanan sau kasa da hannayenki
zuwa" Oga at the top" watoí ¼í½ kisa
dankaramin yatsanki abakin buliní ¼í½ kina
masa tafiyar tsutsa tare da saka harce kina dan
lasa kaman meshan lollipop...ki hada nonuwanki waje daya
kisaka bananan a tsakaninsu kina sama da kasa inkingama kihada tafin kafanki ki tabbata
kinshafa mai sanna kisa banana a tsakiyansu
kina sama da Kasa nanma ahaka har ya
releasin dis are ways n tips dat should b often
considered mu dear sisters...Allah bamu zaman lafia agidan mazajenmu wanda basuyi aureba kuma Allah basu mazaje nagari Admin sirrin rike miji whatsapp group..
bissalam. 

     *Admin sirrin rike miji*

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        *Call or whatsapp domin tambaya Ko naiman shawara akan abinda ya shafi aure ko magani*
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TSARABA GA MASU NIYYAR AURE


TSARABAR WANNAN MAKON GA MASU NIYYAR AURE
wannan tsaraba ce mai matukar muhimmanci musamman ga 'yan mata masu niyyar aure, ko amarya, kai harma da uwargida,
Shi wannan hadin yana kara ni'ima da nishadi sannan kuma yana magance matsalolin da ke rage martabar mace yana kuma sa juriya yayin da ake yin jima'i.... yanda akeyi shine:
1 - karas sai ki yayyankashi kanana-kanana sai ki shanyashi ya bushe
2 - zangarniyar zogale kwara daya1
3 - garin jir-jir na asali
4 - garin dabino
5 - da rumzali
sai ki hada su guri daya ki dakasu sosai suyi laushi sai ki hada da mazankwaila sai ki rinka sha karamin cokali da nono sau daya a rana. Allah ya bada xaman lpia amare.
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YADDA AKE CEWA INA ƘAUNARKI/KA CIKIN NISHAƊI


YADDA AKE FADAR INA KAUNARKI / KA CIKIN SHAUKI

Fadawa kogin soyayya abu ne mai sauki. Hakama Fada wa Masoyi ko masoyiya , ina son ka /ki, bai da wahala. Sai dai ya kan yiwa masoya wahala idan lokaci yai tsawo. Musamman ace kalmar ta dinga tasiri tamkar farkon soyayyarku ne. Kuma lalle akwai bukata yawan fadar Ina kaunarki / ka. Sai dai a tabbata da gaske ake. Kuma cikin hanyoyi daban-daban. Niyya da tasirin kalmomin shi ne muhimmi. Shi ke sanya bugawa zuciya. Ya sa shakuwa da Bege. Ya habaka soyayya ta dinga karuwa.

Muna so ace dukkan sanda ka fadi "Ina kaunarki / ka" Ta zama ta sanya farin ciki da harbawa zuciya, ga masoyi da ke sauraro. Saboda haka sai anbi wasu hanyoyi daban-daban. Cikin canja salo tare da 'yan dabaru. Ayyukanka na magana ga masoyiyarka, ba ma tare da furta kalma ba. Misali :

Wajen kwanaki 4 kenan , ina cikin bacin rai da damuwa. Ni kaina ba zan ce ga asalin matsalata ba. Ina zaune kan tabarma zuciyata cike da jin haushi Mai gidana. Na dora ruwa zan yi tuwon masara kenan. Sai na ji waya : kar ki dora tuwo yau , ki shirya bayan isha za ki rakani anguwa". Sai ya kashe wayarsa.
Duk da kasancewarsa talaka, amma yana da kokari akan gidansa. Sai dai kuma ba ya birge ni. 
Tunani na fada: Anguwa kuma? To ina za mu? Wani abu ne ya faru a gidansu Goggo? Nan da nan na canja kaya. Ina idar da sallar isha kuwa sai gashi. Yai ma na shata adaidaita ( Opay ). Bayan mun zauna na ce lafiya kuwa ? Ya ce kalau . Sai ya kamo hannuna ya dora akan cinyarsa. Kawai sai na ji wani sanyi araina. Ya na riqe da hannuna har muka isa Yahuza Suya. Ya biya adaidaita ta cikin waya. Mu ka sauka ya ce zo mana. Ya nuna min kujerun waje na dai-dai shuke-shuke. Shi kuma ya wuce wajen siyayya. Sai gashi da kaza da lemo ( ice cream ). Ya bude muna ci. Sai ya sa hannu a aljihunsa. Ya ce miko hannunki. Sai gashi ya dora min wata guntuwar takarda . Cikinta ya rubuta da kansa : INA KAUNARKI SOSAI, A MATA BABU IRINKI " Habawa sai na jawo hannunsa na dinga sumbata ba adadi. Na kara kurawa takardar nan ido ina rike da hannunsa gam. Har sai da na ji hawaye sun fara gangarowa a kumatuna. Kawai na mike na fada jikinshi. Sai ya ce ke : Mutane na kallonmu. Ni kuwa nai kamar ban ji ba. Bayan na gama juye-juye na ajikinsa. Na dago na ce: Wallahi na ji dadi sosai. Sai na ji nan da nan zuciyata ta cika makil da soyayyarka. Na gode kwarai. Muna gama wa kuwa ya zaro waya ya kara mana shata adaidaita. Muna shiga na kwanta jikinsa, ya riko ni har muka isa gida. 
Sai na killace takarda ta da kyau. Akodayaushe ganinta na tuno min da fitarmu. Kuma inji wani sabon farin ciki. Gaskiya da na dauka ma, mijina bai iya soyayya ba. Shiyasa sam ba ya birgeni acan baya.

To kunga Akwai ayyuka da dama da su ka wakilci "INA KAUNARKI SOSAI" A wannan labari. Wato yin furuci ➕Aiki = Soyayya Ingantacciyya. 

*HANYOYIN FADAR INA KAUNARKI / KA :*

*LOKUTA :* Masoya su dinga fadar ina kaunarki a lokuta daban-daban. 
1 -Da safe za'a rabu ( zai je aiki).
2 - Lokacin haduwa ( ya na shigowa gida). 
3- Lokacin da za ayi bacci .

*YARE :* Amfani da yare kala-kala wajen fadar Ina sonki. Larabci , da fulatanci , da Barbanci , da Yarbanci , da dai sauransu. 

Larabci : Uhibbuki 
Fulatanci : Mi yidi ma
Barbanci : Nya Raina
Yarbanci : mo nife re
Inyamuranci : a hurum gi n'anya .
Turanci : I love you

*WURARE :* Canja wurare daban-daban koyaushe. Ka fada a daki. Anjima ka same ta a madafa ( kitchen) . In za ka fita abakin kofa. In ka ajiye ta a unguwa.

*RUBUTU :* Rubuta kalmar ina kaunarki / ka. 
1 - A rubuta da rubutunka / ki a takarda ko wani kwali ( cardboard paper) a bawa Masoyiya/ yi.
2 - Tura ma masoya ta waya. A sakon kar ta kwana ( text message) .
3 - Katin soyayya ku siya ku bawa Masoyanku.

*HOTUNA :* Tura hoton filawa , zuciya , tsuntsaye mai jan hankali. Da mai hade da kalmomin soyayya. Ta cikin Hanyoyin yanar gizo ( email , Whatsapp, ...).

*KYAUTA :* Kyauta babbar alama ce ta soyayya. Ana son ba da kyauta daga lokaci zuwa lokaci. Misali : Turare , sutura, zobe , agogo , da dai sauransu.

A karshe dai dukkanin wadannan da ma suran irinsu. Ayyukane da ke fassara cewa :" Ina KAUNARKI / KA". Kunga daukarsu da muhimmanci. Da sabawa da yinsu acikin rayuwarmu zai dinga habaka soyayyarmu.

✍ *Amina Yusuf Gwamna*
Litattafai da aka duba:
1 - Islamic Education.
By Iqraa charitable society. Jeddah, Saudi Arabia.

2 - 101 Amazing ways to say "I love you ! ".
By Cucan Pemo.
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SIRRIN KISSA


🎈🎀🎈🎀🎈
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 *SIRRIN KISSA* 

*YADDA ZAKIJA HANKALIN MAI GIDA YAKARA SONKI*

*KISSAR IYA GIRKI🍜*

 _Kissar iya girki yana da matuqar mahimmaci 
wata xata ji ance kissar iya girki tai mamki au kissar ma harda ta girki sosae ai iya girki shine mace ya xaman to kin iya tsara girki na gargajiya da na xamani 

 *KISSAR SHAGWABA😫* 

 _Shagwaba wata dabiace da ake son mace ta iya sosai salo salo,domin ita itama tana cikin abinda dake janyo hankalin namiji_  
 _Se de anaso kikula da halin mijinki da kuma lokacin kuma lokacin dayake cikin nishadi,kada ki taddashi cikin bacin rai kikama yimasa shagwaba,sam wannan bazai_ _burgeshiba,sai kin kula yana cikin nishadi,yana tsaka da hutawa zaki sameshi ko ki fada kanshi,koki rikoshi kina magana cikin kissar shagwaba kmr zaki kuka,kina fadin"..wane don Allah nifa kaza_ _nakeso".kidinga de yin magana cikin kissa tamkr de yarinyr goye_ 

   *KISSAR KALLO🙄*

 *Iya motsi yana da muhimmanci ga mace don ta sanya yadda zata ja hankalin mijinta, motsin mace kala-kala ne, wani* *motsin na ido ne, ko jiki, ko kwanciya da sauransu. Wasu masana suna ganin mafi muhimmancin bangare shi ne fuska, sai dai ina ganin ya kamata ne mace ta san wane bangare ne a jikinta motsinsa ya fi jan hankalin mijinta* .
 *Wani kallo ne yake rikita shi don haka idan matarsa ta yi masa fari da* *idanuwa to shi ke nan wannan ya fi ye masa duk abin da yake cikin wannan duniyar. Wasu* *matan suna kallon mazajensu kamar suna harara, ko kuma ba su san wani abu mai sunan murmushi ga* *mazajensu ba, ba su san su lumshe musu idanuwa ba, wannan yakan sanya mazajen ko yaya suka samu wasu ‘yan mata masu musu a waje shike nan ke kuma taciki gida kirasa gane kan oga toh mata sai mu dage da iya* *kissa* *dan in kin iya kissa babu abinda wata mace ta waje xata yi ta birge oga in ma tayi ke xaki fado mai a rai kiga babu yadda xai manta dake duk inda yake kina xuciyar shi*


*KISSAR TAPIA👣*

 _Iya tafiya yana daga ciki jan hankalin namiji ga mace wasu maxan suna hango mace sai gaba daya_ _hankalinsu yayi kanta SBD kawai tafiyar ta inkina gaban oga kina tafiya kamar kina tausayawa kasa tare d karairaya da jujjuya jiki,da kuma motsa kirji d saura wurarren da oga xai rikice ki ga duk yawani susuce_



 *RAYUWAR MU AYAU GROUP* 
  *Daga yar uwarku sumayya*📚🖍
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DANGANE DA KASHE MUSULMAI DA AKE YI A INDIYA


DANGANE DA KASHE MUSULMAI DA AKE YI A ƘASAR INDIYA

Bissmillahir Rahmanir Raheem.

Assalamu Alaikum warahamatullah Wabarakatuhu. 'Yan uwa barkanmu da Warhaka, fatan kowa yana lafiya.

Izuwa yanzu dai na san kusan kowa da ga cikinku ya samu irin ɓarnar da ake yi wa musulmi a ƙasar India, don haka ba sai na ja doguwar magana a wannan fanni ba.

Fannin da zan ɗanyi tsokaci akai shi ne: Wato ɗabi'a ce ta ƙananan ustazai, ko 'yan bana bakwai, ko gama garin mutane waɗanda su ke da ƙarancin fahimta dangane da abubuwan da ke faru na yau da kullum, idan irin wannan al'amari ya faru za ka ga nan da nan kansu yayi zafi, ƙirjinsu kuma ya ɗau ɗumi. Tabbas ko dabba ce aka taɓa mata nata dole ta ji zafi, kuma dole ta ji cewa tana buƙatar ɗaukar fansa. Ballantana mutane masu hankali, don haka abin da aka yi mana ba mu ji daɗinsa ba, kuma mun yi Allaah wadai da shi. To amma me? Wani mataki ya kamata mu ɗauka?

Na ga rubututtuka da dama na abokai da makusanta akan wannan lamari da kuma na waɗanda babu abinda ya haɗa mu. Wasu sun yi kyau wasu kuma ba'a cewa komai. To a ƙarƙashin wannan, zan so mu fahimci cewa wannan abu da ya faru ba komai bane face ɗaya daga cikin alamomin ƙarshen duniya. Kuma haka abin zai ci gaba da kasancewa har sai alƙawarin Allaah ya tabbata a kanmu. 

To, idan irin wannan abu ya faru ne ya kamata mu yi? Akwai masu tunanin kawai a fito mana a gwabza, to in an ce a gwabza kuna da makaman yaƙar maƙiyanku irin wanda ya fi nasu? Shin cewa aka yi a fito a yi surutu, me surutun zai amfanar da mu? Shin in zai mana amfani ma, su ya kamata ace su yi? Ta wace hanya ya kamata ayi? Kai da kake hawa yanar gizo kana wannan ɓaɓatu feesabilillah matakin da ya kamata ka ɗauka kenan? Shin kai da kake ta zage-zage da aibata dukkan mabiyan sauran addinan da suke da alaƙa da lamarin ka na da hujjar da zaka kare kanka in aka rutsa ka ka yi bayani dangane da abubuwan ɓatanci da ka faɗa a kansu? Shin su jaruman Fina-Finai musulmai da kake cewa sun ƙi fitowa su yi magana, tsakani da Allaah maganar su wane irin canji za ta haifar? Shin wai ma musulmanmu na indiyan sun damu da addinin nasu kamar yadda ya kamata da har za su fito su ɗauki matakin da ya dace? Shin ka san irin halin da su kansu jaruman su ke ciki kuwa da har kake neman jawabi daga gare su?

Shin kamata yayi mu ɗauki hanyar gyara aiyukanmu da halayenmu ko kuma kamata yayi mu fito mu yi hargagi kawai a fito a share mu maganar ta wuce? Shin za mu aminta da cewa mun saɓa wa mahaliccinmu ta hanyar kaucewa umurnin Manzonsa mun ɗauki ƙauna mun danƙawa maƙiyanmu wanda hakan yasa yanzu mu ke fuskantar abinda muka shuka ko kuma za mu fake ne da liƙawa wasu laifin ko da hakan ya dace ko bai dace ba?

Shin za mu ci gaba da zargin juna ne da ganin laifin juna ko kuma za mu shiga taitayinmu ne mu yi yunƙurin gyara baki ɗaya?

Ba Za su daina kashe mu ba, ba za su daina tsanar mu ba, ba za su daina ƙoƙarin ganin bayan mu ba. Amma dukkan su ne su ke yi mana hakan? Shin za mu bar zafin rai da mummunar fahimta ta sa mu tsani waɗanda ba su ji ba basu gani ba ne ko kuma za mu miƙe ne mu koma kan tafarkin da ya dace?

Bani da iko da kowa, bani da ikon dakatar da ta'addanci, amma ina da ikon hana kaina ɗaukan nusarin hukuncin da bai dace ba ga waɗanda ba su cancanta ba a kuma lokacinda bai dace ba.

Allaah ya ƙara tsare mu.

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'YAR UWA KI JI WANNAN


🌹idan kika ga mijinki hankalinsa yafi karkata wajen kishiyarki,to ba ita zaki zarga ba,kuma kar ki zarki mijiki ,ki fara zarkin kanki 👉abu na farko da zaki duba shine dame ta fiki,wanda har ya ja hankalin mijinku gareta,cikin nutsuwa da salo zaki bibiyeta ki saka ma ido cikin wayewa ta yadda ba za ta fahimci kina bin al,amuranta ba, ki fara dubawa meye gareta,idan iya girki ta fikidashi ,kema sai ki dage ,domin mafi yawancin mata bawai girkinne basu iya ba ,nutsuwa ne basa a lokacin da suke girkin da kuma ganda suke jawo matsalar rashin iya girki ga mata,idan kuma iya kwalliya ra fiki dashi ,ke mai zai hana ki koyi yadda ake kwalliyar💁tinda kema mace ce kamar yadda take mace,idan kuma tsafta ta fiki dashi ,ke kuma idan kinso zaki fita iya tsaftar ma ,domin shi tsafta ai ba koya ma mutun ake yiba ,duk wanda ya zama kazami shi yaso,atakaice dai ki lura da ita sosai me takewa miji da har hankalinsa yafi karkata zuwa gareta,kada kiya da darajarki ta ya mace da allah ya miki👌

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TSAYIN GASHI


💆🏻💇🏻 *GYARA SHINE MACE* 👸🏻

 _TSAYIN GASHI_ 🧝🏻‍♀
Sister idan nace miki gashinki zai qara tsayi kizama yalasha a sati biyu ta hanyar amfani da abubuwa natural wanda ko Naira dubu daya bazaki kasheba a hadasu🥰

 *Abubuwan bukata* 
Coconut oil 1 cup.
Albasa medium 1
Aloevera 2 small

 *Method* :
Sister kisamu albasa medium size guda daya ki gurzata da grater saiki dinga diba kina sakawa a rariya kina matse ruwa daga cikinta acikin bowl. Ki ajiye ruwan albasar agefe, Ki dauko Aloevera qanana guda biyu ko babba guda daya saiki yimusu yanka qanana,kisamu tukunya qarama kizuba coconut oil kofi 1 saiki Dora akan wuta kizuba aloe Vera dakika yanka aciki kibarshi ya tafasa kamar minti 15 saiki sauke,kibarshi ya huce, saiki samu roba mai spray kisaka bututu ki tsiyaya man kwakwa mai Aloevera aciki yadda man kadaine zai shiga cikin robar saiki dauko ruwan Albasa shima kizubashi aciki,saiki rufe robar ki fesa shi a gashinki wanda yake a tsefe, kina fesawa kina saka yatsunki kina shigarda man cikin gashin sosai. Saiki bashi mintuna 40, kafin ki wanke. Zaki maimaita wannan sau biyu a sati. Idan kikayi 14 days kina haka,hmmm ai sister waqa a bakin mai ita tafi dadi.

✍🏻 *MRS KABEER*
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ABUBUWAN DA YA KAMATA MATA SU YI KAFIN SOMA JIMA'I

Abubuwan Da Yakamata Mata Su yi Kamin Soma Jima'i:

Hattara:Kada ki Karanta Idan Baki Da Aure:

Abubuwan Da Yakamata Mata Su yi Kamin Soma Jima'i:

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(cikin littafinta mai suna jima'i domin ma'aurata)

1, Abinci da mace zata ci kamin jima'i- Bako wani irin abinci mace ya kamata taci ba kamin tayi kwanciyar jima'i da mijinta, domin da akwai wasu abincin da basu dace mace ta cisu ba daf da lokacin da zata soma jima'i. Domin wasu abincin suna iya ragewa mace ni'imarta ko kuma su kwantar mata da sha'awarta na jima'i, don hake ne ya zama dole mace ta san irin abinci da ya kamata taci kamin gudanar da jima'i.

Abinci mai nauyi bai kamci mace ba a awanni hudu ko uku kamin ta soma jima'i a cewar Anna Robensun wata mai illimin girke-girke.

A nazarinta abinci mai nauyi yakan jawo kasala ga mace kuma ya hanata kuzari a lokacin jima'i, inda ta bada shawarar cewa duk matar data san da akwai aikin kwanciya na jima'i a gabanta to dole ne ya kasance awanni 6 kamin lokacin bata ci abinci mai nauyi ba.

Dukkannin masana illimin girke-girke da kayan makulashe sun nuna cewa, mace kamin jima'i abincinta kada ya wuce abinci mara nauyi, kuma su kasance masu ruwa-ruwa ba busassu ba.

Abinci irinsu taliya mai ruwa-ruwa, fatai-fatai da ire irensu sune abinci da mace zata ci kamin jima'i. Haka kuma kifi ko soyayyen kwai mai ruwa-ruwan wanda bai soyu sosai ba yafi dafaffe amfani a jikin mace kamin jima'i. Haka shima ferfesu da naman da aka gasa mai ruwa-ruwa a jiki yafi tsirai ko balangu amfani a jikin mace kamin jima'i. http://sirinrikemiji.blogspot.com/2018/07/abubuwan-da-yakamata-mata-su-yi-kamin.html#.XkV9f9QjnFc.whatsapp


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FASSARAR WAƘAR YAAD AA RAHA HAI


FASSARAR WAƘAR YAAD AA RAHA HAI 

Waƙa: Yaad Aa Raha Hai 

Shiri: Disco Dancer 

Shekara: 1982

Sauti: Bappi Lahiri

Rubutawa: Anjaan 

Kamfani: Sa Re Ga Ma

Rerawa: Bappi Lahiri

Fassarawa: Haiman Raees 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar 

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Kahan hum kahan tum

A ina nake, a ina kike? 

*. Huye tum kahan gum

Ina kika ɓace ne? 

*. Aa bhi ja, aa bhi ja ek baar

Don Allah ki dawo mana ko sau ɗaya ne. 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar 

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Kahan hum kahan tum

A ina nake, a ina kike? 

*. Huye tum kahan gum

Ina kika ɓace ne? 

*. Aa bhi ja, aa bhi ja ek baar

Don Allah ki dawo mana ko sau ɗaya ne. 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Yaaron, main toh yahan jeeta raha saare gham dil ke bhulake

Abokai, ina rayuwa anan ne tare da mantawa da dukkan damuwar zuciyata. 

*. Deke tumhe saari khushi

Bayan na samar muku da dukkan farinciki. 

*. Maine, maine yahan kuch bhi toh paaya nahi sab kuch paake

Ban ci ribar komai ba anan duk kuwa da cewa na samu nasarar komai. 

*. Mujhko mili kya zindagi 

Wace irin rayuwa ce haka na samu (kaina a ciki)? 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar 

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Kahan hum kahan tum

A ina nake, a ina kike? 

*. Huye tum kahan gum

Ina kika ɓace ne? 

*. Aa bhi ja, aa bhi ja ek baar

Don Allah ki dawo mana ko sau ɗaya ne. 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Aye dil, main wohi tu wohi, wohi hai yeh duniya ke mele

Ke zuciya, da ni da ke duka ɗaya muke kamar yadda kowane taro yake a duniya. 

*. Bichde woh din jane kahan

Ina waɗancan ranakun su ka tafi ne? 

*. Roothe sab yahan jane kahan reh gaye hum toh akele 

Kowa nan a fusace yake, mu dai muka ji da kawunanmu anan. 

*. Awaaz de kisko yahan 

Wa ya kamata mu kira? 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar 

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Kahan hum kahan tum

A ina nake, a ina kike? 

*. Huye tum kahan gum

Ina kika ɓace ne? 

*. Aa bhi ja, aa bhi ja ek baar

Don Allah ki dawo mana ko sau ɗaya ne. 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Wada, wada raha saathi mere tere liye gaata chala jaon 

Abar ƙauna, na yi alƙawari zan ci gaba da rera waƙa wa ni da ke. 

*. Tu mera dil, tu meri jaan 

Ke ce zuciyata, ke ce rayuwata. 

*. Jeena, jeena mera jeena yehi tere liye zindagi lutaun 

Rayuwata taki ce kuma zan sadaukar da ita wa ke. 

*. Tu joh nahi kya hai yahan

Babu komai anan matuƙar dai babu ke 

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar 

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

*. Kahan hum kahan tum

A ina nake, a ina kike? 

*. Huye tum kahan gum

Ina kika ɓace ne? 

*. Aa bhi ja, aa bhi ja ek baar

Don Allah ki dawo mana ko sau ɗaya ne.

*. Yaad aa raha hai tera pyar

Ina tuna soyayyarki 

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CORONAVIRUS NA IYA SHIGA MAKKA?


Corona Na Iya Shiga Makkah Da Madinah?

Daga Malam Zakariyya Shu'aib Adam

Bayan hukumomin Saudiyya sun fitar da sanarwar dakatar da Umrah zuwa wani lokaci saboda Covid-19, cece-kuce ya kaure tsakanin mutane kan ko yana yiwuwa Covid-19 ta shiga Makkah da Madinah ko a'a? Masu ganin cewa cutar ba za ta iya shiga waɗannan garuruwa biyu masu alfarma ba na kafa hujja ne da hadisin da Bukhari (1880) da Muslim (1379) suka rawaito cewa Annabi (SAW) yace:

 (عَلَى أَنْقَابِ الْمَدِينَةِ مَلَائِكَةٌ لَا يَدْخُلُهَا الطَّاعُونُ وَلَا الدَّجَّالُ)

 (Akwai wasu mala'iku tsaye a ƙofofin Madinah, annoba da Dujal ba za su shige ta ba)

Duba da wannan hadisi, mutum na iya cewa: annobar corona ba za ta iya shiga Makkah da Madinah ba.

A wani hannu kuma, wasu daga cikin mallamai na ganin cewa annobar corona na iya shiga garuruwan, shi yasa ma mahukuntar ƙasa mai tsarki suka dakatar da yin Umrah don gudun kada wani daga wata ƙasa ya kai cutar harami. Waɗannan mallamai na ganin cewa wancan hadisi na sama, yana nufin wata annoba ce ƙayyadadda, ba duka annoba ba.
Shi yasa mallaman suke cewa: akwai bambanci tsakanin الطاعون (Aɗɗá'ún) da kuma الوباء (Al-wabã'). A duka hadisan, Annabi (SAW) cewa yayi: الطاعون, bai ce الوباء ba.

Dalilan da ke ƙarfafa cewa corona na iya shiga Makkah da Madinah da kuma cewa akwai bambanci tsakanin الطاعون da الوباء, suna da yawa, amma ga kaɗan daga cikinsu:

1) Ahmad da Ɗabaraniy da Abu Ya'ala sun rawaito hadisi daga Aisha (RA) ta tambayi Annabi (SAW) kan ma'anar الطاعون, sai yace:

(غدة كغدة البعير يخرج في المراق والإبط)

(Kumburi ne irin na raƙuma, yana fitowa a ciki da hammata) 

Dangane da ma'anar الطاعون a yaren larabci kuwa, An-Nawawiy yace a cikin sharhin Muslim:

(الطاعون: قروح تخرج في الجسد فتكون في الآباط أو المرافق أو الأيدي أو الأصابع وسائر البدن، ويكون معه ورم وألم شديد)

(Addã'ún: daji ne (cancer) dake fita a jikin mutum. Yana kasancewa ne a hammata, gwiwar hannu ko hannu, ƴan yatsu da sauran jiki. Yana sabbaba kumburi da kuma zafi mai tsanani) 

2) Shi kuwa الوباء, yana nufin annoba gamammiya dake shiga mutane da yawa kuma take aukuwa a garuruwa da yawa. Ya zo a cikin "Al-Mu'ujamul Ma'aniy" cewa:

(الوباء: كل مرض شديد العدوى، سريع الانتشار من مكان إلى مكان، يصيب الإنسان والحيوان والنَّبات، وعادةً ما يكون قاتلا)

(Al-Wabá'u: Duk wata cuta mai tsananin tashi daga wani zuwa wani (infectious), mai saurin tashi daga wani wuri zuwa wani. Tana shiga mutum, dabbobi da kuma tsirrai. Tana kisa a al'adance)

Ibnu Hajar ya hakaito maganar Iyád a cikin Fathul Bári cewa: "Duka الطاعون, to الوباء ne, amma ba duka الوباء ne الطاعون ba." Wannan itace fahimtar Ibnul Ƙayyim a Zadul Ma'ad.

3) Abinda zai ƙara fito maka da cewa corona, a matsayinta na الوباء, tana iya shiga Makkah da Madinah domin ba الطاعون bace, hadisin da Bukhari (2643) ya rawaito daga Abul Aswad:

(أَتَيْتُ الْمَدِينَةَ وَقَدْ وَقَعَ بِهَا مَرَضٌ ، وَهُمْ يَمُوتُونَ مَوْتًا ذَرِيعًا)

(Na zo Madinah (a zamanin Umar (RA)), alhalin wata cuta ta shigo garin. Mutane na mutuwa da sauri)

Wannan hadisi yana nuna cewa annoba gamammiya na iya shiga garin Madinah tun da gashi mutane sa yawa sun mutuwa cikin ƙanƙanin lokaci. Amma الطاعون ba zai iya shiga ba saboda akwai mala'iku da za su kare garin.

4) A likitance, الطاعون shine Plague. Plague epidemic ko pandemic bacterial infection ne da ke samun mutane da wasu dabbobi. Itace cuta mafi kusa da fassarar da Annabi (SAW) ya gayawa A'isha, wacce Imam Nawawiy ya faɗaɗa. Daga cikin alamomin plague, akwai kumburin lymph nodes, musamman na hammata (axillary lymph node) da kuma wuya. 
Plague ana kamuwa da ita ne ta hanyar cizo daga infected fleas, ko kuma yayin mu'amala da dabba mai ɗauke da cutar.

Shi kuma الوباء, yana nufin mujarradin epidemic ko pandemic disease ba tare da lura da cewa Plague ne ko ba Plague ba. Ka ga Plague cuta ce da bacteria ke sabbabawa (Yersinia pestis), amma ita الوباء tana iya samuwa ta dalilin bacteria (kamar Plague, Cholera Leptospirosis) ko kuma virus (kamar Covid-19, Ebola, Influenza). 

A taƙaice, wannan bayani na nuna cewa Covid-19 ba الطاعون bace, الوباء ce. Kenan tana iya shiga garuruwan Makkah da Madinah. Saboda haka, mahukuntan Saudiyya sun yi daidai da suka dakatar da Umrah har zuwa wani lokaci da Allah zai yaye cutar. Abinda zai ƙara tabbatar maka da haka shine: A yanzu haka, akwai cases 103 na Covid-19 da aka tabbatar a Saudiyya. In da ace Covid-19 itace الطاعون, to da tabbas ba za ta shiga Makkah da Madinah ba. 

Allahu A'alam
Rubutawar Mal. Ibrahim Khalil Abdullahi
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*JININ AL'ADA YA DAUKE MATA BAYAN ASUBAHI*

*Tambaya*

Assalamu Alaikum dan Allah malam inada tambaya matar datake jinin al'ada sai ya dauke mata da Asuba to wani sallah zata rama kafin asuban kokuma ya dauke karfe biyu shikuma wani sallah zata rama kafin tayi Azahar?

*Amsa*

Wa'alaykumussalam 
Idan jini ya dauke kafin fitowar alfijiri toh za'a rama sallar isha'i..
Idan kuma ya dauke da karfe biyu toh zata yi sallar azahar ne kawai.

Wallahu a'alam

*Malam Nuruddeen Muhammad (Mujaheed)*

15/03/2019

Daga *ZAUREN FIQHUS SUNNAH*
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SHARHIN FIM ƊIN TANHAJI


Daga mahangar #NayaakBhai :Sharhin Film Din
#Tanhaji
VERY IMPRESSIVE MOVIE a gsky film din Tanhaji the unsung warrior ya hadu ainun shiri ne da aka tsara labarinsa da kyau ta inda bazaka so matsawa wani waje ba yayin kallansa zakuma ka ringa kosawa wajan san ganin wuri na gaba daga farkonsa har izuwa karshe komai yayi, kama daga rawar da jarumai suka taka, bayarda umarni da da sauransu, rawarda Ajay, Saif, Kajol da Sharad Kelkar suka taka a bangarorinsu kusan ba wani jarumi ko yan wasa dazakai tunanin zasu fisu dacewa...
Bayan nasarar Bahubaali film din South da akayi Padmavaat masu sharhi dayawa sun Bayyana Padmavaat amatsayin Tamkar da Bahubaali yan South sun kalubalanci yan North wato Bollywood Kan salon iya finafinan yaki ne inda suka Bayyana Padmavaat amatsayin mayarda jawabi ga masana'antun South... Ni a ganina Tanhaji shine amsar Bollywood ga masana'antun kudancin indiya ta fuskar finafinan yaki..
So masoya finafinan kudancin indiya I respect Bahubaali 1da2...ba Ina magana bane Kan kawo kudin film ba Dan Finafinai da sukayi nasarar girgiza Box Office unexpected irin Bahubaali a Tarihin Finafinan indiya kadan NE irinsu Mughal E Azam, Sholey, Hum Aapke Hain Koun.. Maganar tsaruwa da kayatarda mai kallo yasa na kwatanta su.... Wanda ke tantama kan kayatuwa da kyan shirin Tanhaji Yana iya naimansa ya masa kallo a hankalce na Natsuwa Dan tabbatarda kyawunsa..
Naba Tanhaji taurari5*cikin5*
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PURIFICATION OF OUR HEARTS



PURIFICATION OF OUR HEARTS

 Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem. 

Our beloved Messenger of ALLAH (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) was asked: “Who are the best type of people?” He replied: “A person who is truthful in his speech and Makhmoom in his heart.” the companions asked: “We know what is truthful speech, but what is a Makhmoom heart?” He (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) responded: “It is a pure pious heart that does not have envy, evil or spite.” [Ibn Maajah]. 
May ALLAH have mercy on us and forgive our sins. May ALLAH aid us to forgive those who have wrong us and those we've wronged. Aameen.
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```Assalamu Alaikum
Allah ya kara wa Malam lafiya, gameda aiki ga matar aure wadanne sharudda ne ya kamata a gaya mata ta kiyaye kamar aikin koyarwa a Makaranta.```


_*ANSWER:*_
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ﻭﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ ﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ ﻭﺭﺣﻤﺔ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ.
ﺍﻟﺤﻤﺪ ﻟﻠﻪ ﺭﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ، ﻭﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺳﻴﺪﻧﺎ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﻭﻋﻠﻰ ﺁﻟﻪ ﻭﺻﺤﺒﻪ ﺃﺟﻤﻌﻴﻦ، ﻭﺑﺎﻟﻠﻪ ﺍﻟﺘﻮﻓﻴﻖ،


Ya halasta matar aure tana iya fita zuwa aiki, amma a karkashin wasu sharudda. Idan ta cika kuma ta kiyaye wadannan sharruda, toh ya halasta ta fita zuwa aiki. Sharuddan sune kamar haka:

*1.* Wajibi ne ta samu izini da kuma amincewar mijinta game da fita zuwa aiki. 

*2.* Ya kasance tana so tayi aikin ne domin ta samu kudin da zatayi wasu buqatun rayuwar ta wadanda basu sabawa shara'ah ba, kuma mijinta bashida halin yi mata.

*3.* Dole ne aikin ya kasance aiki ne da yadace da mata, kamar likitanci, ungozumanci (nursing and midwifery), karantarwa, dinki, da ire-iren su.

*4.* Dole ne aikin ya kasance a wuri ne na mata kadai. Kuma ya kasance babu cudanya da mazan da ba muharraman ta ba.

*5.* Dole ne ta kasance tana sanya Hijabin Musulunci (Hijabin da shara'ah ta yarda da shi).

*6.* Kuma kar aikin ya zama silar tayi tafiya mai nisa ba tareda muharramin ta ba. Kamar zuwa Seminar a wani gari.

*7.* Fitar ta zuwa wurin aikin kar yasa ta aikata wani aikin zunubi, Misali kamar ta kadaice da direba, ko ta sanya turare a wajen da mazan da ba muharraman ta ba zasuji kamshin sa.

*8.* Kuma ya zamana cewa aikin bai shagaltar da ita ba har takai ga yin sakaci ga ababen da sukafi zama tilas akan ta, kamar Kula da gidan ta, bawa Mijinta kulawa, da kuma kula da 'ya'yanta.

*Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saleh Al-Uthaymeen (rahimahullah)* yace: Wurin da mace take aiki ya kasance na mata ne kadai, kamar idan tana aikin karantar da yara mata, ko kuma tana aiki a gida na koyar da aikin tela na dinki, da sauran su. Amma yin aiki a fannin da ya kasance na maza ne wannan bai halasta agareta yin aiki anan, saboda aikin zaisa tayi ta'ammuli da maza, Wanda hakan kuma babbar fitina ce kuma dole a kauce wa wannan fitina. Ya tabbata cewa *Manzon Allah (ﷺ)* yace:

مَا تَرَكْتُ بَعْدِي فِتْنَةً أَضَرُّ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ وَأَنَّ فِتْنَةُ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ كَانَتْ فِي النِّسَاءِ.

_Ban bar wata fitina a bayana ba, mai cutarwa ga maza da ta wuce mata ba, kuma fitinar banu Israa'ila ta kasance a mata ne._ 

Saboda haka mutum ya tseratar da iyalan sa daga wuraren afkuwar fitina domin tana iya afkuwa ne ta kowace irin siga.
_*(Fataawa Al-mar'atul Muslimah, Mujalladi na 2, Shafi na981).*_
 
Saboda haka Idan mace ta cika wadannan sharudda, toh babu laifi zata iya yin aikin ta inshaa Allah.



 والله أعلم،

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سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك أشهد أن لا إله إلا انت أستغفرك وأتوب إليك.

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ILLAR ZARGI A TSAKANIN MA'AURATA


ILLAR ZARGI TSAKANIN MA'AURATA:

              ・ILLAR ZARGI TSAKANIN MA'AURATA・

Yau zan danyi tsokacine akan zargi. Wannan kalma ta zargi ba kalma ce me dadi ba, sai dai duk da haka mutane a yau sun doru a kai, ba fa mace ba ba ga namiji ba.

Muna cikin wani zamani na rashin yadda yayi yawa cikin al’umma musamman ga ma’aurata ,wadanda su aka fi so su yadda da junansu fiye da kowa a duniya,sai gashi a yau mace bata yadda da mijinta ba miji bai yadda da matarsa ba.



Duk macen da za ta kasance me zargi to kuwa dole za ta zama marar wadatar zuci, don a duk lokacin da miji ya yi mata alheri to fa gani za ta yi ya yi wa wata dubunsa, wannan zai sa ba za ta yaba ba balle ta yi godiya. Mu sa ni a mafi yawan lokuta mu ke haddasa wa kanmu matsaloli wanda ba za mu iya shawo kansu ba. Mace ta sa ni mijinta shi ne mutum na farko da zai zamo amintaccenta sai kuma yaranta su biyo baya, haka shi miji wadannan su yakamata ya yarda da su ya kuma amince dasu saboda sune makusantansa fiye da kowa. Aure da yawa sun mutu, wasu sun samu tangarda an warware ,wasu har yanzu ana fuskantar matsala don ba a gano bakin zaren maganar ba duk a dalilin zargi. Mata mu gyara dabi’unmu akan mazajenmu musamman a bangaren abinda ya shafi zargi, duk wata mace rufin asirinta shi ne mijinta, gatanta kuma ya kasance cikin daraja a cikin al’umma, saboda haka mu rage zargi akan mazajenmu, mu kyautata musu zato me kyau a cikin rayuwarsu, hakan zai sa mace ta kasance abin kwatance a cikin al’umma.
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WASU MUGAYEN ƊABI'U DA YA KAMATA MATA SU KAUCE MUSU


Wasu Mugayen Dabi'un Da Ya Kamata Mata Su Kaucewa Yinsu:

Wani matsalar da akasarin mu mata muke fiskanta a lokuta da dama shine na rashin sanin yadda ya kamata mu zauna da mazajenmu, duk da yake wasu lokutan muna sane muke yin abunda muke domin cusgunawa mazajen namu.

Sau tari matan suka ingiza mazansu cikin kuncin da suke ciki a maimakon kokarin fiddasu. Haka kuma mata kanyi sanadiyar jawowa mazajensu matsala a wuraren aiyukansu kokuma a harkar kasuwancinsu.

Da akwai wasu lokuta mahimmai ga mata a wurin mazajensu da matan aure da damar gaske basu da masiyat mahimmancin wadannan lokutan a wajensu, don haka maimakon suyi amfani da wadannan lokatan wajen kwantarwa mazajensu hankula, sai kuma suyi abunda zai jawo bacin rai a garesu dama mazajen nasu.

Irin wadannan lokutan na tarairayan maza, mata sun maidasu ba a bakin komai suke ba, wasu matan ma basu san amfani ko kuma yadda zasu tafiyar da mazajensu a irin wadannan lokutan ba.

Da akwai lokutan da namiji baya bukatar yaji wani abu da zai tayar masa da hankali, da akwai lokacin da maigida yake bukatar jin labarin da zai farar ta masa rai, da kuma lokacin da yake son jin wata gulma daga gareki. Haka kuma maza suna da lokutan da suke bukatar jin mace tana musu hirar soyayya. Mata nawa ne sukasan irin wadannan lokutan kuma suke amfani da su yadda ya kamata?

Bari mu dauki lokacin da miji ya dawo gida bayan ya kammala kujuba-kujubansa na yau da kullum, a lokacin da ya dawo gida domin ya huta ko ya ci a binci. A irin wannan lokacin ya zamewa mace dole tayi la'akarin da wace irin siga mijin ya shigo gidan domin sanin yadda zaki tinkareshi da kuma irin hirar da ya kamata kiyi masa a wannan lokacin.

Kada ki sake ki baiwa mijinki labari mara dadi a lokacin daya sanya abnci a gaba zai ci, yin hakan zai iya hanashi cin abincin yadda ya kamata, bacin ran labarin kuma ya dantanta ne da kwatankwaci girman labarin, misali idan labari ne wanda ya shafi rashi rai kona dukiya labarine da zai iya sanya miji ya stame hannu daga abincin daya ke ci. Irin wannan halin na baiwa mazaje labari mara dadi a lokacin ma mai gida ya zauna cin abinci mu daukeshi tamkar wata ibada a garemu.
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